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Why cant i talk to her normaly?

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Mcfottley
Posts: 343 - Karma: 39
Theres a girl who ive liked for a while and we have gone out previously. i have trouble not being awkward and sometimes shake when im around her then blame it on being cold. i am a romartic guy and i have been told im cute and funny but for some reason i just cant get it together when im around her!!! i have a very bad memory and sometimes talk about the same things twice. i get lost in her eyes and forget what shes talking about sometimes. then when shes done talking i just laugh or something like that. we are going out now and i know she likes me a lot. but im afraid il lose her again if i cant start talking to her normaly. i have a creepy smile and am usually quiet around her. her friends think im sweet but my friends think im awkward. what do i do? should i talk to her on the phone more or just set aside my friends to try and make this work? please i need advice!
Oct 9 2011 10:53PM
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TOK
Posts: 2928 - Karma: 2,540
you would probably get some actual help in the ladies men cult.
Oct 9 2011 10:57PM
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JIBpsy^^
Posts: 2851 - Karma: 36
I recomend Asking for an invite to ladies men. Also it just takes practice. get drunk then talk to her and just try to mimic how you talked to her when you where drunk. I swear alochol cured my awkwardness.
Oct 9 2011 10:57PM
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soulskier
Posts: 17806 - Karma: 3,841
Click for larger image my answer lies in that photo
Oct 9 2011 10:58PM
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J.M
Posts: 2854 - Karma: 254

this.

i came here to say this

Oct 9 2011 11:08PM
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[evan]
Posts: 5628 - Karma: 117
Sounds like you fit the profile of a typical socio-pathic NS'er. No worries.
Oct 9 2011 11:09PM
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naturday
Posts: 493 - Karma: 238
hahaha oh man you sound like a good kid. She prob thinks its super sweet.

Oct 9 2011 11:14PM
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TechnoPotamus
Posts: 11626 - Karma: 3,522
when it comes to the ladies you gotta remember one thing young grasshopper: Don't hesitate. Penetrate.
Oct 9 2011 11:26PM
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egg.
Posts: 3231 - Karma: 3,477
pee in her butt

and the awkwardness will leave
Oct 9 2011 11:29PM
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Kotke
Posts: 696 - Karma: 15
The more you hang out with her and spend time with her you'll get more comfortable around her. But seriously, hit up ladies men for serious answers next time bud haha
Oct 9 2011 11:31PM
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skithesprings
Posts: 9086 - Karma: 1,349
liquid courage
Oct 9 2011 11:45PM
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Flying~Squirrel
Posts: 6494 - Karma: 190
BECAUSE YOU TOUCH YOURSELF AT NIGHT

PEE IN HER BUTT

FUCK BITCHES GET MONEY

ITS BECAUSE YOU HAVE AIDS


































































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Oct 9 2011 11:47PM
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ThaLorax
Posts: 21097 - Karma: 8,526
DO NOT FOLLOW THIS ADVICE.

I fucking hate it when people say "treat her like you don't care". You're probably not a womanizing asshole, so don't act like one. Just be yourself, that's who she likes anyways.
Oct 10 2011 12:18AM
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Dirtyyy
Posts: 206 - Karma: 55
You seem like a nice kid. You don't need advice. All you need is love
Oct 10 2011 12:24AM
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Dirtyyy
Posts: 206 - Karma: 55
You seem like a nice kid. You don't need advice. All you need is love
Oct 10 2011 12:24AM
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Davy.Crockett
Posts: 5373 - Karma: 324
its the truth
Oct 10 2011 12:38AM
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hallamt
Posts: 162 - Karma: 11
Don't try to act a certain way cause you think she'll like it, it's way easier and more satisfying being yourself bro
Oct 10 2011 12:56AM
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deleted5
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Oct 10 2011 1:08AM
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deleted5
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o i forgot the most important one for you
Oct 10 2011 1:12AM
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Travapple.
Posts: 6787 - Karma: 88
i loled
Oct 10 2011 1:14AM
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Aftermang
Posts: 211 - Karma: 79
Be yourself bro. She if she likes you, shit will be alright
Oct 10 2011 1:18AM
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LiveSnowJKS
Posts: 199 - Karma: 10
bro i totally respect your question..but is NS really the place to ask a personal question like this? a lot of dudes are gonna be stupid, i mean just look further above haha
Oct 10 2011 1:46AM
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ryantheconnolly
Posts: 2027 - Karma: 108
if you ever do this, just say those exact words and theres no way she'll care/ even notice your awkwardness
Oct 10 2011 1:51AM
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ThaLorax
Posts: 21097 - Karma: 8,526
seriously. i love eyes and girls love knowing they have awesome eyes.
Oct 10 2011 2:00AM
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Skibumsmith
Posts: 5441 - Karma: 11,944
drink 2 beers and say this!
Oct 10 2011 4:36AM
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feihlination
Posts: 8356 - Karma: 1,084
maybe its some kind of practice thing or idk, but i feel like you need to be ready for it. i know that ive been there but i just wasnt ready for saying something in the lines of "i like you".

i am kinda proud i was able to do it a few times afterwards without being drunk.
Oct 10 2011 4:42AM
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FrightenedRabbit
Posts: 21 - Karma: 10
Damn thats an epic youtube channel. lulz for hours.
Oct 10 2011 6:40AM
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.Tom.
Posts: 1177 - Karma: 910
Wow you basically just summed up my entire situation/personality and the relationship I'm in at the moment. I get those shakes as well. Are you sure you're not some alias I forgot about?
Sorry I can't offer any help though.
Oct 10 2011 7:00AM
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Chompo.
Posts: 4952 - Karma: 88
I just lost so hard
Oct 10 2011 8:24AM
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.Ian.
Posts: 1568 - Karma: 72
Honestly OP other than the fact you are going out with her now, I'm in the exact same boat as you, like word for word I feel the exact same way. For me also like I'll be texting her, or talking to her on the phone and we can talk for hours about just anything it doesn't even matter. Then when we talk in person though I just can't think of things to say and I shake too. I also stutter (not normally, only when I get nervous) but then that happens and I just feel really embarrassed. I know I just got to be myself and that's what I always try to do it's just hard to do because I get so like awkward and stuff. Plus I really like this girl and we've known each other for a few years now but just started talking more recently, but I still don't know if she even likes me. Well I'm hanging out with her later so wish me luck! haha
Oct 10 2011 8:34AM
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gustafari
Posts: 726 - Karma: 50
so if you're going out now what do you have to worry about?

just be yourself and if she really likes you for you then things will work out. don't be somebody you're not
Oct 10 2011 11:54AM
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