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How do you deal with people?

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7springsprod
Posts: 2661 - Karma: 3,181
I am getting really pissed of with people at my school lately. I never was an extremely social person and have never tried hard to make friends and go to huge parties or anything. But now, I actually hate people. I really do. Today I just took in what people do to eachother and literally, everybody is an asshole to eachother. Including teachers. Im guessing a lot NS'ers feel the same way about people. I personally am not victimized but just general little stupid things that people say to me pisses me off, even though theyre always meaningless.
Sep 20 2012 3:14PM
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hot.pocket
Posts: 4231 - Karma: 10,670
Don't give a shit. Problem solved.
Sep 20 2012 3:15PM
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.Hugo.
Posts: 17360 - Karma: 28,488
I stomp their little toe
Sep 20 2012 3:15PM
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Spinoza
Posts: 12763 - Karma: 3,846
" This. Don't worry about it, don't let it affect you. Be active not Passive. Research the Stoics
Sep 20 2012 3:19PM
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gregorio
Posts: 2372 - Karma: 151
develop slow cons that will slowly drive them insane then sit and watch as their lives unravel
Sep 20 2012 3:21PM
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Panchuk
Posts: 1610 - Karma: 356
Haha the only people I ever made fun of was my friends. If you ever had good friends you can probably relate but you seem very anti-social.
Sep 20 2012 3:24PM
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Puns
Posts: 2052 - Karma: 429
I totally know what you mean. Apart from even disliking the human population in general, I also find myself disliking so much about or society and western culture. I think people are just people but are influenced by all this stupid shit. You just need to meet some critically thinking people and you will have a good time.
Sep 20 2012 3:29PM
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panojibber.
Posts: 1041 - Karma: 683
Just going to leave this here:

George Carlin - "People who see life as anything more than pure entertainment are missing the point."
Sep 20 2012 3:36PM
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Broommasta
Posts: 764 - Karma: 56
wow i really like that quote. and its very relevant.:)
Sep 20 2012 4:00PM
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k-rob
Posts: 14217 - Karma: 2,891
i just pretend everyone is trying to get me to kill myself and then i don't, in spite of them.
Sep 20 2012 4:01PM
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Wallisch_pl
Posts: 5260 - Karma: 1,022
i usually just cut myeself
Sep 20 2012 4:01PM
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Jane6
Posts: 5359 - Karma: 4,506
I ask myself the same question everyday, how can people be so fucking stupid?
Then I realise that other people probably think that same thought about me, and then I stop thinking about it.


oh and relevant .gif is relevant


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Sep 20 2012 6:41PM
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TACO-DOG.exe
Posts: 11989 - Karma: 12,264
move to canada. no assholes up here.
Sep 20 2012 6:44PM
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mowglii
Posts: 545 - Karma: 339
well theres sure a fuck ton of friendly people. But in all realness, there are lots of shitty people who don't deserve to live in such a good country with everyone else.
Sep 20 2012 6:57PM
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EricaMN.
Posts: 2704 - Karma: 347
Honestly, it's really hard to do this in every situation.
Sep 20 2012 7:01PM
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GayWolf420
Posts: 37517 - Karma: 121,444
Smoking weed has really made me able to start not really caring about dumbshit people. And at work I have to deal with dipshits too.
Sep 20 2012 7:02PM
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Milksteak
Posts: 9948 - Karma: 833
Hit that doja and don't give 2 fucks nigga
Sep 20 2012 7:04PM
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wasatch_rat
Posts: 1772 - Karma: 2,952
you're obviously much less of an asshole and much more empathetic and praisworthy, judging by the way you hate everyone... oh wait.

