So i moved in with my mom and dad this semester because my college told me to take a breather for a semester hahaha but i've been splitting my time between santa barbara and boulder since may . I go back for like a week every month or so until next semester when i move back. So i moved home for summer in may after last years school year. And about two weeks into summer vacation i was working at this music store and this sexy older woman came in to buy a guitar for her 10 year old son. I was the only one working so i helped out and while the kid was playing around looking at guitars i started talking to this woman and we started flirting and i ended up getting her number and told her we could go out for coffee. so we end up seeing eachother and talking and spending a lot of time together. But the thing is. I'm twenty. 19 when i met her. She is 30. 29 when i met her. I have been seeing her since about mid june. Nothing official at all but i know she is exclusive to me. i'm not so much exclusive to her but we have an agreement that like we really like eachother and love the sex and everything but it wont work when i leave and she will need to find someone who can actually help her out with her son and help her start a family but until then we just have fun. hahaha Anyway, we have been getting closer over the past few months and i have met all of her family i know her mom and dad quite well and her son and i get along well but my parents don't know. they know there is this girl who i have been seeing for a while and they know her name and her job and almost everything about her aside from the fact that she has a kid and she is ten years older than me. She has been nagging me for months to get together to meet my parents. and come over for dinner. I just have no idea what they will say. Knowing my dad he will think its the shit that i've been shagging an older babe for close to 6 months... my mom however will not. i just don't know what to do. I'm in over my head and shouldve never started anything with this lady because i always knew she had a kid its always been a fantasy to bang out an older lady for a summer like Dustin hoffman's character in the graduate but the thing is I stayed in california longer than a summer its been six months now. So, any one have an idea here are the options i've come up with
A) bring this woman to my parents and have them meet
B)End things with her before she can meet my parents
C) try to belabor the meeting until i have to leave to colorado? Which is still up in the air.
Sparknotes- started seeing a 30 year old woman with a 10 year old son this summer, finally wants to meet my family, i am not sure how to tell my parents that Stacy, the girl i met at the music store this summer and started dating is in fact a 30 year old woman.
pics because i know you will ask for them.
