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How to make friends / get invited to parties

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monkatizer
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Soooo..... i always see pictures on facebook of these people having sick parties. but i never get invited.
i have come to the conclusion that im not friends with any of the people who throw the parties.

so im wondering how i make friends with the cool guys/ hot girls who throw parties so that i can get invited to them so i have something to do other then surf NS every fucking night.
and no, i cant just walk up to them and say hey, wanna be friends? i have gone to school with these people forever, that would be weird.
and one more issue, all the people who have these parties are mad perps, so i don't exactly fit into their cult thingy because im not rich, dont play golf or wear pastel colored khakis and golf shirts to school every day.

please help
May 29 2012 9:17PM
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crab_pretzel
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a serious answer here. when you walk into the first day of classes one semester, just sit next to one of them. it won't be weird, they will probably have some of their friends sitting next to them and you will just be in one of the other adjacent seats. and you're basically bound to talk at some point in the year. you could ask questions about the material, or chyme in about something you know about that you hear them talking about. just make conversation enough that if you saw them in the hall you'd say hey. if you become good enough friends, maybe like hangout out after school sometime or just go grab some food. i dont know, you could take it from there.

this response may look kinda dumb, but all i did was read op and try to give some actual advice
Mar 25 2013 11:54PM
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snakerton
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exactly. this is how you do it
Mar 26 2013 12:26AM
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Broommasta
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I don't believe in friendship. It's a gateway feeling to homosexuality.
Mar 26 2013 12:35AM
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cbj
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I just get invited, but when I don't if I think the people going don't like me I don't go. Though the kids who have a problem with me are all lowlife skids so fuck it! Get hammered, fuck bitches!
Mar 26 2013 2:14AM
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JakeAssBeatClap
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hahahaha that's pretty funny
Mar 26 2013 2:25AM
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ilikedolphins
Posts: 129 - Karma: 120
just do this, it really works
i dont have problems getting invited to parties,
but this worked almost too well on a girl who downright hated me 2 months ago
she texts me a couple times every day now


Mar 26 2013 3:55AM
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2_fadez
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shake my head
Mar 26 2013 8:26AM
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ohmyglob8
Posts: 416 - Karma: 1,408
honestly just fuck it, i kinda have the same problem for a while and then when i realized how stupid it was to try to make them be friends with me i just stopped and did my own thing. if u ask anyone who knows me at school they say i lone wolf it all the time, mostly because my school is full of snowboarders and me and this other kid are the only skiers. But on the hill they see me slay and its gotten me respect so really >just find a sport
>get ridiculous at it
>??????
>fucking profit and pussy
Mar 26 2013 10:01AM
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monkatizer
Posts: 4704 - Karma: 1,518
tried to go to a party i wasnt invited to tonight and got kicked out.... FML
Mar 28 2013 9:52PM
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newnewschool
Posts: 400 - Karma: 439
the key word here is TRY. Don't try. Seriously if you try to hard its going to come off like this isn't natural to you. Just make friends as if you were the most popular... pretend you are cool, then believe you are cool, then you will eventually become cool.


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As shown in the above graph illustrating my argument.

Also be nice to people, that helps sometimes.
Mar 28 2013 10:07PM
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tripnip
Posts: 1882 - Karma: 482
Start dealing drugs to them. Works every time
Mar 28 2013 10:30PM
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ohmyglob8
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lol a freind of mine actually did this. he literally was one of the gooniest kids i know and wasnt really popular maybe 3 solid freinds, then BAM! one day started dealing drugs and 4 years later kid not only throws down mad parties every weekend but gets invited to them as well, super chill goon
Mar 28 2013 10:36PM
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newnewschool
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Good way to have a terrible life.
Mar 28 2013 10:37PM
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