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Sitting next to random girls on benches at college

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c-wayne
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is this a good way to try and meet random hotties in ns's opinion? i think it shows you got some serious balls and confidence and if your decent looking and are not completely stupid at starting convos this should work great. or would it be creepy? (wants girls opinions for this too lol)
Sep 19 2012 2:45PM
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clive_bixby
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or you could just introduce yourself
Sep 19 2012 2:46PM
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Ehh...
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threads.
Sep 19 2012 2:47PM
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Puns
Posts: 2052 - Karma: 429
it could be creepy if you're a creep. always make sure that people have an out, and you are in a public place so that they are comfortable in the situation. also join a club... then you find 'hotties' with similar interests
Sep 19 2012 2:47PM
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SKI.ING
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Depends on whether or not all the other benches are full.
Sep 19 2012 2:47PM
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clive_bixby
Posts: 1834 - Karma: 499
and how the fuck does sitting on a bench next to a chick show you have balls? benches are for sitting
Sep 19 2012 2:47PM
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hot.pocket
Posts: 4231 - Karma: 10,670
You've already lost.
Sep 19 2012 2:48PM
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Blindinglight
Posts: 37 - Karma: 11
Whatever happened to just not giving a fuck who you sit next down to. Whether it is a guy or a girl, it doesn't matter.
Sep 19 2012 2:51PM
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[hamnuts]
Posts: 2356 - Karma: 439
he is talking about using sitting down on a bench beside a girl as a means to spark up a conversation
Sep 19 2012 2:53PM
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bakedpow
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since she is sitting on a bench you guys already have so much in common
Sep 19 2012 2:55PM
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no_steeze
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steps to being a ballsy college student who picks up girls on benches:

1. walk by the bench that hot girl is on
2. turn around slowly, walk back past the bench
3. pretend to look for other benches
4. sit down next to her
5. take out phone and pretend to text but you don't have anyone to text or any new texts
6. have your head turned so far away from her that you can't even see her through peripheral vision
7. get up and leave very slowly
8. give yourself an invisible high five for just getting laid
Sep 19 2012 2:58PM
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the_moderaper
Posts: 2465 - Karma: 218
Hey, I'm kyle has been my pickup line these first 3 weeks of freshman year and its been working great. Just be confident seeing as if you fuck up, just go pick another one, theres plenty to go around. Just try to avoid being too friendly or you'll be limp dicked for good.
Sep 19 2012 2:59PM
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Spinoza
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@gator I guess I'm a super pimp then
Sep 19 2012 3:09PM
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Malcolm
Posts: 15951 - Karma: 9,451
9. bump into random dude as you're getting up and drop you shit on the ground
11. random dude helps you up
12. random dude starts talking to girl

I hate benches
Sep 19 2012 3:18PM
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5m0k3we3d
Posts: 309 - Karma: 83
Try just introducing yourself you pussy, don't over think things like a bitch
Sep 19 2012 3:20PM
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deleted5
Posts: 14507 - Karma: 13,507
talking to anyone is how you meet people i used to go around my town and do it all the time with girls. i did it so much in fact i learned picking up girls is a skill you can work on and get better at it.
Sep 19 2012 3:25PM
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baethoven
Posts: 4953 - Karma: 337
Sit down next to her and light up a cigarette. Blow the smoke in her direction forcing her to say something to you. You've now initiated conversation, and only a few key steps from getting laid..
Sep 19 2012 3:26PM
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baethoven
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pretty sure most of figured that out really early on..
Sep 19 2012 3:27PM
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snowdon
Posts: 2480 - Karma: 391
I would just assume that a guy sitting down next to me means that he would like to not be standing anymore.

You gotta take the next steps. Talk, get her number, follow through.
Sep 19 2012 3:27PM
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deleted5
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no not really most people i know when they see a hot girl on the side walk don't go up to them and say hi to them.
Sep 19 2012 3:31PM
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baethoven
Posts: 4953 - Karma: 337
I'd say thats a confidence issue, not the understanding that "macking" is an art, but who knows?
Sep 19 2012 3:33PM
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deleted5
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fuck moble meant to end that sentience on hi. most people are just afraid of getting rejected, but after a while you just start to say fuck it idc if i get stood up in front of 20 random people.
Sep 19 2012 3:35PM
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hot.pocket
Posts: 4231 - Karma: 10,670
I'll admit I have no lady skills. Doesn't stop me from trying.
Sep 19 2012 3:36PM
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Alexander_Keith
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Perseverence is the better part of picking up.

