Backstory: My Dad And Mom have asked me to make a decision regarding which high school I'll be going to. My older brother went to a catholic school, but my sister went to public. I'm having a tough decision choosing and want some help. I'll tell you what I think and then let you guys tell me what you think would be best or share your feelings about either schooling.
--Private: So basically I've already though a bit about this, I know that private school will get me a better education, I'll have more choices for what classes I'm taking, and it'll probably open some new doors in my life. It seems like a no-brainer, but I've also thought of my friends and my living/commuting situation. Going to private school would mean driving 30min. + every morning and every afternoon to get to school. Alternatively I could go to a boarding school in CT which would be around an hour away from my house. Then I'm worried about when I would see my hometown friends, if we would still be friends at all, and what skiing would be like. I don't think I'd like showing up to my mountain after not seeing all my friends for a year and pretending everything is normal. There's only one other mountain in CT which isn't shitty, and if I went to boarding school I wouldn't even be able to ski regularly.
--Public: My dad hates me for thinking about going to public school, he wants me to be my older brother. Hardworking, smart, and somebody who finds interest in my dad's job. The thing is, my brother lost all his friends in HS and it didn't seem like he ever made new friends, he was pretty lonely in HS. If I went to public school in my town I wouldn't lose any friends, and skiing would be a breeze, I feel like my HS years would be more normal. But the education I got wouldn't be as good, less choices and less preparation for college which is obviously the final destination.
I guess that's it, I just need some advice or to hear your experiences.