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Pickles.
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So im a soph in highschool, and I've never had a gf. Theres this girl I like right now and I kinda wanna ask her out, but 2-3 years after I graduate im moving outta PA and going to colorado (in the winters) and cali (in the summers). I kinda wanna gf but at the same time I don't. It just seems like a waste of time. I think I'd rather start my company, get a stable income and move out before that, relationships just seem like a cluster of bullshit (at least highschool ones, the ones after that seem pretty legit). Thoughts guys?

I would ask for serious answers but this is NS, so yeah.
Jan 28 2013 9:08PM
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Puns
Posts: 2052 - Karma: 429
Yoooo dawggggg those amount of years are a lot of years. You WILL end up wanting a relationship within that time span, whether now or later. The experience is just as important as all that other stuff you are worried about, don't worry. It's seems like a big deal but just do what you want, ask someone if they want to do that, and if you both do then woohooo and if they don't, well you're both glad you had the opportunity. It will probably seem like a random time in the future will be more perfect will stay in the future and you'll never get there
Jan 28 2013 9:10PM
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katie.
Posts: 2833 - Karma: 874
You're worried about getting a girlfriend because of your plans 2-3 years down the road? Don't be silly. Have fun, ask her out ..in all likelihood it'll be like any high school relationship. Fun and then it's over, and that's okay.
Jan 28 2013 9:11PM
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SeanTom
Posts: 7936 - Karma: 1,747
i stopped reading here
Jan 28 2013 9:11PM
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7springsprod
Posts: 2661 - Karma: 3,181
Relationships are in fact clusters of bullshit. Try not to worry about them, because they are not necessary by any means in high school. Especially if you plan on moving far away after HS. Im a senior in HS and I like this girl but it really wont matter when I move away to colorado for school next year.
Jan 28 2013 9:12PM
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roddy116
Posts: 10636 - Karma: 7,511
you got your adult life to start a "company" date that bitch.
Jan 28 2013 9:12PM
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ohmyglob8
Posts: 416 - Karma: 1,408
pee in her butt
Jan 28 2013 9:13PM
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987321654hgfd
Posts: 5133 - Karma: 5,447
Or you could just have fun and bang randos for the rest of your high school career. Your in 10th grade you got a lot of time left for relationships.
Jan 28 2013 9:14PM
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Steve-Brown
Posts: 1894 - Karma: 810
dude...quit being a puss and just go hang out with girls and hook up with them.
no need for a relationship. commitment is sick and all...but you get sick of it 8 months after it, and your plans for when you get out of highschool are great....but i've changed my plans once every year, i quit trying to plan my life, and just prepared for whatever life threw my way. just play it by ear, and get with ladies, no need for commitment, especially in highschool
plus, you have highschool parties, where the pussy has an excuse to get with anyone because it's "deeruunk"
Jan 28 2013 9:15PM
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Chief.
Posts: 276 - Karma: 399
fuck em and chuck em dawg
Jan 28 2013 9:15PM
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white+wolf
Posts: 874 - Karma: 492
the added stress of raising a child on top of maintaining a healthy relationship can be unbearable. I would suggest holding off until you are both mature enough to take on that kind of resposibility.
Jan 28 2013 9:16PM
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white+wolf
Posts: 874 - Karma: 492
the added stress of raising a child on top of maintaining a healthy relationship can be unbearable. I would suggest holding off until you are both mature enough to take on that kind of resposibility.
Jan 28 2013 9:16PM
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Lt-Aldo-Raine
Posts: 2309 - Karma: 120
Woah pump the brakes and keep the pickles in the jar pickles, date and fuck her man.
Jan 28 2013 9:18PM
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act.resist
Posts: 8875 - Karma: 513
uh...ok dude.
Jan 28 2013 9:19PM
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DANETRON
Posts: 6671 - Karma: 137
Pick up a girl when youre a sophmore in college until then fuck everything you might be inclined too.
Jan 28 2013 9:23PM
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smooticus
Posts: 1798 - Karma: 27
Dear lord, I swear you sound just like me 6 years ago. You want some real advice, when it comes to women, never ever ever pass on a good thing. If you think you would rather spend your high school years "sleeping around" then your being stupid. Relationships are full of bullshit, girls can be incredibly irrational, but that's life, call it training and you'll be a better man for it. Also, I would like to point out that sex is always better when you get to practice with the same person over and over, like a LOT better.
Jan 28 2013 9:28PM
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Pickles.
Posts: 63 - Karma: 61
this sounds legit
Jan 28 2013 9:31PM
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@+=~
Posts: 192 - Karma: 18
pfffffffft... non-ski grabber
heh heh
Jan 28 2013 10:02PM
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JakeBarrett
Posts: 1237 - Karma: 1,843
why? I'm a sophmore and i'm in the steadiest relationship of my life. Honestly, my advice to you is to become friends with the girl first, then try to ease it into a relationship. Only danger is friendzone. But trust me, its worth it.
Jan 28 2013 10:06PM
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BigScaryLarry
Posts: 1448 - Karma: 2,732
relaitionships = practice and everyone knows hat practice makes perfect. so hop on that
Jan 28 2013 10:07PM
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MNS
Posts: 5386 - Karma: 3,241
no one has said pee in her butt yet.


