Eh, I don't blame you. I don't do much holiday stuff anymore.
I used to always go to family holiday stuff while my grandma was alive. And kind of thought my cousins were dicks for never coming up to her place. Now she is gone its the reverse THanksgiving is at my Uncles 300 miles away from home and I don't go. I mean I am not going to fly from the west coast to not even be home for Thanksgiving since obviously my friends and stuff aren't near my uncles. So basically I'll never have a normal THanksgiving again (I am sure I will go there one year.) Oh well. The option of having it at home in Boston doesn't exist I can't go to THansgiving eve get togethers to see friends from home and wake up to Turkey in my house hungover the next morning so fuck that.
Christmas it depends I might go back for it in the future depending on if I feel like it.