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Pre-Marital sex?

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tinkytwinky
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I've always told myself that i am going to remain abstinent for my future wife, but recent circumstances are begging to change my ideology.

My girlfriend of 3 years (no pics will be posted) really wants to have sex, she says its a normal thing to do, especially since we have gone out for so long and are very committed to each other. I don't know if she's the one though so i am really hesitant to make love to her.


All my friends keep telling me to "pork her" and that sex is amazing, but i am worried i may be filled with guilt if i betray my pre-marital abstinence.

Has anyone here been in a similar situation before? help me!
Jan 4 2013 8:24PM
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Fonzy.
Posts: 216 - Karma: 30
Go for it.
Jan 4 2013 8:25PM
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theabortionator
Posts: 51595 - Karma: 161,755
If you don't fuck her I certainly will
Jan 4 2013 8:26PM
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Petey.
Posts: 5736 - Karma: 4,885
Do it man, penetrate her with your pork sword.

you really won't give a fuck afterwards about that "saving yourself" nonsense. if you truly like this girl now, you can always look back on it without regrets, as long as you're not handing over the v-card to a one night stand slut. trust me
Jan 4 2013 8:27PM
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clive_bixby
Posts: 1834 - Karma: 499
Says the guy with the huge ass icon.
Jan 4 2013 8:27PM
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clive_bixby
Posts: 1834 - Karma: 499
Troll thread
Jan 4 2013 8:28PM
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bigbromskier
Posts: 1175 - Karma: 330
i'd say you'll only be filled with self-guilt for depriving yourself of sex for so long.
Jan 4 2013 8:29PM
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line686
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Jan 4 2013 8:29PM
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jaredmdub
Posts: 2229 - Karma: 564
it's not pre-marital sex if you don't plan on marrying her...
Jan 4 2013 8:30PM
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WestWoods
Posts: 960 - Karma: 414
You made a goal and a promise to yourself, no one is going to become the man you are.. you make that decision, if you have felt and still feel really strong about not having sex then be that man and hold strong to it. I personally regret just having sex with girls, and even girls I thought where the ones at a time. People make fun of it, but if you really want a woman you marry to be a virgin the girl would probably want that too. Also then you don't have to worry about if your wife sucks in bed because you wont know any better haha just my two cents If you want to be the man that just penetrates her deep HAVE AT IT!

Jan 4 2013 8:30PM
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fupaface
Posts: 810 - Karma: 449
anal, because it doesn't count
Jan 4 2013 8:30PM
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jaredmdub
Posts: 2229 - Karma: 564
the poophole is not a loophole my friend
Jan 4 2013 8:31PM
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RimJobber
Posts: 3313 - Karma: 10,058
Don't do it bro. I heard if you make it to 50 you become a wizard.
Jan 4 2013 8:31PM
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Chunter
Posts: 2050 - Karma: 1,894
do this to her bum.

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Jan 4 2013 8:33PM
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DANETRON
Posts: 6671 - Karma: 137
Bang her like a hammer. If you dont shell just get it else where cause obviously she wants it. Plus sex is fun
Jan 4 2013 8:33PM
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PJS.
Posts: 11943 - Karma: 895
Quit being a bitch.


What are you looking forward to? Finishing in two seconds as you're more experienced wife looks on with a disappointed look on her face?
Jan 4 2013 8:34PM
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james6345789
Posts: 4763 - Karma: 467
Post this in Ladies Men if you want a real answer.
Jan 4 2013 8:35PM
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theabortionator
Posts: 51595 - Karma: 161,755
No really?

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Not like it was obvious or anything.


Jan 4 2013 8:35PM
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PJS.
Posts: 11943 - Karma: 895
lol status says "officially married"

Jan 4 2013 8:37PM
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Broommasta
Posts: 764 - Karma: 56
honestly sex and blowjobs and stuff is all over rated, ya it feels good but nothing you cant recreate with your hand, lube and imagination. its just bragging rights for the most part. thats my view anyway
Jan 4 2013 8:38PM
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theabortionator
Posts: 51595 - Karma: 161,755
Watching people have sex on your computer screen while jacking off your 12 year old wiener =/= actually sticking your dick in a woman, man, goat etc.


