I agree with you to an extent, but by no means is it impossible (or I think, as difficult) as some make it seem to be successful.
My dad grew up in a family that was frequently on food stamps they were so poor. When he graduated high school he worked a number of jobs, from construction to car sales. Eventually he got a job working in the manufacturing plant of a cabinet manufacturer. Through persistence he convinced one of the managers to give him a shot in sales. He then moved his way up to outside sales. He is now the national product manager for a competing company, and makes approximately $60+k a year. He has told me about his past, and there were times when he was working shitty ass jobs, living in a trailer and couldn't even afford to own a small television. He worked his way up and has been able to be a solid provider for our family with NO college degree.
I acknowledge that his success has given me opportunities in life that I otherwise wouldn't have been able to achieve, and I am extremely thankful for that. I go to an out-of-state university, and while the majority of it is going to loans that I will have to pay off in the future, he has been able to provide me with some aid. BUT, most importantly, he has taught me the importance of hard work and perseverance. I've seen my dad go through some very rough times, jobless, and our family struggled for a while on occasion. But he always worked hard, didn't let himself get down, and did what he could.
My father is definitely opposed to what these people are doing, many of them are just asking for hand-outs. They are absolutely shitting on the hard work and success that people like my dad have achieved and what my dad has achieved is something I'm extremely proud of him for.