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Soon to be college grads.

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PON3
Posts: 3817 - Karma: 783
I graduate here in December. I cannot wait to leave the college life behind. It is childish, and immature. No one here respects maturity and classiness. Tonight I lost it, I was very presentable, nice shirt and tie, nice pants and shoes. And guess who I was trying to impress, a beautiful wonderful girl, and who does she go for. The douche bag who wears cut offs, shorts, and socks with sandals. fucking lost all hopes then. I cannot wait to get out when people actually respect being mature. I cannot wait to get a life with a real paying job and meeting people who do the same.

I have actually been depressed that I cant fulfill this dream. It has depressed me that I have to hang around these people who value this immature crap rather than explore the fine things in life. I feel like I cant connect with any one in college any more because I am more mature than them. It has caused me to be sad and even slightly depressed.

Does any one else feel the same who is graduating soon? I want to get on with my life, move to colorado and have a fantastic life. But still here in college, it makes me sad I cant do that.

+K to any one who can relate.

#drunkpostingidontgiveafuck
Oct 7 2012 2:53AM
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jeR.
Posts: 1325 - Karma: 58
get some wheels kid
Oct 7 2012 3:00AM
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PON3
Posts: 3817 - Karma: 783
I have a car?
Oct 7 2012 3:01AM
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eheath
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Sounds like you hang out with douche bags, didnt you say you were in a frat? probably should change that.

Either way, being done with college is tight. You pretty much have to move on to real life, get a job, etc but its still pretty fun. I know a ton of kids with full time real jobs that have just as much fun as any college student does every weekend.
Oct 7 2012 3:03AM
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jeR.
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i'm drunk, it's an ontario term
Oct 7 2012 3:04AM
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PON3
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Its not the people I hang out with that really keep me down, yeah they can kind of be Dbags sometimes, but they are quality guys most of the time, when they are sober lol

Its just the fact that I feel like I am being held back right now. I feel like I could be doing more with my life. Thats why I am sad.

Thats what I plan on doing. I plan on being that guy that lives to have fun, and works so I can obtain those privileges to have fun. IE: ski all day ;)

I guess also I feel like I am holding onto my broken relationship too. I get jealous of my ex. but this isnt a NSG problem. I know tomorrow I am going to get shit answers rather than right now. So ill just address this at the ladies man cult.

This is just my drunk posting.
Oct 7 2012 3:08AM
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BlackCupid
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First of all, people who claim to be more mature than others rarely are more mature than others. Second, being more mature seems awful. I wish I was Peter Pan.
Oct 7 2012 3:24AM
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chicken
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I never want to leave school. Why the fuck would I? So I can wear a tie and make a bunch of money?

I want to learn shit and play with lasers and wear a sweet t-shirt and chuck taylors everyday. If you are actually in a fraternity then I can see why you would want the fuck out.
Oct 7 2012 3:31AM
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Uah
Posts: 1104 - Karma: 176
How to get girls

A)Be jacked

B)Be funny

C)Both

Oct 7 2012 3:34AM
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eheath
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You can do that outside of college, its just called being a ski bum/lazy ass.
Oct 7 2012 3:37AM
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moarplease
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you sound like a pussy. if you havent met real friends that respect you for who you are after 4 years (im assuming, since graduating) of college, then i dont know what to tell you.  it is a growing process. you may not meet the kids with similar interests during freshman year but if you still havent as a senior then im sorry...it makes no sense.
Oct 7 2012 3:44AM
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STAUSS
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dogg i mean... chicks dont change all that much whether you're in school or not.  college is fuckin fun take your time.  you get to ski, live on your parents dollar, and party.  leave the classy clothes for when you're out. 
Oct 7 2012 5:49AM
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PON3
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Sounds like you had the easy life.
Oct 7 2012 11:52AM
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volvotom
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Unfortunately douchebags exist just as much in the workplace as in college. Although I have found far less in grad school than when I was working full time.
Oct 7 2012 11:57AM
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Olimar
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didnt read any other posts in the tread so it could have been said already. But if she went for the douchy kid, she probably wasnt worth it and was a slutty hoe any way.
Oct 7 2012 12:34PM
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rzarector
Posts: 590 - Karma: 70
seriously.
Oct 7 2012 12:38PM
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.MASSHOLE.
Posts: 7495 - Karma: 11,555
Girls suck. Case closed.
Oct 7 2012 2:57PM
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Lucas
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you know girls like people for other reasons besides how they dress?
Oct 7 2012 3:22PM
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errrka
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I just looked up my hours for scheduling, 20 left to graduate, and I never want to leave this place. I have a group of friends that are awesome. Maybe if you had friends that you enjoy their company, no matter what, then you'll have a great time. aka. find friends that ski, you'll mesh.

