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Religion and chastity

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petek
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God fucking damnit! Nowhere does it say in the bible that you must not have sex before you marry. It simply says that you shouldnt commit adultry. Adultry by definition is having sexual relations outside of marriage, yet if you are not married then adultry cannot take place.
Where did this go wrong? Saying that without marriage first, pre-marital sex is like you are cheating on your future husband is an interpretation of 'thou shall not commit adultery'.
I'm involved in a situation with a very good looking blonde chik, who is really religious.(but you should see this girls rack). I dunno whether i should go for her, or not. If i dont, i may hurt her feelings and if i finally do get her in bed then its all good. On the flip side, i pbly wont get her in bed, and i enjoy sex very much.



Diamonds... She'll pretty much have to
Sep 19 2004 4:34PM
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rugbydave
Posts: 770 - Karma: 9
The one thing I never quite understand is how people assume that you don't really care about a girl, or even love her just because you say she has a nice rack. Finding a woman sexually attractive sure as hell doesn't preclude you from loving her (or liking her, you know whatever the case may be)


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and I'm in-no-cent till my guilt is pro-ven!

Sep 21 2004 1:03AM
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Prins
Posts: 1283 - Karma: 49
you should really read your first post... I'm really excited that you found someone whom you desire to spend the rest of your life with. I hope that it works out for you, and if she's worth the rest of your life I'm sure she'll be worth the wait.

Sorry for being judgmental, your first post stirred up thoughts from previous conversations.
Sep 21 2004 1:08AM
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J.D.
Posts: 21362 - Karma: 5,142
What dave said up ^^there is quite true, although to be honest, I don't think it would be the FIRST thing you'd be mentioning...

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In a haze
A stormy haze
I’ll be around
I’ll be loving you
Always
Always

Here I am
And I’ll take my time
Here I am
And I’ll wait in line
Always
Always...
Sep 21 2004 10:23AM
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Moses
Posts: 1849 - Karma: 564
yeah, and when you do it, dont do a bad job This will make you very mad and you will drive home at 80mph yelling and puching the stearing wheel. But you'll get over it
Sep 21 2004 10:33AM
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thewavebb
Posts: 1082 - Karma: 20
I waited till I was married to have sex. It was the hardest 4 years in my life so far. There is so much weird tension that developes when only being able to be emotionaly intimate with someone. However, by waiting I was able to learn so much about her and we grew stronger in our faith together. I had classmates that would come to school with sweaty palms because there girlfriend was late on her period. they were a mess till she either took a test or had her period. I am a christian, having sex before marrage was not an option. It was not forced on me, nor did I feel punished. It was a choice that I made without any pressure from church or parents. Even if I wasn't a christian, the stress my friends went through was enough of a deterent.

Think of all the time you spend thinking about sex. These are mainly fruitless thoughts with no greater good coming from them. If you used that time to work on something to better yourself, you will probably have a more gratifying life
Sep 21 2004 3:17PM
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aggro_sk8
Posts: 2760 - Karma: 18
see, if you had put in there, 'i really care about her, and could spend the rest of my life with her.' and left out, the 'big rack' comment that made you sound (not that you were) like you were bragging you could get with this chick. we woulda seen that you acre about her. but you left that out, and made it sound like you just want her body.

but dude, if you really care about her, you'll let her save herself till marraige. and have you told her youre not a virgin? (just outta curiosity)
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