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How to go from friendship to relationship?

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r0dubs
Posts: 1764 - Karma: 19
After a long back and forth string of discussions (lasting in all around a year), one of my better female friends and I decided to try and take it to the next level. Both of us are worried that we might screw it up and accidentally ruin the friendship, and we want to take as many steps as possible to NOT do this. What's your advice for making sure we don't do anything stupid and ruin the friendship?
Mar 13 2012 7:11PM
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Mar 13 2012 7:12PM
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GreenStezz
Posts: 3570 - Karma: 714
Pee in her butt??.......................
Mar 13 2012 7:13PM
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Aidan-G
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Mar 13 2012 7:14PM
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Petey.
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Mar 13 2012 7:14PM
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Spinoza
Posts: 12763 - Karma: 3,846
this is dumb,        just try it and it will either work or it wont.    ball up dawg

Mar 13 2012 7:15PM
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Elmo.
Posts: 4319 - Karma: 668
GO SLOW and still act like best friends. talk about everything laugh hang out. it doesnt have to be all gf bf shit. oh and girls that are your bets friend love little extras like notes on their car after school or a visit to their work. just little things mean the most
me and my gf were best friends from 6th to the summer before 11th then we started dating and now have been bf gf for like a year and 4 months now and its the best thing. having a best friend is a gf is actually pretty sweet. lol.

hope that did something to help ya out
Mar 13 2012 7:16PM
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JayMeZZy
Posts: 423 - Karma: 510
get her knocked up, then your set for life
Mar 13 2012 7:16PM
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soulskier
Posts: 17806 - Karma: 3,841
just wing it
Mar 13 2012 7:17PM
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Sno.
Posts: 12284 - Karma: 7,654
Why would this ruin your friendship? I could see how this would be an issue if you were about to breakup, and you wanted to preserve the friendship after the breakup-- but there isn't any reason that dating should take away the friend part if it lasts. Good luck to you-- my fiance and I were friends a really long, tried dating off and on, and eventually it stuck. We went into the relationship as best friends and it's worked out great.
Mar 13 2012 7:18PM
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Rafiki
Posts: 3858 - Karma: 2,251
dick in a box
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Mar 13 2012 7:19PM
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epicsecrecy
Posts: 9 - Karma: 10
definitely do the most freaky porn shit ever, cum all over the place. boom. friends no more, sex yes
Mar 13 2012 7:20PM
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elemeno89
Posts: 1582 - Karma: 79
same thing happened to me. friends for 7 semesters of college and a few weeks before the end of the last semester started hooking up. for us i think it worked great (despite her being in a doctorate program in a different state/city) but we still talk and do the fun stuff. we really cant do anything stupid because we both knew of each others mistake tendencies. i wouldnt worry about it and go with the flow. that makes things a shitload more easier, especially when talking. you can talk about the same shit as before pretty much, but be a little more personal then you wold have beforehand.

youll be fine. you can leave the friendzone, and it is possible for it not to be weird. dont pay attention to the memes... +k for good luck.
Mar 13 2012 7:21PM
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Huck_Norris
Posts: 11487 - Karma: 18,627
Just stop thinking so goddam much and just enjoy each other.
Mar 13 2012 7:22PM
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elemeno89
Posts: 1582 - Karma: 79
***we went to undergrad together, shes in a different state now. my b***
Mar 13 2012 7:22PM
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Benji.
Posts: 1146 - Karma: 88
THAT is what you should do.

friendzone = bangzone in no time bro
Mar 13 2012 7:23PM
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Ski_Alot
Posts: 5909 - Karma: 3,736
be nice...
Mar 13 2012 7:31PM
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mightyboosh
Posts: 171 - Karma: 30
Honestly what is with all this friendzone stuff recently, its blowing up in memes/facebook everwhere suddenly. It's making guys everywhere sound really lame

also OP your situation doesnt make sense at all - if you just want to stay friends then don't take it to "the next level". If you want to start going out or whatever, then do take it to the next level, where obviously it won't be the same kind of friendship as before, but she will be your girlfriend.
Mar 13 2012 7:34PM
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Milksteak
Posts: 9948 - Karma: 832
Do exactly what you did before you pussy. Not like you're not going to be friends anymore once you start "Dating"
Mar 13 2012 7:36PM
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andybob
Posts: 474 - Karma: 35
Other than getting it in, I don't see what would really change. As long as you still have good chemistry once your together and "official," being friends should just come naturally.
Mar 13 2012 7:48PM
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Anathema
Posts: 21048 - Karma: 5,062
jim halpert left the friend zone and put himself into the prospect zone.

you should do the same.
Mar 13 2012 7:50PM
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Send_It_Jerry
Posts: 187 - Karma: 74
Dude just be the man chill with her and impress her.... be the man just act like a sleek as mofo act dope impress that babe with some ski moves take this shit slow.... Just be chill. hopefully she likes you back best of luck!! :D
Mar 13 2012 8:17PM
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forrest-cole
Posts: 1145 - Karma: 495
fuck relationships, just get dat pussssy BOIIIIII
Mar 13 2012 8:21PM
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Send_It_Jerry
Posts: 187 - Karma: 74
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^That is also your other option just go for the pussy....
Mar 13 2012 8:29PM
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JcH_Unlisted
Posts: 127 - Karma: 26
the naked man. 2/3 times. it worked for me so you gotta 50 percent chance
Mar 13 2012 8:42PM
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Hamster.
Posts: 1636 - Karma: 26
how big is his dick?
Mar 13 2012 8:42PM
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Hamster.
Posts: 1636 - Karma: 26
how big is his dick?
Mar 13 2012 8:42PM
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