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Ceasing full interaction with a friend.

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daannnnieel
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I really don't want a guy I know to be involved in my life anymore, because he's going backwards in maturity, and starting shit with my better friends, and myself. I am just unsure as to how i'm going to go about completely disowning this kid. He was a good friend, and probably thinks we're still buddies. I don't want him to be angry is the problem, because I hate confrontation, and his one way of solving everything is fighting people. Not only that, he completely hates his friends who stop or don't smoke weed. He's an overall piece of shit, and i'm tired of it.


TL;DR: Idiot friend, don't want him in my life, starts shit with people who don't deserve it, he solves his problems by starting more shit/fighting, I don't like confrontation, he's a complete moron.

Thanks for any tips guys, i'm literally stumped as to how to do this.
Oct 5 2012 3:01PM
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VT_scratch
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is this the same dude who took your money, bailed on you then bought tree with it?

fuck that kid.

if you really don't want confrontation, I guess avoidance is another way? stop hitting him up? maybe he'll get the picture and realize he's a fool?
Oct 5 2012 3:03PM
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theBearJew
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just gotta phase him out. Start making excuses slowing why you cant hang. dont just drop him off the face of the earth hell get pissed and probably wanna fight you. gotta just let him go slowly... or pee in his butt.
Oct 5 2012 3:04PM
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k-rob
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just don't talk to him ever again. delete him off everything and screen his calls and don't respond to texts and just avoid him. i do it all the time.
Oct 5 2012 3:04PM
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JakeAssBeatClap
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So you're scared to fight him, sometimes the best thing you can do is man up and look someone in the eye and tell them how you feel if they don't like it then that's too bad. If they wanna fight because of it put your dukes up and scrap. Don't be a bitch, what would your grandpa have done?
Oct 5 2012 3:05PM
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daannnnieel
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yes, yes it is.
Oct 5 2012 3:06PM
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Wompuscat
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Kill him.
Oct 5 2012 3:10PM
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daannnnieel
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I looked him in the eye, and told him he was an immature, shit starting, fool. He replied to that with, "You're just a fag."

I'm not going to fight him, I don't like fighting. I have told him what I though, and he responded with one of the most immature responses there is. I just want him to fuck off. And yes, I am scared to fight him because he will get his older brother involved, which would mean big time game over for me.
Oct 5 2012 3:10PM
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JakeAssBeatClap
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Yeahhhhhhh what you're dealing with is called being a pussy.

Sometimes the best way to get a point across is to beat it into someone. And if this is the kid you were referring to that stole you're money for weed I'd just assume this kid is an asshole and you're scared of him. Oh and his older brother if he comes after you not only is he a bitch but if you put up a fight that makes you not a bitch. Sometimes in life you have to take a fucking beating. So, if you truly wanna deal with this guy tell him exactly how you feel, dont just call him a shit head. Tell him to stay the fuck away, if he wants to fight like I said don't be a bitch just fight. If you do and his brother comes after you grab your fucking dick and have some self respect and don't get punked by him and if you have to fight him too then you do it and if you take a beating at least you didn't go down like some passive woman.
Oct 5 2012 3:20PM
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[hamnuts]
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you're in trouble.
Oct 5 2012 3:28PM
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cbj
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Film you banging his mother and put it on the Internet and link it to him, he would probably never talk to you again. Or shit in a bag and say to him from you, or buy him Scorpion King 2, specifically on Blu Ray, that movie was awful.
Oct 5 2012 3:29PM
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daannnnieel
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I'm sorry it's so hard for you to understand, I'm not that kind of person, I can't stand violence. If you're just going to reword your opinion over and over again, stop posting. I know what you think now, and it is out of the question.
Oct 5 2012 3:33PM
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.AR6rider.
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Don't fucking talk to him. Ignore his calls, his texts, his facebook messages, etc. Are you stupid? It's not hard to handle something like this. But no...we have people like you, who think a better solution than just manning the fuck up is to run to the internet and ask a bunch of strangers how best to avoid someone. Holy fucking piss nuggets.
Oct 5 2012 3:36PM
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Laurent.
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Invite him to your home for a bro night. Proceed to play video games, smoke a lot of dank and drink the liquor you stashed somewhere. Drink less then him and wait for him to become sufficiently intoxicated.

When he reached that point, whip out your big black dildo and insert it in his anal passage, if he refuses give him more Grey Goose. Then insert your penis and commit a bro rape. (Remember kids, only the receiver is gay, not the giver.)

Now he is your bitch, so just tell him to fuck off.


