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She hates how I act like Skiings a lifestyle?

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GypsyLovin
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Okay fellas (and ladies) here the deal.

So Im talking to my girlfriend as I would everyother day and I get back from skiing and we start talking about our plans for the day to come.

I tell her that I am supposed to work (Im a ski instructor in MN) and she says "well thats okay Its just like any other day... All you do is ski."

Kind of surprised and a bit unsettled I say well yeah I absolutely love skiing, and this is what shocked me. She says and I quote her word for word "I hate how you act about skiing... Its like a lifestyle."

And at this point I just want to say well hell yeah its a lifestyle! But Im not the one to start an argument so I just wave it off.... What is this!

Am I crazy or are there people out there who dont think skiings a lifestyle?!

Feb 16 2012 12:47AM
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Wall_Nut
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Hell yeah it's a lifestyle, ski tricks is my alcohol
Feb 16 2012 12:49AM
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platform8
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my parents cant except it either....
Feb 16 2012 12:49AM
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Skiingsnow
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oh snap
Feb 16 2012 12:49AM
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.AR6rider.
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Meh, skiing is a hobby. A lot of kids take it wayyyy too seriously. It's just something you go out and do for fun.
Feb 16 2012 12:50AM
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Stose
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for some it is for some it isnt.
Feb 16 2012 12:51AM
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TheDers
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my ex girlfriend felt the same way. hence why her title is now EX
Feb 16 2012 12:52AM
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[hamnuts]
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Do what makes you happy. If you're like annoyingly obsesseds with it I can see it pissing her off, because like anything if it gets old if its the only thing talked about.
Feb 16 2012 12:54AM
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baethoven
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It all depends on how far YOU take it. I love skiing, I get out 2-3 sometimes 4 times a week. I'd rather not say I live a "skiers" lifestyle. Just that I love to ski.
Feb 16 2012 1:00AM
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act.resist
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Date girl who skis or snowboards as much as you ski. Problem solved!
Feb 16 2012 1:00AM
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GypsyLovin
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WORD! I just didnt know it was like that! But I play it safe and dont really talk about it often at all! But you know its all good!

Feb 16 2012 1:00AM
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Aidan-G
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Feb 16 2012 1:07AM
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jdubbs.
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I treat skiing like a lifestyle. I would just try and watch yourself around her
Feb 16 2012 1:11AM
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vaginapanties
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skiing is more than a sport, its a lifestyle
Feb 16 2012 1:12AM
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GayWolf420
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If she has a problem with you doing what makes you happy, you need to reconsider having her around.
Feb 16 2012 1:13AM
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Aidan-G
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No one will take you seriously until you change your name
Feb 16 2012 1:15AM
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skifoo
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If we love skiing, why shouldn't we take it serious?
Feb 16 2012 1:24AM
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Phil-X-
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People dont understand my steeze...
Feb 16 2012 1:26AM
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Aidan-G
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How do you take skiing seriously? I mean I understand taking a comp seriously but what does it even mean to take skiing seriously if you're not competing?
Feb 16 2012 1:27AM
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Cufe.
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Buy her a bushel of roses
write note "I will love you until the last rose dies"
Don't plant fake rose
3 weeks later you're free to ski all day, everyday
????
PROFIT!
Feb 16 2012 1:29AM
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Skiingsnow
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im an instructor, im always taking my skiing seriously to try and improve, i have never competed in anything
Feb 16 2012 1:31AM
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skifoo
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I was just figuring out what does it mean to take skiing too seriously. I didn't find out.
Feb 16 2012 1:33AM
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Aidan-G
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I mean I can understand taking being an instructor and taking it seriously but what's the point of skiing if you go out and get angry every time you fall because you're taking it seriously? I go out and have fun. The only time I can take a sport or a game seriously and still have fun is if it's a competition. Otherwise what's the point?
Feb 16 2012 1:34AM
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Aidan-G
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I get that but I'm talking about on the mountain not buying things and preparing to go to the mountain
Feb 16 2012 1:37AM
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pelle_munch
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for you maybe, but for me and i'm sure a lot of other people, it's life!
Feb 16 2012 1:45AM
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LDV
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I for one use frustration as motivation to keep trying. Just how I motivate myself to do things on the hill.
Feb 16 2012 1:47AM
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Aidan-G
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I do too I don't go ski to get angry. I have Basketball refs for that
Feb 16 2012 1:48AM
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LDV
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I'm never genuinely pissed off when I'm skiing. All the cliches hold true for me and I just enjoy every moment. Even when I'm cussing myself out I'm still having fun.
Feb 16 2012 1:50AM
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.AR6rider.
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You're only lying to yourself lol.
Feb 16 2012 1:55AM
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Clark_Griswold
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I can't talk to my girlfriend about skiing. She gets so mad. even if she asks me what i'm doing and i say "waxing my skis" she gets pissed. But when i get home from the hill she will ask "how was skiing?" as if she cares because i know as soon as i tell her something i thought was cool i did that day she just rolls her eyes at me..
Feb 16 2012 1:55AM
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sherwood4099
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Girls like well rounded guys she is probably subliminally trying to tell you are boring and you talk about it to much when she does see you and that she already doesn't see you as much as she would like as it is. If she doesn't love to ski and you live a "skiing lifestyle" than it probably won't work out. But if it's just your favorite thing to do and you want to do it all the time do it and tr to find a few things to do that you both enjoy and fill your time with her up with that. Any girlfriend worth a damn will respect you for being passionate about something but most girls will also get bored not seeing you and constantly having to listen about extreme sports
Feb 16 2012 1:55AM
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GypsyLovin
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Yes dude I know how that one goes!
Feb 16 2012 8:33AM
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skithesprings
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I very strongly disagree.
Feb 16 2012 8:35AM
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Darth.Maul
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Ive told my parents this so many times and my gr and they just dont get it. Maybe one day...
Feb 16 2012 9:07AM
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JzD.
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Just tell her straight up, can't do much else
Feb 16 2012 9:11AM
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TheGnarwhal
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Tell her that it's a better lifestyle than bitching..
Feb 16 2012 9:23AM
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AcidKneeDrop
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+k to you sir thats what i was going to say
Feb 16 2012 9:34AM
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NotGhood
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dump that bitch

