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well now were just putting words in my mouth.
i said he "spanked the shit out of me" not "he beat the shit of me".
i didnt do it again because i was spanked for it. which is the purpose of desciplining somebody in the first place no?
i agree, we probably both learned lessons. your parents did it one way, my parents did it another.
its not like my parents solely spanked me and that was it in terms of discipline. my folks also played "mind games" with me (although i would never call it mind games, cause its a lesson, not a mind game). i often missed hockey tournaments for poor marks at school, detentions, etc.
my mom didnt hit me with a spoon and say ok, your free to go to whatever the fuck you want again. i got hit with a spoon, then your so called "mind games" began.
again, i never said my parents love me more then other peoples parents because they spanked me. i said my parents spanked me because they loved me. if they didnt love me and didnt give a fuck about me they would discipline me period, cause they dont care.
so my parents are "twisted" for spanking me? well that must make your parents "fuckin pussies" for not spanking you. see the circle were going in here? neither of our parents are right or wrong. they have a different way of doing things which evidently led to the same conclusion. but do me a favor, refrain from calling my parents "twisted". theyre my parents, you have never met them, so dont for a second think you have a right to judge them.
is that a serious question? how is saying "because its not their kid" not a reasonable answer? its the only answer. babysitters are hired to baby sit, if the kid acts up while they are sitting you report it to the parents, and they handle disciplining how they see fit. same reason teachers couldnt spank me for getting a F or throwing erasers in class. imagine we could all just go around physically disciplining eachother? i would have more black eyes and red bum cheeks then i would know what to do with. kids are the sole responsibility of their parents, and no one else.
again, i read your posts, hence why im responding.
your calling me out for saying i got spanked, so therefore i should think this video is normal behaviour??
when i acted up i got (figure of speech) the shit spanked out of me, not whipped repeatedly with a fuckin belt.
how in hell are you struggling to comprehend the difference between that and what happens in this video?
no need for caps lock bro... i can read and comprehend in lower case just fine.
i dont think its wrong. sorry, we dont have to agree, but we can be civil about it.
i didnt say a hand is considered a weapon, i said it CAN be considered a weapon. a open handed smack on the bum, is not using a weapon IMO. a closed fisted punch to the face or this case a huge leather belt, CAN be considered a weapon IMO.
people have different ways of doing things, just like children have different ways of learning things. again, i dont think either my parents or your parents were right or wrong. as i mentioned they delt with things in different ways and yet both seemed to reach the same end result. i say good on both of them.
when did i ever say i was going to follow in their footsteps? i didnt.
you assumed that because i was spanked as a child that i will become a spanking parent.
i can not confirm or deny that i will ever spank my kids for several reasons.
mostly, that i need to have a kid to spank in the first place, and secondly i plan to deal with disciplining my kid(s) as it is fit at that time.
im going to agree with you that violence should never be the answer, although i consider a spanking pretty tame, if at all violent. sometimes my girlfriend pinches me when i make fun of her. technically, pinching someone is violence, but when she pinches me i dont consider it a violent act, even though it fucking hurts. if she were to drop kick me in the face though........ catch my drift?
violence shouldnt be the answer, but violence is the answer.
imagine wars were faught with words? instead of shooting at you, ill just take something of yours away and give you a lecture about how what you did was bad.
violence |ˈvī(ə)ləns|
noun
behavior involving physical force intended to hurt, damage, or kill someone or something.
if you cried and your ass was red, it was violent. what is the point of spanking if it does not cause harm ?
when i said "solving something with violence (even with a hand) is never the answer" i was referring to a parent/child relationship, not in every situation throughout the world.
really?
a dictionary?
Were going to be here a while arnt we?
by dictionary definition yes, my girlfriend pinching me is violent because it does intend to hurt.
maybe i should film her and put it on youtube?
Honestly im completely on sewards side for this one. There is a big fucking difference between beating your kid and spanking your kid.
I got spanked by my parents, does this make them twisted? No I think not. If me and my brother were misbehaving to the point where my mom was too fed up, she would threaten to get my dad. Me and my brother both knew very well that if my dad came we would get a good spanking, so you bet your ass we shut our mouhtes and started behaving.
What happened in the video was straight abuse, what my parents and what sewards parents did was on a whole other level than that video (and i mean lesser level)
Your being pretty goddamn stubborn about this whole thing. Yes taking away privileges is also an effective method but a little spank here and there also works. Or you could be like my parents and use a mixture of the two.
Just because your parents used a different method than others does not make them right over everyone else's, just like my parents using their method does not make theirs right either.