Sep 19 2012 3:58PM
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Petey.
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yo did everyone miss this gem of a comment? gold
Sep 19 2012 3:59PM
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maximiliaan
Posts: 7711 - Karma: 2,857
1. sitting next to a chick on an bench
2. walk home
3. wank like a fucking monkey
Sep 19 2012 4:03PM
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northeast
Posts: 2119 - Karma: 254
fuck all that shit, jerking off is soooo much easier
Sep 19 2012 4:09PM
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DirtYStylE
Posts: 3652 - Karma: 8,889
For the first week or two of my freshman year of college I would sit down next to random girls and spark up a conversation. I ended up getting pretty good at it too. This one time I sat down at a table and just started talking to this group. Eventually we introduced ourselves and the girls were surprised and impressed that I didn't know anybody there. I sat down with so much confidence that they thought I was one of them.

After the first few weeks of doing this I had enough numbers that I really didnt need to do it anymore(especially since its not the best way to find hot girls). As soon as you number close a decent up kept looking girl text her. Ask about hanging out. Odds are she is going to want to bring her friends. BOOM you just met a group of smoking hot girls with little effort
Sep 19 2012 4:11PM
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Broommasta
Posts: 764 - Karma: 56
just come out with a hey i think your really cute and you had to come talk to them.
Sep 19 2012 4:29PM
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sniper_6
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Know how I know the OP is a virgin?
Sep 19 2012 4:42PM
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theabortionator
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I remember when I was 12. I don't see what all the fuss is about. Just talk to strangers, fuck it. If they aren't cool then fuck em(not literally or maybe) Idk. I enjoy striking up conversation with complete strangers.


All your best friends were once complete strangers at some point.
Sep 19 2012 4:49PM
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baethoven
Posts: 4953 - Karma: 337
Only do this if the situation warrants it. You'll scare a lot of girls away by being so up front, whether they think you're cute or not. They may be struggling with confidence issues too and not really know how to reply back to you, causing a mad awkward situation.

Compliment something about them real quickly and don't press the conversation. The'll usually continue the conversation if they want to. Or find a common interest. Clothing brands, band t-shirt maybe, text books, etc... Pretend you like something if you have to (later on you can tell them you pretended to like something just to talk to them, and they'll love it, trust me). You're just looking for common ground to begin a conversation.


On that note, it's about time I asked for a "Ladies Men" cult invite. Anyone want to hook one up?
Sep 19 2012 4:52PM
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Caucasian_Asian
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Shalalalalalala



Uh huh



Sep 19 2012 4:57PM
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Uah
Posts: 1104 - Karma: 176
I can't wait to go back to school in Ottawa this winter. My gameplan is the same every year. First day of classes I make sure to sit beside whichever gorgeous girl has an empty seat beside her. Then I can just talk to her about the prof and what we think the class is going to be like. It's a really good way to meet girls, but if you mess it up or have no game you will likely end up in the friend zone.
Sep 19 2012 5:19PM
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Stickity
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sitting next to someone in a dining commons would probably be a better idea
Sep 19 2012 11:48PM
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.Mouse
Posts: 164 - Karma: 78
Truthfully the best even if they dont think you are cute or have no interest in talking to you they will most likely say thanks. Then you have a conversation right there then just keep going.
Sep 20 2012 12:05AM
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pmw
Posts: 5760 - Karma: 831
hahahaha 9th grader alert. this is just stupid but im faded and youll learn with time so fuck /ranting
Sep 20 2012 12:52AM
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whoa-dere
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genius
Sep 20 2012 1:09AM
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skiinian
Posts: 762 - Karma: 187
are you a PUA?
Sep 20 2012 1:27AM
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daannnnieel
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I'm just going to give you a karma point for saying all this.
Sep 20 2012 1:35AM
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E__
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Very true.



Nut up or shut up.
Sep 20 2012 1:44AM
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daannnnieel
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I'm a strong believer in shutting up, scoping out a girl, getting to secretly know her, then acting like the perfect guy. Works quite well in most situations.
Sep 20 2012 1:53AM
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Peter.
Posts: 23796 - Karma: 13,014
just make an observational comment, like on a book she's reading, or if the phone she has, the weather etc


it may seem stupid, but it gets the convo started
Sep 20 2012 1:59AM
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E__
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Sounds like a solid plan but a little on the creepy side.
Sep 20 2012 2:03AM
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Barefootin_Fiend
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*works quite well at putting you in the friend zone. girls don't want the perfect guy. they want the asshole 99% of the time.
Sep 20 2012 3:21AM
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Caucasian_Asian
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Mr Jones strikes up a conversation
Sep 20 2012 10:00AM
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C-Weezy
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with this black haired flamenco dancer
Sep 20 2012 3:22PM
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seward
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Holy FAHK!

i always thought it was flamingo dancer.

Sep 20 2012 4:42PM
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SkiinTrigga
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+k

Sep 20 2012 4:44PM
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Spinoza
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this is funny. a guy would be thinking she's well aware of him doing something
Sep 20 2012 4:45PM
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roddy116
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this is a sad truth
Sep 20 2012 5:38PM
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