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Just got friend zoned.

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elemeno89
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I'm still in shock. Apparently did nothing wrong, but still... What the he'll...


Sorry for the post, but I at least need to vent somehow...
Nov 18 2012 11:39PM
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roddy116
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i like rocks
Nov 18 2012 11:40PM
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Sophistication.
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Pics of the bitch or it didnt happen
Nov 18 2012 11:40PM
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Peach.
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In all seriousness getting froendzoned blows sooooooo much and it probably isn't your fault. Even though people will tell you it is. It fucking sucks so hard. Keep our head up OP. It isn't the end of the world. Even though it probably feels like it.
Nov 18 2012 11:42PM
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elemeno89
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Won't do that. Haha sorry dude.
Nov 18 2012 11:43PM
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Sophistication.
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Damn, I was joking anyway
Nov 18 2012 11:45PM
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elemeno89
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I not depressed just confused. She tells me that it was never going to work out, but if that was the case then why did she go out with me the first time knowing full well. I kist feel like I'm wasted my time. Again. I'm just more confused than anything.
Nov 18 2012 11:45PM
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roddy116
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does she look like a rock?
Nov 18 2012 11:45PM
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SlimDunkin.
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forgot your has tag brah



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Nov 18 2012 11:45PM
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InFlames
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Don't complain about it, do something about it. Chances are one of two things happened. 1.) you didn't escalate when you should have and she stopped thinking of you as a potential mate or 2.) you escalated but not properly. Go look some stuff up, the friendzone only exists for those who let it. No man is imprisoned if his mind is free :)
Nov 18 2012 11:45PM
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elemeno89
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Nope. She looks like a girl.
Nov 18 2012 11:46PM
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shocker611
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theres got to be more to it than that.. did you just ask her out and she said no? Did you go in and she rejected you? What?  You don't just randomly get friendzoned suddenly, I dont get it
Nov 18 2012 11:46PM
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iSmokeweed
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i got friendzoned by a slut once. turned out to be a good thing.
Nov 18 2012 11:46PM
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roddy116
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oh well, alrighty then
Nov 18 2012 11:46PM
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Spinoza
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got friendzoned in July. havent talked to her since cause fuck that
Nov 18 2012 11:47PM
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GirthBrooks
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webb you look like a rock. anyway, that sucks.
Nov 18 2012 11:47PM
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roddy116
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i do, :(
Nov 18 2012 11:47PM
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Spinoza
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post a picture of him.
Nov 18 2012 11:49PM
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Peach.
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Glad to hear you're not depressed. Sometimes people are weird.
Nov 18 2012 11:49PM
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roddy116
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why, do you need it for your personal fap file?
Nov 18 2012 11:49PM
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elemeno89
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Well she agreed to go out with me because when we first met she thought I was a nice guy. She sees "no future" but wants to stay friends because she genuinely cares for me. She also mentioned that she chose not to see that. Idk I'm confused to all hell.

Another thing is that I want to get my rubbers back because i don't what some other dude using the tools that I bought. That and I want to use them eventually as well.
Nov 18 2012 11:51PM
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Peach.
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See his actions? Mirror them.
Nov 18 2012 11:51PM
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elemeno89
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Seems like I'm getting two different feelingS. One saying she wants to hangout, but not have sex? Idk. I just don't know...
Nov 18 2012 11:53PM
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SKI.ING
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Get better man.
Nov 18 2012 11:59PM
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shocker611
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yeah she just doesn't look at you as a mate man.  Just how it is, either go after her strong while you guys are drunk or just let it die and find another girl. 
Nov 19 2012 12:01AM
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BigDog
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Own it, and next thing you know she's telling all her even hotter friends about how much of a great guy you are ;)

Nov 19 2012 12:06AM
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oil.
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Being in the friend zone isn't so bad. For starters, you probably like this girl to care that you're in thefriendzone. Now, if you keep at it, she'll look at you as a shoulder, as a rock in her life. She'll gradually put more and more trust into you until she begins to realize you might be mate material. But to get there, you have to play your cards right. Don't get too down on yourself and just be that friend. If you abandon it, you'll never have a chance. If you keep at it, you'll get the best chance of any guy shell ever meet.
Nov 19 2012 12:08AM
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Peach.
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This nearly never happens. She's probably already told all her friends how she only wants o be friends with you.
Nov 19 2012 12:08AM
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Peach.
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It used to be mine.
Nov 19 2012 12:11AM
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Jeebus.
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Welp, still got your hand at least.
Nov 19 2012 12:16AM
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TheQuailman
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Same shit happened to me and I did nothing wrong.