That's my view anyway
Jan 4 2013 8:41PM
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Broommasta
Posts: 764 - Karma: 56
see, you just sound cooler.
Jan 4 2013 8:42PM
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VT_FLO
Posts: 3806 - Karma: 147
Anal doesn't count, so just do anal until you're married. (if you want a serious answer go to Ladies Men)
Jan 4 2013 8:44PM
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steezywannabeezy
Posts: 990 - Karma: 690
I was raised in a pastor family, morals, etc. that being said I've had sex maybe 100 times and I don't regret it. I'm not against saving yourself for marriage, but personally I think you should test drive a car before you pay thousands of dollars.
Jan 4 2013 8:48PM
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andy_boy
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Jan 4 2013 8:52PM
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Sno.
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birthday sex...birthday sex....birthday sex
Jan 4 2013 8:54PM
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Dustin.
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Well since I'm actually married, I can tell you that the "saving yourself" idea is (in my opinion) unnatural and archaic. As long as sex is safe and genuine, I see no problem. You will learn a lot about each other and you remove the pressure of having sex from the marriage picture. 3 years seems like a solid relationship, I think you'll be happy if you share that with her.
Jan 4 2013 8:56PM
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Crispy.
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Dudes are cool too i guess.
Jan 4 2013 8:56PM
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nagger
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I'm assuming that's your girl in your icon
Jan 4 2013 8:57PM
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jeb_b_vt
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i lol'd so hard
Jan 4 2013 8:57PM
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jeb_b_vt
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thats what i lol'd at
Jan 4 2013 9:00PM
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Ribss.
Posts: 3442 - Karma: 3,344
No, there is an emotional connection developed between two people who engage in intercourse. You cant develop an emotional connection with your hand.
Jan 4 2013 9:04PM
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Broommasta
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i dunno man me and lisa ann have this unspoken connection i just cant describe.
Jan 4 2013 9:07PM
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Lansfield
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says what law
Jan 4 2013 9:07PM
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theabortionator
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Jan 4 2013 9:09PM
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Mr.Gaga
Posts: 2021 - Karma: 542
I just died ahahah

But srsly do this.
Jan 4 2013 9:16PM
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[hamnuts]
Posts: 2356 - Karma: 439
If you're truly in love and committed to her then why not? Its not like you're losing your virginity to some skank you met 10 minutes before - she's actually worth it.
Jan 4 2013 9:19PM
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Casey
Posts: 7844 - Karma: 24,253
Because he promised himself he wouldn't. I mean morality is pretty relative in my opinion but if there is one objective thing about it you can point to its sticking to what you said you were going to do. Don't get me wrong he should definitely fuck her but you did ask why not.
Jan 4 2013 9:40PM
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Abu_Hajaar
Posts: 2749 - Karma: 3,907
Don't take advice from the internet.
Jan 4 2013 9:42PM
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Sno.
Posts: 12155 - Karma: 6,152
ahahahaha...stop trying to talk such a big game
Jan 4 2013 9:42PM
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SkiBum.
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Mo Mo...
Jan 4 2013 9:53PM
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roddy116
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hey what happens happens, abstinence isnt the "loser" way. in fact i would say it takes more to wait until marriage. also i would think their are some mental and physical benefits to abstinence or pre marital sex.
Jan 4 2013 9:55PM
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BrewskiJr
Posts: 5738 - Karma: 1,478
It's sad to say, but if you don't have sex with her the odds are high she will end up cheating on you. Some people may hate this but I'm being real. If you can't satisfy your partners sexual needs they will eventually break and find a way to do it. Aka bang someone else
Jan 4 2013 10:10PM
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Wallisch_pl
Posts: 5260 - Karma: 1,022
yeah, force your girlfriend to do anal until you marry her
Jan 4 2013 10:12PM
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accualyisdolan
Posts: 3295 - Karma: -192
Icon of girls ass in bikini...
Virgin....
WHAT?
Jan 4 2013 10:15PM
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Sno.
Posts: 12155 - Karma: 6,152
well if he held out, and she cheated on him, then he should thank his lucky stars that he didn't give it up to her. 
Jan 4 2013 10:16PM
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accualyisdolan
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Fulfill all your wishes with my taco flavored kisses!
Jan 4 2013 10:27PM
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gengar.
Posts: 1042 - Karma: 1,641
this is pretty true, not saying that i would go cheat on my boyfriend if i was in that situation... but i would be pretty pissed off if my boyfriend of 3 years wouldnt have sex with me.

Jan 4 2013 10:36PM
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tinkytwinky
Posts: 2450 - Karma: 1,566
But say i was your boyfriend and found you very attractive but i have my reasons. Would you leave me?


Jan 4 2013 10:48PM
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gengar.
Posts: 1042 - Karma: 1,641
depends on the situation and how big of a connection i had with you. probably not, but regardless... i would have to satisfy my sexual needs in other ways. some of which may not be okay with you.
Jan 4 2013 10:51PM
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Sno.
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no. fuck no. there's other things you can do.
Jan 4 2013 10:52PM
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