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This is embarrassing as all hell,

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I-dont-even-know
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but I don't know how to ask a girl out, and i'm like half way through highschool. Hence why i'm on an alias. I don't know what to say, and I really don't know what to do do if I get shot down, I know for a fact the girl likes me because she blatantly said it, I just don't know if I did, or want to miss my chance which is what i've done damn near every time in the past because i'm a bitch. I'm incredibly timid, and pretty much just steer clear of drama, and females for that matter.


I did searchbar this, and nothing popped up.


Thanks to the non-trolling responses guys, I really do appreciate it.
Dec 12 2012 1:13AM
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e_strapp
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Just do it, man
Dec 12 2012 1:15AM
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SkiinTrigga
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Based on the fact that you just pointed out every fault in your method (Timid etc.) You didn't need to post this.
Dec 12 2012 1:15AM
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Spinoza
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i liked a girl, we were good friends, i waited for weeks to ask her to prom. everyone in the school including her knew it was coming. a dude asked her out the night before i finally did, and he did it via msn messenger.
after i asked her she said i should have asked her the day before and she would have said yes.

talk about regrets.
go for it dawg
Dec 12 2012 1:15AM
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Puns
Posts: 2052 - Karma: 429
I know the feel. If she told you she liked you, and you like her, I would really just be logical with yourself. Ask her if she wants to be in a relationship, or even just hang out. There's nothing bad about asking her; just respect her answer. If she wants to hang out or go out, she will be glad that you asked! Think about if she was feeling the same way towards you; you'd be thrilled right?
Dec 12 2012 1:16AM
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Cat_Steezens
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here's what you do.

next time you see her ask her for her number. once received said number, send the girl a pic of your dick and balls.

if she doesn't reply it's probably because she's a little shy too so send her more pics.

bitches love dick and balls.

/thread
Dec 12 2012 1:17AM
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Lucas
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will you be my blow me?
Dec 12 2012 1:18AM
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I-dont-even-know
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you guys covered literally everything and more that was posted, but this is the only part that I keep drawing a blank on.
Dec 12 2012 1:20AM
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Puns
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You: "Hey, how's it going"
Her: "I am well thank you"
You: "Shall we date?"
Her: "Verily"

then you take off your clothes.
Dec 12 2012 1:21AM
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deleted5
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here's what you do, go out into your town on a weekend and talk to ugly/fat girls and walk away with there number. don't call them back because they are fat and ugly aka not real people. walk up to them and say something like i like your shoes then keep talking but because they are not hot you wont feel as jumpy after a night of doing it. you will learn it's really not that hard. just talk to your girl about anything tv your new thing you bought with all of your money and huge penis. how you got a B on a paper and it was bull shit because it should of been an A who gives a fuck, it doesn't matter. after talking for about 5 mins just ask to do something out side of school but talk it up and make sure she knows its not a friends thing. IE lets go out to a restaurant that will be so nice and classy they wont even ID us when we buy 20$ martinis. then i like to use the term wine and dine the shit out of you, somewhere in the convo. if you really don't know where to start feel free to tell me a little more about this girl and i can give you some ideas. BECAUSE I AM THE BEST WING MAN EVER.
Dec 12 2012 1:26AM
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*Bird
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^. also just gota do it mang worlds ending
Dec 12 2012 1:33AM
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Spinoza
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this so much. girls that you know you cant be with are so much easier to talk to. its really dumb
Dec 12 2012 1:37AM
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deleted5
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just for you op i just did this for you took me 4 mins at 1am ny time. THATS MOTIVATION IF AN KID WHO HAS THE SPELLING AND GRAMMAR OF A 5TH GRADER CAN GET BITCHES SO CAN YOU NOW GO OUT THERE AND GET SOME VAGINA. o and by the way i lied shes not my hs crush but you should lie too and make girl feel good about herself

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Dec 12 2012 1:47AM
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Cat_Steezens
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/thread
Dec 12 2012 2:00AM
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theabortionator
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Ask her over yahoo pool, bitches love yahoo pool
Dec 12 2012 2:07AM
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artfullydodged
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Just ask her man. Just ask.
Dec 12 2012 2:14AM
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YoungDaysMedia
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so much win
Dec 12 2012 2:19AM
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Puns
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Dec 12 2012 2:19AM
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LIL_WAT
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Good man. This should help OP big-time.