Jan 28 2013 10:11PM
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LiquorLanch
Posts: 1909 - Karma: 1,046
This. Banging the same girl fo days with emotion involved (ie you care about her and ahe cares about you) is tons better than some random loose hoebag
Jan 28 2013 10:12PM
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BasedSwag
Posts: 53 - Karma: 11
another terrible thread
Jan 28 2013 10:14PM
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Seth.S
Posts: 630 - Karma: 1,631
Just go for it. Especially if you think you will say yes.
Jan 28 2013 10:14PM
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ForeverYung
Posts: 8385 - Karma: 2,060
Shits old yo
Jan 28 2013 10:30PM
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grapejuice3000+
Posts: 2132 - Karma: 1,985
lol i wish you luck finding the money to live in colorado and cali right out of high school
Jan 28 2013 10:31PM
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7springsprod
Posts: 2661 - Karma: 3,181
You are so cool.
Jan 28 2013 10:33PM
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Spen
Posts: 335 - Karma: 59
Your "company" can wait, get your tip wet kid. and plus, you sound really irritating pretending like this girl who you havn't started dating remotely wants a 2-3 year realationship when you havn't busted a nut yet. Chill out and ask her out!
Jan 28 2013 10:35PM
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alex=
Posts: 1738 - Karma: 2,835
this guy hit it on the head
Jan 28 2013 10:38PM
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Nacho+
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Jan 28 2013 10:40PM
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bangarangmules
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Better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all...assuming your life follows the plan that you made your sophomore year of high school to a T.
Jan 28 2013 10:40PM
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Barefootin_Fiend
Posts: 7618 - Karma: 4,727
didn't read the thread, but when I was that age I went through probably 3-4 girlfriends in that time span. i wouldn't neglect pussy because you're leaving years down the road. chances are, you won't still be with them by then anyway. and if you wait until way later in life to begin relationships, you're going to make a lot of "noob" mistakes at a point in your life when you should be past that kind of stuff.

my advice, fuck anything and everything you can while you're young.
Jan 28 2013 10:51PM
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--ski--
Posts: 1670 - Karma: 817
If you want to ask her out, just do it. Stop beating around the bush,.
Jan 28 2013 11:07PM
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roddy116
Posts: 10636 - Karma: 7,511
what you did there































i see it
Jan 28 2013 11:09PM
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.R-Lohin
Posts: 1686 - Karma: 117
Nah, having a girlfriend is pretty sick
Jan 28 2013 11:14PM
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DANETRON
Posts: 6671 - Karma: 137
Most good stable jobs you wont be able to wander. Thats seasonal work territory and we all know the majority of those jobs suck/arent careers
Jan 29 2013 12:27AM
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.Apex.
Posts: 2097 - Karma: 1,556
You're a sophomore, like more than likely youre gonna bang this chick for a couple months and break up. If youre really together 2 or so years from now then you'll figure something out to make it work but like really.... you got time
Jan 29 2013 12:48AM
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SFB
Posts: 8895 - Karma: 26,354
What is a snozberry?
Jan 29 2013 12:54AM
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Sophistication.
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Jan 29 2013 1:12AM
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skier_boy26
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I 'got' a girlfriend when I happened to be a sophomore in highschool. Had no idea what I was doing. Nearly 9 years later, best relationship ever & couldn't be happier. Never planned for it. It happened. But then again, I wasn't some pussy who spelled the word 'fuck' as "f*ck" and who wouldn't ask a girl out because I was using too many mind.
Jan 29 2013 1:13AM
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HalfandHalf
Posts: 1216 - Karma: 207
gf later in college.
hs relationships are a lot of bs to deal with. not getting is easiest
Jan 29 2013 1:20AM
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daannnnieel
Posts: 5163 - Karma: 4,293
This made me laugh. Mind you i'm probably in the situation, but whatever.



If you like the female, and she likes you, and yo don't feel like hooking up with a bunch of girls at parties and whatnot, date the girl.
Jan 29 2013 3:12AM
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act.resist
Posts: 8875 - Karma: 513
...the snozberries taste like snozberries!
Jan 29 2013 1:43PM
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snwbrdmilf
Posts: 22441 - Karma: 2,806
Your icon should definitely be Gene Wilder.
Jan 29 2013 1:51PM
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act.resist
Posts: 8875 - Karma: 513
you're right. that was gus's fault
Jan 29 2013 2:12PM
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KZA
Posts: 3304 - Karma: 301
In the exact same boat. Junior year and 8 years later here we are!

Never know where you'll find the right girl.
Jan 29 2013 2:41PM
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Huck_Norris
Posts: 11487 - Karma: 18,627

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You are ovethinking the shit out of this.  Just let the dick take it from here, man. 

Jan 29 2013 2:45PM
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.AR6rider.
Posts: 15976 - Karma: 8,799
Holy shit. Are you me?
Jan 29 2013 2:51PM
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fupaface
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Jan 29 2013 2:52PM
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Funkadelic
Posts: 1967 - Karma: 391
If I hadn't dated girls in high school I would have had no idea what I was doing later in life. I didn't date girls in high school because I thought I was going to marry them, or even be with them a year later. High schools just all about having fun. It's fun to hook up with a girl in your parents basement when you're 16.
Jan 29 2013 3:01PM
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razors-chaz
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Had a similar situation (but shorter timescale). I had been fucking this girl for about 4 weeks and was going graduate uni and leave for canada in 9 months. She asked for some commitment and I didnt want to get to the end of the 9 months and have some over emotional break up as i blindside her with moving half way across the world. I agreed on seeing her properly with the understanding that it wasnt going to go further than the end of the uni year. She accepted it and 4 months later and we're both very happly together. for your situation I wouldnt say to her about the 2-3 year plans as its frightening to anybody that you're thinking about relationships that far down the line. Just go for it and see how it goes and if you do get that far and dont see it going further, dont wait too long to tell her. Like others have said you're thinking too far ahead with this, just go for it see how it goes and enjoy it.
Jan 29 2013 4:09PM
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