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Letter from girls friends dad.

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october
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my girl friends dad sent this to me and I have decided to never step foot in the fuckers house again. I posted it here just to see what you guys thought.



I know you probably don't care what I think but here's the deal - if you're an integral part of Sarah's life you're part of mine. So, for what its worth, here's my asshole redneck view on you.

Its time to get your shit right and MAN UP. Using others and blaming others for your own screw-ups is pathetic. Its not that I care so much about your DUI, its that you can't face the reality that YOU and only you got it, and only you can turn it around. Blaming Sarah is the pinnacle of being a loser. Look in the mirror and accept that you screwed up. Get off your ass and get right with life. Getting fired from a job is one thing - but - you've been fired from every job you've ever had!!! At what point do you get it that - YOU have to pull your weight. Being a cool slacker might make you interesting to your bro's but it makes you an asshole to the rest of the world. Sometimes when you screw up you have to take what you can get, make ends meet, and pick yourself up to get things right for yourself. When you do what it takes - it will work out - but, whining to Mommy and blaming others will never get you anything beyond USELESS.

If you're still reading - I'm surprised. But maybe there's hope. Just so you know - I don't carry grudges and I can get over my current hostility towards you. I think you could be a damn decent person. I can move on and forget quite easily - I just hope somehow it matters to you, marginally. I just think its time you took a long hard look in the mirror and wake up to what is looking back at you. Potential - yes....but not unless YOU make that potential happen. You may have to sacrifice a few fun times, you may have to accept the pitifullness of your past and be honest with yourself about the remedies required. You may have to quit using others to get your needs met - especially your own Mom. The only person that can fix anything regarding YOU - is YOU. Respect is earned. Right now you have none from anyone that knows you well. Don't confuse sympathy with respect.

At this point I hope you turn things around and earn my - & others who care about you - respect. It really wouldn't take a lot of time - but it will take a lot of effort and acceptance on your part. Words will mean nothing. Actions will be the only cure. You WILL be judged by what YOU do.


Jan 5 2012 2:00AM
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GayWolf420
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Haha holy fucking shit.
Jan 5 2012 2:02AM
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technique.
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drinking and driving is sooooo cool!
Jan 5 2012 2:03AM
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technique.
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drinking and driving is sooooo cool!
Jan 5 2012 2:03AM
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TACO-DOG.exe
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from that letter you sound like a total fucking douche bag
Jan 5 2012 2:03AM
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Abc567def
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sounds like he could be right...

if you already have a DUI and have been fired from every job you have ever had then you might want to reevaluate your life. Sounds like he is being protective of his daughter and has every right to be.
Jan 5 2012 2:04AM
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iSmokeweed
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HAHAHAHAHAHA YOU DONE GOOFED
Jan 5 2012 2:05AM
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Hufflepuff
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...well whats your defense, cause he made you sound like a straight fuck up loser.

Jan 5 2012 2:05AM
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Gnarwall
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I think you're about to get your shit worked by NS... A DUI, come on man...
Jan 5 2012 2:05AM
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JakeAssBeatClap
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Well it's obvious he cares about his daughter and even for you. To put in time to say how he feels is a pretty respectable thing.

But to put it lightly I'll take the father's side on this one and if what i picked up from this letter you sound kinda like a piece of shit who needs to get it together.

But then again my ex's dad hated me because i made his daughter go to him crying a few times when we would get in a fight. And so he thought i was a piece of shit who needs to get it together.

So for all I know you could be exactly like me hahaha

Best advice approach him about it, approach your lady about it. And see what the skivvy is
Jan 5 2012 2:07AM
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wait.what
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lol
Jan 5 2012 2:09AM
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wait.what
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lol
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wait.what
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lol
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wait.what
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lol
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wait.what
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lol
Jan 5 2012 2:09AM
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Shireshredder
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Sounds like a perfectly reasonable argument to me
Jan 5 2012 2:09AM
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jkauffman22
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Damn haha. How much do you care about this girl? How redneck is the father? Depending on both, you might wanna step up?...
Jan 5 2012 2:09AM
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wait.what
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lol
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wait.what
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lol
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wait.what
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lol
Jan 5 2012 2:09AM
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wait.what
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whoops :(
Jan 5 2012 2:10AM
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october
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My side.

I dont not use my mom, nor other people. I try and be independent and not abuse my relationships with people.

I have not gotten fired from all my jobs.

