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Parents arent talking to eachother

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SloanePeterson
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Hey guys, usless thread, but im scared because my parents havent talked to eachother in a few days, they are both either at home or somewhere else, but isolated and not talking, they had a small fight a couple of days ago and im just gettting realllllly bad anxiety so please help me with positive thoughts thanks! <3
Feb 4 2012 9:41PM
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saskskierftw
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++++Vibes/hugs and everything will be O.K. :)
Feb 4 2012 9:42PM
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Anathema
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how do you expect us to help. would you like me to talk to your parents for you? i just don't understand what possible help a random person on the internet can be to you.

i guess just wait it out. time heals all things. my dad fights with everyone too. just gotta wait until it blows over and he gets out of controlling rage mode.

in the meantime, i love you and praise be to yevon.

Feb 4 2012 9:43PM
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BlakeG
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just remember that its not your fault...seriously its not, you did nothing wrong to cause this

and if they separate well they are still your parents and they wont love you anyless
Feb 4 2012 9:44PM
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Mr.Turtle
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nice name
Feb 4 2012 9:44PM
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Flying~Squirrel
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its your fault, and they both hate you because of it.
Feb 4 2012 9:45PM
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Big.L
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Why don't you talk to them and see what's going on?
Feb 4 2012 9:46PM
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SloanePeterson
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you answered your own question i think, but thanks everyone, and i just have sooo much anxiety from this little of a thing its ridiculous i can hardly keep my thoughts straight aghh
Feb 4 2012 9:47PM
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Anathema
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i know its no fap february, but it might help. ill give you a freebie. 123go
Feb 4 2012 9:49PM
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ryano
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just listen to this and relax.

Feb 4 2012 9:50PM
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SloanePeterson
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;)
Feb 4 2012 9:51PM
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SlimDunkin.
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Ive lived in a house like where my parents have been fighting since the day I was born, how they havent gotten a divorce is beyond me, if youre around it enough you kind of get used to it, sorta becomes white noise.

But if you aren't used to it, I can see how it could be extremely hard and terrifying.

Here are some things that I do, when it hasn't been a great day, and my parents fighting has 'caused me some anxiety.

- Read
- Bait both of my parents into being together (i.e. family movie)
- Try to figure out whats wrong, without getting involved.
- Take a hot motherfucking bath
- Get drunk


If you need anything else feel free to shoot me a PM
Feb 4 2012 9:53PM
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twsnow22
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using alcohol to avoid a problem is never a good idea.. the other advice was good though.
Feb 4 2012 9:55PM
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ryano
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speaking of your name.. watch this.

Feb 4 2012 9:55PM
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Anathema
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seriously. go take a nice warm shower, grab the shower head, and do work. if i were a woman, i guarantee i'd be doing this daily. and then end it with a bath. make it a bubble bath. give yourself a mohawk and a bubble beard and laugh at yourself in the mirror.

sometimes we need to go back to child mode to remember the good times and bring a smile to our own faces. i know that works for me. but then again, i am a pretty goofy individual..

good luck, ranger.
Feb 4 2012 9:56PM
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soulskier
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that reminds me, i need a bigger hot water tank
Feb 4 2012 9:56PM
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SloanePeterson
Posts: 52 - Karma: 25
thanks athena (how i read your name hehe) your posts are always gold. i think ill do this and fall asleep love all you guys.
Feb 4 2012 10:13PM
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TallerThanThou
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Is this a reference to masturbation?
Feb 4 2012 10:18PM
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snwbrdmilf
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I have a clawfoot tub - love bubble baths.
Feb 4 2012 10:20PM
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Davy.Crockett
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things will get better just remember that
Feb 4 2012 10:23PM
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[evan]
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If you're having serious problems, go to the ladies men cult, i did and it helped a lot.
Feb 4 2012 10:27PM
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whoa-dere
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my parents are yelling at each other as i type this lol. i really don't worry about this, they'll eventually make up
Feb 4 2012 10:28PM
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Stickity
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my dad found texts on my mom's phone that led him to believe that she was cheating on him and i was in the house when he found them and flipped shit

shut the fuck up
Feb 4 2012 10:28PM
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