skiing is a lifestyle...the right one.
Feb 16 2012 9:53AM
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Mr.Gaga
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I'd pee in her butt.
Feb 16 2012 10:05AM
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JamesR
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PRO TIP: what she said has nothing to do with your attitude towards skiing. it has nothing to do with skiing at all.
Feb 16 2012 10:14AM
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asapCferg
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this is why i like guys who ski....they totally understand it!
Feb 16 2012 10:14AM
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Kekambas.
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Unless you teach, are a ski bum, or are professional or something it isn't a lifestyle, its just something you do, sure you love it but it isn't your lifestyle don't try to act like it is. 
Feb 16 2012 10:16AM
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Skiingsnow
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watch an urban segment, guys loose their shit after like 3 fails trying to hit a rail, and im the best skier on the mountain so there is no fail, only fun.
Feb 16 2012 10:20AM
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Orrin
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If she can't accept you for who you are, then she's not worth your time.
Feb 16 2012 10:22AM
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seward
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i kinda agree with this.

just cause you really really really really love skiing, does not mean it is your lifestyle.
it is a hobby, for some a job.
i can understand being so in love with skiing that it consumes your life, but it is not your WHOLE life.
Feb 16 2012 10:36AM
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Bumblesteeze
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At least you have a passion, unlike a lot of people that don't have anything to live for. Seriously, look around you; do you see a lot of people that are passionate about anything? You're passionate about skiing which is a great way to spend time in nature, while getting some good exercise along with it. It's not harming you or anybody, it's not like you're have a hard drug lifestyle or that you're wasting your days in front of an LCD screen playing xbox.

Tell her to go watch the jersey shore with the rest of her generic friends.
Feb 16 2012 10:37AM
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BenWest
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Kind of related, I've been called a hipster cause I wear ski and skater brands.... said person however thinks just about anything outside of sports team t-shirts, jeans and running shoes is hipster
Feb 16 2012 10:52AM
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ChocolateMilk.
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This.
Skiing is a lifestyle for me but it's not necessarily for everyone if you've found skiing is your passion you don't necessarily have to be a bum just do what makes you happy.
Feb 16 2012 10:54AM
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seward
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i would like one person in this thread to explain to me exactly what makes skiing their lifestyle.

im not dissagreeing with anyone, i just want to understand what exactly the average NS'er considers to be lifestyle because this topic is so interesting to me.

and go
Feb 16 2012 10:59AM
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TechnoPotamus
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Alright, I can understand obth viewpoints in ths thread (i.e. it is a lifetsyle, it is not a lifestyle).


Here's my take, which I believe is fairly accurate....



It IS a lifestyle if it governs what you do outside of the time that you are taking part in the activity. So for skiing, it you workout in ways that directly will benefit your skiing, and you dress the part of a skiier in ski brands and style and such, and are watching videos and reading up on skiing daily - I would say skiing is your lifestyle. You don't even have to compete, but if you are that passionate about it and it affects your behavior outside of the time you're physically on skis, then yes it's a lifestyle.


For example, I am extremely dedicated to working out and being in shape. I even work part time as a personal trainer because I enjoy helping people and teaching them. Working out is a lifestyle for me because even when I am not in the gym lifting, I eat in accordance with a very specific diet to keep body fat % and muscular development etc etc etc all in check. Often times you'll find me in workout related clothing....I'm always researching and reading up on new fitness and nutrition articles...watching videos for new ideas and to perfect my form on complex lifts, all that shit. I compete as well in crossfit competitions...so for me it's absolutely a lifestyle.



make sense?
Feb 16 2012 11:16AM
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