and don't think that just because you graduate it's going to be different, its just the same shit different age.

good luck, also, who the fuck cares what you're wearing, I wore a black lace dress with pearls friday night, a jersey on saturday, and now a 5xl crew tall sweater and flannel. still the same person.
Oct 7 2012 3:26PM
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HamFaceGirl
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You sound immature
Oct 7 2012 3:32PM
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B-runge
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holierthantho-DOUCHE!
Oct 7 2012 3:45PM
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Amadeus.
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Im so glad I've never had to deal with kids like that. Nyc private high school scene was awesome and everyone was really classy and cultured to a certain extent, and now I'm at a conservatory where everyone is super talented and extremely interesting.

However, I did find that when I was around those kids, like at my beach in south jersey, the women did prefer the nicer clothes over the bums in flat brims and wife beaters.
Oct 7 2012 3:45PM
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RockNRollNghtClb
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this post makes you sound like an incredibly large tool
Oct 7 2012 3:59PM
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Anathema
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ontario terms would be calling him a duster and telling him to go mack some bitties
Oct 7 2012 4:01PM
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TheBlueMtSkier
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Oh man, there be a shit-storm a brewin' if I've ever seen one. And I've seen many!
Oct 7 2012 4:03PM
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volvotom
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Oct 7 2012 4:39PM
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BlackCupid
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There is a word to describe you, but I'm not allowed to say in on NS.

hint: It starts with f.
Oct 7 2012 4:56PM
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BlackCupid
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inb4 ban
Oct 7 2012 5:12PM
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.AR6rider.
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Sounds like OP is the one who is childish and immature.
Oct 7 2012 5:15PM
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jeR.
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there could be a dictionary for ontario slang. havent heard the word duster used for time though haha
Oct 7 2012 7:59PM
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GEORGEzimmerman
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Oct 7 2012 10:39PM
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Da_Buddha
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hopefully these will cheer you up

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Oct 8 2012 1:35AM
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yourthemannowdog
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I'm starting school in Janurary and I am DREADING this. The whole college lifestyle never appealed to me. I just want to study, get my BA, and move on to study with those who are actually interested in their studies. From what I've seen, from hanging around my school for the past few months, most of these kids want to get drunk.

College is what you make it though. Anyone have any tips to make college not seem so miserable? My views on college are a bit atypical, but I just don't like drinking and partying.
Oct 8 2012 1:40AM
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baethoven
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Don't be such a negative nancy about it, and you'll be fine. Like you said, college is what you make it.
Oct 8 2012 2:35AM
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WestWoods
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OP don't try so hard. Don't wine all the time. Just own up and do what you say your going to, and don't worry about things that don't work out.
Oct 8 2012 2:47AM
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BrewskiJr
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Honestly OP, I think years down the line you're going to refer how you lived through college. You have the next 60 years to be mature and act proper. You're 21 years old. A kid. Make some mistakes, go have fun, do stupid shit. Cause very soon you won't be able to get away with it. Get off your high horse and stop being a pompous dick who thinks he is better than everyone and have some fun. Make some mistakes.
Oct 8 2012 11:19AM
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BrewskiJr
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Meant to say regret not refer. Damn mobile
Oct 8 2012 11:20AM
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Spiri7o
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You sound like a real prick
Oct 8 2012 11:44AM
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I_Am_Mod
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just curious OP, what are you studying ?
Oct 8 2012 11:49AM
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Billiards.
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You repeated yourself around 10 times in your post and went and got drunk because a girl decided she liked another guy better. You seem pretty darn immature to me. Also, sounds like you are trying too hard. Wearing a suit and tie doesn't make you more mature.. duh?
Oct 8 2012 11:49AM
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Download-My-Apps
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if this is what disappointed you about college then you're going for a rough ride for the rest of your life.
Oct 8 2012 11:52AM
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Billiards.
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probably gender studies.
Oct 8 2012 11:58AM
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rzarector
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a lot of unwarranted hate in this thread
Oct 8 2012 11:59AM
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GEORGEzimmerman
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Oct 8 2012 12:08PM
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Billiards.
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Maybe work on accepting the fact that you can have fun and study at the same time. I mean, Im a real tard, but am getting an honors degree, love studying, and have a 3.9 gpa, but drink and enjoy myself on da weekends. Gotta be well rounded dawg.
Oct 8 2012 12:13PM
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saxon
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hahaha lost it, so true.
Oct 9 2012 11:41AM
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