I got my DUI after I found her in bed with another dude, I went to the bar to unwind, got pulled over for a broken tail light, and lost my job because of it.

Jan 5 2012 2:13AM
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cow.
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what's your side of the story man?

DUI = dad's probably right. what if his daughter's in the car next time, and you crash?

the fact that he would do this for you, says that he's a pretty great guy. now tell us why we should be pulling for you.
Jan 5 2012 2:13AM
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scratchproteen
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Now I don't know your side of the story but it does sound like you need to man up here, can't hold a job and blaming others for your DUI when its nobodies fault but the person who is driving.

saying your never stepping foot in his house again is the complete wrong thing to do here, this guy cares about you and his daughter, if he didn't care he wouldn't have written that letter.

Again we don't know your side of this story but you should probably use this as a sign that you need to figure some shit out.
Jan 5 2012 2:14AM
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E__
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Well he is right if everything he said is true, he's worried about you even if he doesn't show it. If everything he said is exaggerated then he's an asshole but I highly doubt it, I'd take his advice and become a better person nothing wrong with that. He is a dick though.
Jan 5 2012 2:17AM
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october
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he also wrote a letter saying I was the scum of the earth and should kill myself.
Jan 5 2012 2:17AM
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chicken
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why did he have to write a letter? couldn't say it to your face?
Jan 5 2012 2:18AM
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Hufflepuff
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Damn Brah I would never go back to a girl that cheated. Gangas gona Gang, Sluts gona sluts.
Jan 5 2012 2:18AM
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MothaHucker
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although thats always a horrible thing to come home too, and her dad should realize that his daughter is no perfect being either, this doesn't make the DUI any less your fault. On the other hand it doesnt sound like his perception of you is entirely spot on either.
Jan 5 2012 2:19AM
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JakeAssBeatClap
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Why the fuck are you dating some two timing bitch?

No excuses ever, you drop a bitch like a sac of bricks if she cheats on you.

Fuck bitches get money

yous a pretty mother fucker

drop this bitch and her fucking dad sending you letters and shit.

Oh and btw people hating on your dui. I guarantee 90% of the ones that have actually drank and arent 14 have driven drunk i have. I have driven and don't remember it. Doesn't make it right, doesn't make me smart, but i got lucky and didn't get popped like you so no hate on that. I'm taking your side on this one. FUck her dad and break up with that cheating skeez
Jan 5 2012 2:23AM
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october
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No he is way too fucking radical, I was just pissed because that weekend were supposed to hang out and go to the next premier, but instead i was all fucked up and went to the bar, something I never do. I mean i realize I have to take responsibility for my emotions, but god damn, finding her with that dude fucking ripped my heart apart.
Jan 5 2012 2:24AM
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october
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No he is way too fucking radical, I was just pissed because that weekend were supposed to hang out and go to the next premier, but instead i was all fucked up and went to the bar, something I never do. I mean i realize I have to take responsibility for my emotions, but god damn, finding her with that dude fucking ripped my heart apart.
Jan 5 2012 2:24AM
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october
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thanks man
Jan 5 2012 2:25AM
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GayWolf420
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I'm sure it did, man. It's totally acceptable to have a few drinks afte shit like that. By all means unwind. There's just smart and dumb ways to do it.
Jan 5 2012 2:26AM
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october
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it just fucking pisses me off, because I found her with that dude, everything was fucking golden! Yeah I made some mistakes in response to emotional trauma, that makes me fucking human, my bad. Fuck, and what kills me about this dude is he cheats on his wife and treats his daughters like shit.
Jan 5 2012 2:28AM
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october
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im just saying when a man finds his lady of four years with another dude, its going to fuck him up, and he is not going to think clearly, I realized I fucked up, but Im in no way giving up, or using people.
Jan 5 2012 2:30AM
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wait.what
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too much to ask for pics?
Jan 5 2012 2:33AM
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Davy.Crockett
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Still not really her fault you got a DUI...
Jan 5 2012 2:34AM
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TheHundreds
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If what he says is true... maybe you should look in the mirror.... Fired from every job??? hahaha... I've made it a personal goal to never get fired... DUI... Wow you sound like a real winner.

Truth hurts, especially when you know he's right.
Jan 5 2012 2:34AM
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Chickendodo
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That's fucked, and you shouldn't brag about shit like that on the internet. There's a difference between having a couple beers and driving and getting full blown shit-wrecked, blacking out, and then driving. You sound like YOU need to get your shit in order.

