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walshie
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I know that NSG is probably not the most ideal spot for a thread like this but here it goes....

I know I have done it before and probably would do it again except when you are in that position you know how shitty it feels.

I am talking about when you are having a conversation with someone and they just are a straight dickhead and it wouldn't typically bother you except something bad has happened in your life and your mind is on that.

Example: Just last night I saw a girl, Emily, that I have been kinda off and on with all year since college began and well she was with this other girl and my RA. Anyway, supposedly she waved to me and stuff but I didn't respond. I was drunk and high (stupid) trying to come to terms with the action that my friend took the other day.
My friend tried to kill himself and thank god was unsuccessful. He is currently in the hospital. Anyway this is basically the only thing on my mind. Why would my best friend ever want to end his good life. So I clearly wasn't thinking right..

Later I get a text from emily and she says you are an asshole. I said sorry what are you talking about, she said think about it fucking asshole. I just ignored it and drank some more because I can't deal with stupid shit right now.

Now today she texts me and wanted to go somewhere for lunch and to go shopping. I texted her like 4 hrs later and told her I was asleep, she asked if I was feeling sick, I said no just sick to my stomach about my friend and she responded by saying you're friends sick too. what did u do make out with him. I said actually my best friend tried to kill himself yesterday and is the hospital. So sorry I haven't been thinking coherently.....

Either way y'all should really think about what you say to people. You have no idea where they are emotionally, they can be dealing with some serious shit and don't want to deal with stupid bullshit.
Dec 7 2012 3:32PM
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Hammyslapwagon
Posts: 1261 - Karma: 1,409
So ignore her? I don't get it, why do you even continue to talk to her. 
Dec 7 2012 3:36PM
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InFlames
Posts: 534 - Karma: -25
People are just cunts in general. If everyone was just niiiiice, life would be a lot easier. But they're not, and you have to separate yourself from those parasitic toxic scum.


chin up brudda
Dec 7 2012 3:36PM
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Broommasta
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thanks man this is a good reminder.
Dec 7 2012 3:40PM
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Forcillo
Posts: 3801 - Karma: 3,580
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What was her response anyways?
Dec 7 2012 3:43PM
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128368798788
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this girl sounds retarded
Dec 7 2012 3:46PM
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theBearJew
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was this the girl you got to be your date? or did you never get a date?
Dec 7 2012 3:48PM
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walshie
Posts: 743 - Karma: 628
different girl, and thanks guys. I'm going through a tough time in my life. 1 week of finals then I'm going home and will be on the snow..

Family is everything and money is less important. You are gonna make more money so you should just spend it on stuff that makes you happy. Life is short and nothing matters except that your momma loves you don't need to love a woman. Do what makes you happy and don't stress about the small things. Positive attitude that you are healthy and thats all that matters.
Dec 7 2012 4:32PM
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GayWolf420
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She just sounds like a grade A cunt. Who the fuck gets that mad over someone not waving back accidentally.
Dec 7 2012 4:43PM
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chilling
Posts: 83 - Karma: 10
dude why did you steal my icon?
Dec 7 2012 4:45PM
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Dragonite.
Posts: 1657 - Karma: 431
This. She probably thinks she's the greatest girl in the world and is pissed you denied her. Fuck that bitch.
Dec 7 2012 4:46PM
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Bob_Loblaw
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Cunt? Bitch? Seems like she just responded the way any girl would if they thought you were blowing her off. She was probably embarrassed because she was with her friends. How is she supposed to know about your friend? All you said was you were sick.

You know, your advice goes both ways...
Dec 7 2012 4:51PM
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.AR6rider.
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I'm glad you did the mature thing in this situation.
Dec 7 2012 4:53PM
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Spinoza
Posts: 12763 - Karma: 3,846
Yeah her woman logic style text that you were an asshole was out of line.
BUT you can't really blame her for the thing about making out with your friend, that seems okay. It was just bad luck that you were in that position at the time. Don't blame her for that
Dec 7 2012 4:54PM
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klayer_9
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i'm lost.
why did you make this thread?

Dec 7 2012 6:46PM
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