seriously tho people are flawed but they're not all bad, give them a chance. you gotta wade through the assholes before you find people you really like
Sep 20 2012 7:04PM
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daannnnieel
Posts: 5163 - Karma: 4,293
I'm in the same boat as you, when I was younger I strived my hardest to get into the, 'popular crowd' and all it got me was a loss of true friends. I have a pretty chill tight knit group right now, just find the people you like and ignore the rest.
Sep 20 2012 7:22PM
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7springsprod
Posts: 2661 - Karma: 3,181
Thank you for posting legitimately. +k KayngBayng.
Sep 20 2012 7:55PM
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DizzyG
Posts: 698 - Karma: 296
This, i just found the skier/mtb crowd, and we talk about skiing and biking. assholes be damned.
Sep 20 2012 8:02PM
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Rozbrook
Posts: 586 - Karma: 236
This. Don't worry about what the "cool kids " think of you. You'll feel the best when you have real friends that really care about you. My friends are great we're like a little family. (I realize I sound like a total fruit cake for saying that)
Sep 20 2012 8:07PM
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7springsprod
Posts: 2661 - Karma: 3,181
Im not depressed or sad or anything. I do have my own group of friends though. People have just been making me angry lately though.
Sep 20 2012 8:09PM
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FuckAllOfYou
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jealous. That's my friend group yes, but all but one and me go to other schools. they're all my best friends. it's annoying when at my school I talk to people who know nothing of the things I like. All the people who do/my great friends go to this other high school in town, it's unfortunate. fuck JM
Sep 20 2012 8:12PM
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chicken
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I don't hate people most of the time. But first couple months of university fucking sucks with all the freshmen. I can't find a quiet place to study because all the studious ones take over the library, and everywhere that is not designated a silent zone is full of the rest of them chatting away.

fuck.
Sep 20 2012 8:20PM
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daannnnieel
Posts: 5163 - Karma: 4,293
no you don't, because we all know that feeling. And if you don't know that feeling, you will at some point in your life.
Sep 20 2012 9:57PM
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Rafiki
Posts: 3858 - Karma: 2,251
i shoot up private schools and wal marts. it makes me feel better about my self and i'm ridding the world of inbreds and pricks.
Sep 20 2012 10:01PM
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Mr.Sloth
Posts: 5091 - Karma: 13,469
Whatup Cho
Sep 20 2012 10:06PM
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californiagrown
Posts: 9794 - Karma: 2,014
people dont like to hear this but:


life is full of politicing. Just being good at your job will only get you so far. you need to be able to schmooze and kiss ass as well.


College and high school provide you a social education just as much if not more so than an academic education. so realize that when you choose to be anti-social you are just making it harder on yourself in the future.

Plus, once people start graduating college, everyone is over the high school BS, a lot of the dbag popular kids turn out to be cool people.
Sep 20 2012 10:19PM
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Chinchi
Posts: 1591 - Karma: 4,212
catcher in the rye seems.....relevant? holy shit I never though I'd say that
Sep 20 2012 10:21PM
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Anathema
Posts: 21048 - Karma: 5,061
you just have to realize that some people are just shitty and not care. i work with a girl who is a total bossy bitch. everything she says seems like an order. "you gonna do that? you gonna get that? uhhhh like come help please" and whatnot, but i just shrug it off and ignore it. why let it get to you. plus, it's better to ignore them and silently send the message and let them feel shitty about who they are rather than lash out and seem like a dick yourself.

plus, for me it's kind of nice because people know that i have to tolerate this girl all the time and my superiors are pretty stoked that im easy going and keep the peace. you always like getting that recognition for being the bigger person, though sometimes that's not the case. stick it out, focus on yourself and not other peopel, and good things will come. gotta learn to zone certain things out, and peoples' shitty attitudes and comments are one of em.
Sep 20 2012 10:22PM
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Uah
Posts: 1104 - Karma: 176
You have to understand that you give life its meaning, you hold the definition to peoples attitude. Everything in life is an empty prop that you define.

yeah fuck studio.. thats a tougher one.. library quiet floor?

Otherwise you have to macguyver a make shift studio out of bubblegum + bamboo and moss.

