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Crippling relationships

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tripnip
Posts: 1882 - Karma: 482
Story time so i have been dating this girl for a few months and we ave just been getting in fight after fight shes been acting crazy. How do you know when to call it quits?
Jun 22 2012 12:19AM
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gusestomp
Posts: 1377 - Karma: 746
when you pee in her but
Jun 22 2012 12:22AM
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baaangthat
Posts: 2245 - Karma: 2,587
when you make a thread on the internet wondering when its time to call it quits...

dont waste your time if its not 100% what you want 100% of the time.
Jun 22 2012 12:22AM
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tripnip
Posts: 1882 - Karma: 482
meh its new schoolers
Jun 22 2012 12:26AM
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smooticus
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lol well thats pretty reasonable
Jun 22 2012 12:28AM
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Wompuscat
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So by crippling relationship do you mean that she hit you in the kneecaps with a baseball bat?

If thats the case Id definitely say its time to wrap it up.
Jun 22 2012 12:31AM
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soulskier
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well, when you're getting in fight after fight with a crazy person...that'd be a good time to call it off
Jun 22 2012 12:33AM
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Skinsummer
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Jun 22 2012 12:48AM
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Wallisch_pl
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Jun 22 2012 12:51AM
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bdarb207
Posts: 3057 - Karma: 438
Next..
Jun 22 2012 12:51AM
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CheddarJack
Posts: 5203 - Karma: 7,380
So wait, are you saying that it's legal to marry your penis?
Jun 22 2012 12:53AM
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Anathema
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when you realize youre unhappy. people don't change, and the moment you realize it's pointless to continue to try to fix things when it isn't doing anything, you can move forward.

don't get trapped just because you've built an attachment that's too tough to break. if you're unhappy, you owe it to yourself to cut her loose, as tough as that might be right now. in the long run, it'll be worth it.
Jun 22 2012 12:59AM
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Chubz.
Posts: 13918 - Karma: 25,661
join the ladiesmen cult..you'll get some good answers there dude
Jun 22 2012 12:59AM
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DsMoK3
Posts: 467 - Karma: 198
1. get nude gf pics
2. post on internet
3. ????????
4. profit
Jun 22 2012 2:29AM
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Dragonite.
Posts: 1657 - Karma: 431
So much this... You really need to look to the internet for relationship help? Come on dude you should solve that yourself. What will you do when you're not in access of NS
Jun 22 2012 2:36AM
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daannnnieel
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Smack a bitch for being crazy.
Jun 22 2012 2:37AM
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west-coast
Posts: 985 - Karma: 204
unless your receiving sexual favors on the daily, dump her
Jun 22 2012 3:11AM
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E__
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How can you say that when you asked Newschoolers?
Jun 22 2012 6:51AM
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doitbig
Posts: 4818 - Karma: 315
you will fight in all relationships, it's inevitable.  try living with someone.  the difference is weather or not your are still consitantly happy (and also getting some).
Jun 22 2012 9:22AM
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PopsicleStand
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you will have dry spells too in a long term relationship. I don't have the secret to making relationships work longer than a few years (working on 4-5ish here) but I can tell you that you will go sexless for small periods of time every once and a while. Seems like the secret so far is just to tough most things out with the best mood you can, as its usually not that bad...We're talking about serious adult relationships here too.
Jun 22 2012 10:11AM
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doitbig
Posts: 4818 - Karma: 315
key word from my post was consistently.  dry spells are unavoidable, i agree.  it's all about how you bounce back from the bad.  woman go crazy quite often, this is also unavoidable.  in these situations it's best to keep your mouth shut and listen.
Jun 22 2012 11:23AM
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Sno.
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Yes, most couples, if together long enough, have dry spells. But I'm still not convinced that it's unavoidable. Sometimes guys gotta up the romance when they start to feel comfortable and begin slacking in the relationship.

Same goes for girls, too. Don't jump all over my shit. But usually the female is more quick to feel unappreciated or taken for granted.

Jun 22 2012 11:26AM
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Caspaaa
Posts: 4830 - Karma: 1,466
in my experiences its the other way around

the men usually feel under-appreciated if they are the main source of income for the family.
Jun 22 2012 11:39AM
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doitbig
Posts: 4818 - Karma: 315

...well i consider a dry spell 2-3 days haha

Jun 22 2012 11:39AM
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Backyard.Skier
Posts: 5397 - Karma: 1,497
go lock yourselves in a room take some bath salts and let the relationship run its course from there.
Jun 22 2012 11:46AM
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EmperorKuzco
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this seems like the only plausible solution.
Jun 22 2012 11:53AM
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Sno.
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oh, well-- i was speaking mainly about younger unmarried couples. Like...not-yet-joined-income couples.
Jun 22 2012 11:56AM
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Huck_Norris
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When the positives outweigh the negatives you've got to ask yourself if they will ever really change and start treating you the way you want to be treated.  If the answer is no, then go.  You can't blame people for being who they are, so just try to recognize it asap, be realistic and figure out whether it can work for you. 
Jun 22 2012 1:07PM
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