Exchanged playlists with this girl, met for lunch a couple times, took her out for froyo, went back to my place to watch a movie, went to kiss her and she gave me the friend zone speech.

She asked if we could still watch the movie and I was like no you don't get to watch the movie and drove her home (should have made her walk). 

She said I was one of her best guy friends and she still wanted to be friends.  I told her that I wasn't going to be friends with her and I haven't talked to her since.

A couple weeks later I started hooking up with a girl whose way cuter so it all worked out.


Just think of your friend zone experience as dating practice for someone better. 

And don't talk to her anymore cause you'll get more attracted to her and be more upset, less confident, and have less time to pursue other girls.

Good luck bro, and remember, the only way out of the friend zone is to fuck her mom.











Nov 19 2012 12:17AM
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Peach.
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Both of these things are perfect.
Nov 19 2012 12:21AM
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Lt-Aldo-Raine
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There is no such thing as the friend zone. Its the im not attracted to you zone.


Didnt read the fucking thread.
Nov 19 2012 12:22AM
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Blurst
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Lets get this straight first of all.

You went out with her once, didnt have sex with her and you brought multiple condoms over to her place and left them there with the intention of banging her multiple times in the future after one date?

I can kinda see why she would say that it would never work.

Nov 19 2012 12:29AM
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585.
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It's chill dude always more fish in the sea
Nov 19 2012 12:31AM
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no_steeze
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did she ask if you wanted to go bra shopping with her?
Nov 19 2012 12:42AM
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Heart
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Never thought of it this way before, but thats some solid advice
Nov 19 2012 12:44AM
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easiestEC
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i feel ya man
Nov 19 2012 1:29AM
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Will.T
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i thought that at first too..

but at her birthday party, i got 4 of her friend in the same night!
Nov 19 2012 1:32AM
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Blurst
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What were you doing? Playing fucking tag.
Nov 19 2012 1:35AM
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Lucas
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the friend zone is an excuse for people who have no idea how to get a girl.
Nov 19 2012 1:36AM
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Will.T
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they all got at me, one after one..
Nov 19 2012 1:36AM
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Lucas
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fuckin beat me to it.
Nov 19 2012 1:39AM
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PeppermillReno
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Only hit on girls or make moves on girls that want you to do so. Then this stuff won't happen. Just lok at it from the ladies perspective.


Its really not hard to pick up a girl who wishes to be picked up and wants you. Just go for girls who fit into that category.
Nov 19 2012 1:56AM
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Chubz.
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This the worst advice in this thread. DO NIT DO THIS.
You'll just get more feelings for her and it'll end up causing more unneeded stress. Just move on and try to find a better girl. The friend zone happens to the best of us.
Nov 19 2012 2:08AM
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Phil-X-
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Nov 19 2012 2:12AM
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jaredmdub
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friendzoned after 4 years. said we were "at different stages of our lives." what does that even mean?
Nov 19 2012 2:17AM
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SKI.ING
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That she doesn't like you. Not trying to be mean, I've heard the same stuff myself. Women have a whole arsenal of obscure euphemisms that all mean they aren't interested and don't like you.
Nov 19 2012 2:20AM
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Mtougas
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haha you are the man. this is how it should go down.
Nov 19 2012 2:21AM
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cbj
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I wish you a speedy recovery
Nov 19 2012 2:22AM
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GnarNinja
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You were too nice.
Nov 19 2012 2:46AM
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