OP, just go for it. Its HIGH SCHOOL ffs. You won't regret much that you actually did in a few years time, only what you didn't do but wish you had.
Dec 12 2012 2:19AM
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RedEyeTheJedi
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If your that nervous drink a fifth then call and ask her. That will get your confidence up for sure.
Dec 12 2012 2:20AM
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feihlination
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for me it just took some time to get it done. obviously i was still nervous, but i feel like as i grew older, i was more self-conscious and mature enough to tell a girl how i felt
Dec 12 2012 6:39AM
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7springsprod
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Best answer in this thread.
Dec 12 2012 6:55AM
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Uah
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1. Strike up a conversation
2. When you have reached a high note say
"Hey lets hang out tonight."
3. She will say
"What do you want to do?"
4. You say
"Fuck it lets go bowling"
5. Profit with no mystery steps because you are amazing
Dec 12 2012 8:12AM
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BrewskiJr
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Honestly man the easiest way is to get people your comfortable with and go out as a group(guys and girls). Then there is no pressure to impress here 1v1 but it makes it so much easier to strike up conversations and what not. Just make sure your boys know she's yours
Dec 12 2012 8:59AM
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H8CH
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Dec 12 2012 9:14AM
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coolflash8
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i dont have time to write my story about learning not to pussy our. but dude, ask while you can, whats the worst u can get? you have nothing to lose. she'll probably know u r nervous but she will be cool with it if she likes you. just be like, "do you want to do something this weekend" and dont do a movie, do something cooler. like a hike and dinner or a dance class or something memorable! thanks my best advice
Dec 12 2012 9:20AM
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Bogs
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always a tough situation man, unfortunately, as guys, society tells us this is the kind of thing we are supposed to be able to do/have to do. sucks sometimes.

but, trust me, asking and getting rejected is nowhere near as bad as not asking at all and regretting it forever.
Dec 12 2012 9:38AM
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Ryguy920
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I feel you bro, I asked a girl to homecoming and she had been asked by another guy literally fifteen minutes before I did. Shit sucks
Dec 12 2012 9:45AM
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HenniferLopez
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lolzzzz
Dec 12 2012 10:45AM
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bdarb207
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Just do it. Worst case scenario she says no and in the end I guarantee you still feel better about yourself because ou nutred up and did it. Being turned down for a date is not that bad. Being dumped and cheated on after years is. Very different. Jut go for it, you'll be happy you did no matter what s he says.
Dec 12 2012 12:12PM
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Stickity
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NOW HOW ABOUT YOU?
Dec 12 2012 1:25PM
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Deluge
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Just go for it man, as much as this sometimes is annoying to hear but you gotta just nut up and do it. Stepping out of your comfort zone can really do a lot for you and can be the start to something awesome. I was like you and one day I decided that being shy and overly-timid wasnt going to get me anywhere with girls, popularity, ect. You can do it bro, good luck.
Dec 12 2012 3:33PM
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Forcillo
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I'm gonna say something that hasn't been touched upon in this thread.
Scenario 1

You while in nice conversation: "Hey wanna go on a date this weekend? We could go hiking and grab lunch afterward too."
Her: *giggle* "Yeah sure that would be fun."
Proceed to get her lips wrapped around the d.

Scenario 2

You while in nice conversation: "Hey wanna go on a date this weekend? We could go hiking and grab lunch afterward too."
Her: "I'd actually rather not do that right now, I'm not ready for a relationship." Or whatever they say in a form of a rejection.

I've found that if I like a girl but not act upon it, it nags me all the time. Then she'll get with another guy and I'm a jealous motherfucker. But if I get to know the girl and ask her out but she says no, you can just move on. It's a win-win situation.

