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Lose it to someone special or ASAP? Ladies, opinions welcomed

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alex=
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Only 16, not sure if I should wait even longer to lose it to a girl I actually give two shits about, or just some random girl I hook up with. Not sure, but I kind of want to wait for a good girl.

Ladies, opinions and thoughts welcomed.
Thanks for all opinions


May 11 2012 11:36PM
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Spinoza
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Well, it would at least be nice if she was your gf/ someone you were going to see again. Otherwise you don't need to wait for a wife
May 12 2012 10:23AM
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Bill.Nye
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Most 16 year olds IMO are too dumb too know how to properly practice safe sex, and not emotionally mature enough to deal with it. It's possible that OP is an exception, but based on this thread I'd say he's not.

OP should just keep fapping. No one ever got pregnant or an STD from a good fap.
May 12 2012 12:55PM
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Mike-O
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16-year-old too dumb to practice safe sex? What the fuck, honestly?

Open condom, put it on, boom - safe sex. A fucking two-year-old monkey could pull that off, why not a 16-year-old human, who are you kidding here, hey?
May 12 2012 12:57PM
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Stickity
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this is now my go to excuse
May 12 2012 1:01PM
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Bill.Nye
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I know it sounds stupid, but this is Murica', where teen pregancy rates are 5-7x times higher than that crazy northern snow globe where you live. It sounds easy, but statistics shows that a huge number of American teens are too dumb too be doing it.
May 12 2012 1:13PM
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bustinthejus
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Seriously, this. I guess the differing opinions though is a result of the fact that you're from Europe, where sex, nudity, drugs, alcohol, etc. are much more tolerated, and he's from America, where you can get shot at war at 18, but can't drink until you're 21.
May 12 2012 1:18PM
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2L208
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you sure you are a guy? i thought girls were the only ones who want to lose it to that special someone, then later realize they aren't special and figure out they lost the v card to some dude
May 12 2012 1:22PM
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Mike-O
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I'm guessing that has more to do with just fucking without any protection, not about the proper age to start having sex in!

They're no too dumb, they just don't give a fuck and the end result is as much.
May 12 2012 1:25PM
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Bill.Nye
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Exactly, but the fact remains that since teens in this country seem to be incapable of figuring out how to put a bag on their dicks, OP should probably not be having sex. $10 says OP will fuck this up if he tries, and either not use a condom or only use one for part of it.

OP, see if a girl will blow you and ask her to let you eat her out. Leaning how to do that is more important than anything you can do with your dick anyway.
May 12 2012 1:30PM
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Mike-O
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Fuck you are dumb (at least in this area). Advocating oral sex but not safe sex? Have you not heard that one of the main reasons for the enormous growth of mouth cancer, throat cancer and cervical cancer is unabridged and unprotected oral sex? Due to the most dangerous strains of HPV being very benign in symptoms until it fully develops and the porn industry being pretty straight forward about sucking sicks and eating out pussy before we dive on in has lead to an amazing increase in the spread of HPV.

OP, whatever you do, take it easy and protect yourself.
May 12 2012 1:40PM
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TallerThanThou
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May 12 2012 1:44PM
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udr1v3m3cr4zy
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wait.

unless you meet some gorgeous trophy fuck you're pretty sure don't have the herp.
May 12 2012 1:53PM
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alex=
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Thanks for shooting that fag down and actually saying what I meant. I shouldve clarified and I didn't know it came out as me asking if I was ready. Who the fuck does that?

Listen to Mike-O because what he just typed is what I meant. And I want everyone's opinions, I said ladie's welcome because most girls won't post on shit like this. lol
May 12 2012 4:33PM
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rachie.b
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Died reading that too.
May 12 2012 4:38PM
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whoa-dere
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PHSYCH! THAT"S THE WRONG INBOX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
May 12 2012 4:45PM
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alex=
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P.S. I've done oral before, gotten blown, gotten handies, eaten girls out, blah blah, but
I AM NOT ASKING IF I AM READY FOR SEX OR IF I SHOULD WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE

please just reread the post... I'm just asking for people's opinions. If you just fucked a random, do you regret it? or was it ok and you were better prepared for the partner you gave two shits about? If you waited, was it better with the person you cared about compared to randoms? Or, did you wish you had practice? there, that should fix it


May 12 2012 4:57PM
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Mike-O
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When I was trying to get it over with, I happened on this one girl who was a virgin like me, and stuck around for the two or three months for her to finally think it's alright to go through with it. At first I liked her, but then I noticed I was just there to finally get laid and started to resent her, hanging around until she gave in (we only saw each other... not even every week during this time) and once I got it over with, she was seemingly even more infautated with me - I was over with her the moment I had popped. Sent her away the next day and never saw her again.

I regret doing that. I wish I had done it first with someone I really cared about, or a complete stranger. So, don't go middleway, haha. It might seem corny to say "follow your heart", but do what feels right. Sex is not "making love" or anything too special, really, definitely not the first time.

Sex is an act of inserting a fleshy protrusion into a moist hole in the pelvic area. It's not exactly worthy of all the romantic praise it gets when you get into semantics.
May 12 2012 5:05PM
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REDFRO420
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Just get laid, losing your virginity isn't really that big of a deal as people make it. Also if you suck who cares
May 12 2012 7:07PM
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heFF
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gotta slay a dragon(s) before you get the princess
May 12 2012 8:47PM
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sir_drums_a_lot
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NOOOOOOOO!!!!!  GOD, NOOOOOOOO!!!!!

NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!

May 13 2012 5:55PM
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alvy.
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It's way different for girls. They usually get pretty attached to the person they lose their virginity to.
May 13 2012 7:18PM
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LiquorLanch
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Do it with a girl you care about, that way the relationship will be much better and you'll enjoy her more. Don't do it for the sex, do it for the companionship and love.

And I'll leave you with this.

“Sex without love is as hollow and ridiculous as love without sex.”
― Hunter S. Thompson
May 13 2012 7:24PM
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JWoods
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Gold
May 13 2012 7:27PM
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Bodhisattva_
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And I will counter with this, "sex without love is like ice cream without sprinkles, still pretty damn awesome." go get your dick wet OP💦💦
May 13 2012 8:56PM
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VT_FLO
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Asap, to get the awkward out of the way. Just make sure you bring the condoms so she doesn't poke holes in them and make you a baby daddy
May 13 2012 8:59PM
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Dunnah
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lol a$ap rocky
May 13 2012 9:05PM
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Bodhisattva_
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Yeah if you're going to lose it you can't go wrong with ASAP. Heard he's got a mega 8======> ✨✨✨
May 13 2012 9:07PM
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Poems
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Gasp it's moment!
May 13 2012 10:16PM
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Dr.Gonzo
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16 is the average age to penetrate a vag for the first time is it not, i was late for my school and i was 17.
May 13 2012 10:20PM
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rareison
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Hi there
May 13 2012 10:21PM
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I.Am.Lorde.
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probably one of the best posts in this thread so far
May 13 2012 10:30PM
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EastCoast315
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I don't think 16 is average, man.
I think it's 25 for internet-using white people, and 12 for black people.

Or have I been operating on bad information my whole life?
May 13 2012 10:33PM
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Dr.Gonzo
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at my school there was a rush of vag pounding in the summer right after grade 10, that's the info im going off right now, its not exactly proven but that was when most people at my school lost it, and i would kill myself if i made it all the way though uni without getting my dick wet.
May 13 2012 10:35PM
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bustinthejus
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In general, it seems like girls lose it grade 10, guys lose it grade 12. At my school, anyways... Obviously there are exceptions, but I'd say grade 10 for girls and grade 12 for guys is pretty average.
May 13 2012 10:40PM
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TheStudioCC
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You're thinking too much, if the opportunity arises and you think it feels right go for it.
May 13 2012 10:47PM
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Dr.Gonzo
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listen to this mans, but make sure she isn't below a 6, or you will regret it later, sure shoot lower later if you become desperate, but make sure she's decent.
May 13 2012 10:55PM
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Lucas
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Lost it at 13 yolo
May 13 2012 10:57PM
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alex=
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seems legit
May 13 2012 11:07PM
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Satan666
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i think we found your girl, op
May 13 2012 11:20PM
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digiac
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i think bangin a few mudcats first is the way to go.

you're gonna suck the first few times and it will be good practice so you can actually enjoy it when you're with someone you care about. and don't romanticize the whole 'first girl' thing. once it's over and done with you won't care at all.
May 13 2012 11:45PM
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Dr.Gonzo
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this man brings up a good point, if you really like a girl your not going to last as long, honestly at this point i dont know what to tell you, just go for it.
May 13 2012 11:46PM
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Lolocaust.
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You do not live up to your username
May 14 2012 12:02AM
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Lolocaust.
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shut.the.fuck.up
May 14 2012 12:04AM
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Bodhisattva_
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At first I thought you said make sure she isn't below 6, like 6 years old...
I was like Yeah! Hit him before the hair does! 7 and over is fair game!
But then i was like nah nevermind...
May 14 2012 12:11AM
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Backyard.Skier
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epic party was epic.
May 14 2012 12:48AM
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forrest-cole
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hahaha you're 16 and eating girls out but having actually fucked a girl yet? You're definitely doing something wrong hahah



plus if you have a girl to hook up with, you should just give her a good dicking.. hahah
May 14 2012 12:57AM
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EastCoast315
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American here vouching for this.
I know from personally not giving a fuck. I'll probably pay for it someday, but I'm gonna live like Nick Nolte while I can
May 14 2012 2:12AM
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Bodhisattva_
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Yeah so my gf just called me and she has been really tired all week, been puking in the mornings and hasn't been eating certain foods. Def sounds like morning sickness. She is on the pill but idk and I may or may not have blown in her like 3 weeks ago I dint really remember. Fuck fuck fuck ai'm hoping she is just sick but we are going to get a test tomorrow. Fuck. She is down for an abortion but she can't let her parents find out if it comes to that. We ate both 17 and jrs in high school. I guess I should have given a fuck. Wish me luck.
May 14 2012 2:23AM
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EastCoast315
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Oof, sounds rough dude.
A girl I fucked raw on Cinco de Mayo texted me tonight saying "let's meet (not blackout)". Tomorrow night we're going out, I guess. I have a feeling she's gonna tell me I'm now living with AIDS.

I'm in paranoid megalomanical delusion mode, though, permamode. My postmodern nightmare mechanical
May 14 2012 2:26AM
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Bodhisattva_
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Fuck man she can't leave you hanging like that. That is extremely open ended. Could be that she just wants the D again, maybe you gots da AIDS or the clap or worse.. or maybe she is going to meet with you and signal her mafia conncected secret boyfriend to kidnap you and sell you into the sex trade..
May 14 2012 2:30AM
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