If that isn't sufficient insert an Alaskan pipeline or perform a Cleveland steamer.
Oct 5 2012 3:41PM
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k-rob
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see if that happened to me, it wouldn't even be a fight, it would be a general ass-whooping and possibly curbstomping until i either got my money or my money's worth in blood.
Oct 5 2012 3:41PM
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cornholio
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clearly the answer is alaskan pipeline
Oct 5 2012 3:44PM
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skijunkiedtm
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Link him to this thread.
Oct 5 2012 3:46PM
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daannnnieel
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hold on, manning the fuck up is just ignoring someone, or did you contradict yourself? You realize that I have never had to go through this before, because I usually get along with most people pretty well. I was wondering if I should say anything specific to him or whatever.

Along with that, you don't need to be a douche to everyone you don't like. You're just as bad as him in that sense. You could have worded that far better, and made it come off as intelligent, instead of cocky and rude.
Oct 5 2012 3:50PM
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.AR6rider.
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Sorry, what I meant to say was..."You're a fucking pussy. Handle your own shit instead of crying on a fucking internet forum because your "friend" took advantage of you...because you're a fucking pussy"

When I told you to "man up," I meant you should handle your own problems. Pussy bitch.
Oct 5 2012 3:53PM
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daannnnieel
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You must not have read what I posted correctly.


I don't know how to handle it. I'm not crying to the internet, I was turning to it for advice. There's a massive difference between the two. I don't know if you don't understand this, because you're a tough guy who will just pound sense into anyone who doesn't like you, I can't do this though. Read other peoples posts before making completely ignorant responses please.
Oct 5 2012 4:01PM
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.AR6rider.
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You're a fucking pussy. Learn how to handle your own shit.
Oct 5 2012 4:02PM
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JakeAssBeatClap
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Yeah you're tight as fuck. And op get a set of balls and deal with the fucking issue at hand if you think he will kick your ass because you voice your opinion then don't and just deal with his presence or completely avoid him and if that means you have to avoid other friends too then that sucks but there is no other way to deal with it. So figure it out everyone is gonna give you the same advice. Fight, tell him what you feel, or completely ignore his presence. Choose one
Oct 5 2012 4:04PM
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Sneaky_Aziz
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What about all the jumbo shrimp
Oct 5 2012 4:04PM
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cwphoto
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damn no need to be so rude to op.

just stop talking to them 100%. i do this to shitty friends a lot. just treat him as another kid at your school that you never talk to. what i mean is don't like look away from him, just dont acknowledge him at all. eventually he will get bored and go away
Oct 5 2012 4:26PM
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TechnoPotamus
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this. he'll get the idea when it hits him that you've avoided seeing him for a longgg time.
Oct 5 2012 4:29PM
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Dr.Dickless
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You have the whiniest fucking threads, just tell your friend he's being a douche and bail And then grow a penis
Oct 5 2012 4:31PM
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arnie_grape
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get the 2-1-7 crew to kick his ass
Oct 5 2012 4:37PM
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whoa-dere
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somehow publish his number to the internet
Oct 5 2012 4:58PM
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cbj
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The movie has to be in a box of jumbo shrimp also.
Oct 5 2012 5:05PM
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asfdfads
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this
Oct 7 2012 12:15AM
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edai
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didnt read thread. have fun getting walked all over mr. doormat, let me know how life goes for your bitch ass!
Oct 7 2012 12:22AM
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Poop_nugget
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make-up buttsex?
Oct 7 2012 12:35AM
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Squeenerd
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I agree with op that violence is the worst way to get a point across. It's extremely inefficient. Tell him you are sick and tired of what he's been doing and ignore him. Your "friend" is obviously an insecure little dickhole who needs to learn how to treat others. Let the kid see what life is like without your friendship and help. Either he will come crawling back to you and you can say I told you so, or he will never talk to you again. It's a win win situation.
Oct 7 2012 1:36AM
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daannnnieel
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This is the plan that I adopted, thanks for the legitimate response too.
Oct 7 2012 1:40AM
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daannnnieel
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This is the plan that I adopted, thanks for the legitimate response too.
Oct 7 2012 1:40AM
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Clark_Griswold
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This. If anyone bought me scorpion king 2 I'd never talk to them again ahahah. For real though, just stop talking to him..defriend him in fb if you have one and same with all other social media. Don't respond to his texts or calls. Just from now on treat him as if he was never born. I've done it countless times, usually at first they try really hard to get ahold of you but after a few days they get the point.
Oct 7 2012 1:47AM
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youngdtay
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Yay! KayngBayng considers me a better friend!
Oct 7 2012 2:06AM
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