Sep 20 2012 10:25PM
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BroNamath
Posts: 113 - Karma: 21
Just be super chill. spread the kindness and positive energy
Sep 20 2012 10:37PM
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californiagrown
Posts: 9794 - Karma: 2,014
its pretty easy. go to the buisness building or engineering building or science building etc and there are study rooms located in nooks and crannies and all over.

I never had issues with people talking though, in fact i would listen to sports talk radio whenever i studied. the talking becomes white noise after a while because its at the same volume level, and cadence constantly.
Sep 20 2012 10:41PM
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RoofDaRoofieDogg
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I know that feel bro
Sep 20 2012 10:42PM
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chicken
Posts: 6843 - Karma: 2,121
wtf are you talking about?

Sep 21 2012 12:55AM
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hot.pocket
Posts: 4231 - Karma: 10,670
This + Pandora (Modest Mouse) = best grades ever.
Sep 21 2012 1:00AM
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-MK-
Posts: 3253 - Karma: 5,332
Ive never had a problem like this until this year, now it perfectly describes my life. I just pretty much ignore  everyone who said they were my "friend" and then when they get mad just ignore them even more. problem solved.
Sep 21 2012 1:06AM
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jorb.co
Posts: 2581 - Karma: 468
For the majority of my school life I tried so hard to tolerate people and get them to like me. Then when they wouldn't I was just a dick. Then I realized NOBODY FUCKING MATTERS. So now with the exception of a few close friends I am just overly exuberant, social, honest with people and give zero fucks. Half the people think I'm stupid and the other half really fucking like me for some reason. Basically what i'm trying to say is just be yourself because what people think of you will not matter in the slightest once you graduate
Sep 21 2012 2:19AM
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Uah
Posts: 1104 - Karma: 176
that nu nu
Sep 21 2012 3:22AM
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Bateman
Posts: 8593 - Karma: 8,600
Yeah sometime i hate people too. In my school a lot of 'boys' think its fucking funny to fart in eachothers faces and be a douchebag to eachother at all times. I mean, some guy bought a can of mountain dew, and when he was at the bathroom like 4 people spit in it. Why cant people just be... chill.

Oh ive also never been victimized
Sep 21 2012 3:36AM
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SneakyTurtle
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Maybe its just Quebec, but pretty much every Canadian I've ever met has been an asshole.
Sep 21 2012 7:24AM
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Bumblesteeze
Posts: 3092 - Karma: 748
I can't stand people that talk loudly in the library.

It pisses me off so much since they're so inconsiderate and selfish, it's the worst when they talk about stupid shit.
Sep 21 2012 12:29PM
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k-rob
Posts: 14217 - Karma: 2,891
well them and toronto
Sep 21 2012 12:31PM
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snwbrdmilf
Posts: 22441 - Karma: 2,806
I am having a horrible day filled with incredibly stupid people - I'm almost at a breaking point. SOMEONE MAKE ME LAUGH PLS!
Sep 21 2012 12:48PM
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.AR6rider.
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Sep 21 2012 1:41PM
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HalfandHalf
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so true.
unfortunately thats just the way it is, everyones all about self benefit and will throw most there friends under a bus, as long as they benefit.
Buut, this just means you have to ignore it, be nice. don't worry about your own benefit just GO WITH THE FLOW
Sep 21 2012 2:05PM
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thewhiteprophet
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As long as you don't act as they do, you're automatically better than them. Don't act like you're better than them, don't tell them you're better than them, just remember that you are.

I used to feel the same way until I finally just got so frustrated that I stopped censoring 90% of my thoughts and saying/doing what I want. Now a days, I'm in a pretty good place with myself. People envy me, and it feels good.

it's been said already in this thread, but don't care about the masses, just focus on what makes you happy.
Sep 21 2012 2:15PM
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thewhiteprophet
Posts: 692 - Karma: 33
to clarify, it's not me they envy, it's my mental freedom.
Sep 21 2012 2:17PM
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MANDER
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:(
Sep 21 2012 2:24PM
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MANDER
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Oh, and this is fucking genius so I forgive you for hating on my hometown. Sig'd
Sep 21 2012 2:25PM
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