people need to realize that rick and the governor are more similar than different, they are just projected differently, rick as a protagonist who we are supposed to connect with and gov as the antagonist we are supposed to spurn.
rick has murdered several people (most deserved it, sure) and seriously contemplated murdering "innocent" people. If he stayed down the road hes on, and he had to protect a group ten times the size of the current group, he would do the exact same thing to those soldiers.
neither one of them is doing anything wrong. they are just trying t perpetuate their own lives while giving the people they are leading hope. obviously the governor is going to be skeptical about allowing new men into his group while inviting women in with open arms. like said in 28DL "Women mean a future." if he can convince andrea she likes it there and wants to stay, thats 1 more chance at a family and a future for residents.
i would argue that even though the governor is "Evil," his group, as far as group dynamics and knowledge of purpose and place within its individuals, is lightyears ahead of where the farm crew are at.
michonne is just a bitch, no one wants a family with her. terrible actress, i understand how her character is supposed to come across, and maybe they will eventually show a chink in her armour, but shes pissing me off already.