And to the OP, shit sucks, but seriously, she cheated on you. You shouldn't be with this chick anymore. Which raises the point - why the fuck do you care what her dad thinks? If you're still with her you have bigger problems than his "crazy redneck" ass.
Jan 5 2012 2:36AM
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whegrodamus.
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She cheated on you? Tell her dad that if you already haven't. If he thinks you're just blaming her, then he doesn't understand the reason why you got drunk. You got drunk because you care so much about his daughter. If he saw his wife with another dude, he'd be pissed too.

If she cheated on you, and her dad is crazy in your view...then just get out.

From her dad's point of view though, he should be concerned about his daughter's boyfriend if said boyfriend just got a DUI and lost his job.
Jan 5 2012 2:37AM
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october
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Its not her fault, but being with her just makes me not think clearly. I know for a fact I would not be at the bar if she had not done that to me, and there for would not have gotten the DUI, and therefore would have not lost my job. Why do bitches have to do that?

I now know that when a girl friend cheats on you, drink at home, and check your tail lights.
Jan 5 2012 2:37AM
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Keenan_Jones
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Letter made me laugh. Why did you get back with her again... Not to harp on an already tough situation you're in... But it sounds like you're blaming him/daughter (girlfriend)/wife on the letter her wrote... Maybe you should man up and maybe it's time to mature a little.
Jan 5 2012 2:39AM
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MACAQUE
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1)Dump the bitch
2)Plant an assload of weed plants in that fucker's yard and call the cops on him
3)?????
4)Profit
Jan 5 2012 2:39AM
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october
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i dont think he knows she cheated on me. I seriously never go to the bars, I was just lost and confused, I dont fucking know, anyone in love who has been fucked knows you are not tom wallisch when you get your heart ripped up, it fucks your shit up. I should have called a cab for sure, but I just feel pissed off about all the shitty emotions and life destruction that night caused me. Before that I worked really hard to have everything lined up.
Jan 5 2012 2:40AM
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october
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How am I not being mature. When this girl cheats on me, and her dad sends me this hate letter that is not even accurate about my character, I just want to punch babies.
Jan 5 2012 2:44AM
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JakeAssBeatClap
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hahahah dope misquote bro you're a fucking joke. I wasn't bragging about it at all. hahaha I actually said, to quote me more generously than you did,
"I have driven and don't remember it. Doesn't make it right, doesn't make me smart, but i got lucky and didn't get popped like you"

I was saying people who are badgering this kid because he got a DUI is stupid. We all know its bad, we all know we put our life and others in jeopardy when we do it and yet many of us still do it. And yes I have driven when i shouldn't have many more times than I'd care to admit, in high school definitely and in college significantly less. But there have been a few times where i got home and was like how the fuck did i get here and it's like oh fuck I drove here.

And I don't need to get my shit in order. 3.5 overall gpa at a well known university, hitting the slopes 40+ times a season while achieving those grades, partying, making friends, meeting girls, going to concerts, HAVING A BLAST. While still getting those sought after A's and B's

Sounds like my shit's in so much order it makes an ocd person relieved.

Jan 5 2012 2:46AM
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LO_GO
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damn kid if it takes your girl friends dad too man up and put you in check maybe you do have some problems. I mean come on you got a DUI like that would be total rock bottom for me. I knwo he might not be the right person too tell you this shit but ultimately he is looking out for you, he has enough respect for you too even write this letter, it just shows he still wants you too be his daughters man but you gotta start being a man is all he's saying..........Idk thats just my two cents
Jan 5 2012 2:51AM
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Culla
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Well if you want us on your side, why didn't you post this one? The one you posted makes him sound like a pretty stand up guy worried about his daughter.
Jan 5 2012 2:53AM
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october
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dude, I am a fucking man. I just found it harder to get my shit together with all the trust and betrayal shit lingering in my chest, like I need to dump her ass, but I still love her, and then on top of all the DUI shit and losing my job, the last thing I need is some jerk off red neck yelling at me, I know I fucked up, believe me, there is not a day that goes by that I dont think about what I could have done differently, but to just hate on me pisses me off, I think he needs to man up and not cheat on his fucking wife or not pay his taxes.
Jan 5 2012 2:54AM
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october
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oh and to add to the emotional complexities of the issue, she dumped me before she did that with those dudes, then took me back ( as we were hanging out, fucking and dropping the L bomb), only to do that. I dont know, i know its crazy, but love is crazy and makes you crazy, and uggg.
Jan 5 2012 2:57AM
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