Win #1: Yo dick be moist
Win #2: You move on to another chick and you feel a little depressed for like 2 days.

My point is that if you ask her and get rejected, it's SO MUCH EASIER TO GET OVER HER. Just do it man, you'll feel so much better about it.
Dec 12 2012 5:13PM
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Tall_Paul
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Just ask her if she's free this weekend. If she says yes then ask if she wants to do something, then proceed to ask for her number. You'll be nervous but once you do it you'll be glad you did. Best of luck my friend
Dec 12 2012 7:20PM
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Forcillo
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Well OP said she likes him so I don't see how that would be a factor.
Dec 12 2012 7:21PM
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EvanWalz
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This thread is legit. We all know your pain. Wether people admit it or not everyone goes through these problems. The easiest thing is to just go for it. Just talk about how you like her, how you feel, etc. Then right when she's saying that she likes you too, say That you want to hang out sometime. Ask her to a movie, bowling, whatever she likes as long as it's something SHE would want to do. You said you know she likes you so obviously she's gonna say yes (unless she ratchet). So just go for it, keep a positive mindset and let ns know when you guys are facebook ofish.
Dec 12 2012 7:28PM
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deleted5
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Not true if your trying to pick up girls, and think you'er an ugly fuck and can't do it then yeah thats going to matter. i wouldn't say I'm that good looking no girl ever goes omg i want to bang that guy he's so hot when i walk into a room, but i still bang hot girls (CLAIM) because i know im the shit and if a girl doesn't want to go out on a date with me its her loss.
Dec 12 2012 7:30PM
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EvanWalz
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Confidence. He's a classy Hombre
Dec 12 2012 7:33PM
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slugworth
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finger bang her.










For reals though, just go for it. Best case scenario you get to date a girl you like, worst case you get rejected and move on with your life.
Dec 12 2012 7:35PM
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GEORGEzimmerman
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thats it
Dec 12 2012 8:12PM
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whoa-dere
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the first time i asked a girl out i got rejected. that SHATTERED my confidence and i was never the same again...
Dec 12 2012 8:14PM
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grapejuice3000+
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dont put it off, thats when shit changes which sucks and you dont want that. just go for it, if she says no its not that big of a deal
Dec 12 2012 9:18PM
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Colin@injured
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...and I lost it here
Dec 12 2012 9:30PM
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..AR6rider..
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This reminds me of the time I met a girl in prison. She had beautiful brown eyes, a great smile, and an ass that would make a rhino do a backflip. I asked if she could drive me and my friends home and she said yes. Then I asked her on a date, and you know what? She said yes to that too. We ended up eating ice cream and talking about weed and that night I stuck my penis in her. Twice.

Sack up lil nigga, you got this.
Dec 12 2012 9:44PM
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Leafs2323
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just pee in her butt
Dec 12 2012 10:04PM
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manutdsaol
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I've never asked a girl out either and I'm 16, I don't care so I don't feel the need to use an alias. I don't know, I just don't no if the right girl has come along yet (or at least one that will say yes). I guess at some point I'll just have to balls up and maybe get rejected. I'm a pretty awkward conversationalist so it's probably going to be pretty embarrassing.
Dec 12 2012 10:39PM
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manutdsaol
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Oh wait haha I actually got rejected last year once, I guess I just tried to put it out of my mind. I pulled the "Are we dating?" line wayyyyy to soon, and she said no. Pretty awk, never talked to her again. Never asked a girl out since for fear of the same rejection.
Dec 12 2012 10:43PM
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Colin@injured
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you my friend probably have really good grades
Dec 13 2012 7:50PM
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manutdsaol
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Haha how did you know?
Dec 13 2012 8:27PM
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Colin@injured
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if only school was measured in how good you are with women
Dec 13 2012 8:55PM
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KJacks
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I gave up on the whole relationship thing a while ago, to much time and effort.
Dec 13 2012 8:58PM
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