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Ideas for a casual date?

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ryano
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so there's a girl who might be interested in myself. and i can tell you that i am interested in her.

so we're hanging out when i get back in town. and when i asked if she had any place she would like to go or anything she would prefer to do, she just replied, surprises are good :)

so i have to come up with something. and i am also stuck deciding on how date ish this day is going to be.

so what are some casual things to do for a casual date and not make it super date like.

park, walking around or picnic
flea/farmers market
art museum or something
beach, even tho there's not much to do at the beach
some sort of concert at a park


any suggestions would help.

this would be in LA area
Aug 18 2011 7:59PM
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soulskier
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take her to the park a fly some kites
Aug 18 2011 8:04PM
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Baloo
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concert is ideal. but make sure she likes that kind of music, if she dosent it wont be a good night. then go tolike some kind of drunk food place like are you hungry, get it to go. brake the LAW and go to the park at night and eat and talk.
Aug 18 2011 8:04PM
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Balzberg
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Aug 18 2011 8:05PM
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ryano
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i like the kite idea.

also like the getting food and eating it at night at a park..
Aug 18 2011 8:06PM
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ryantheconnolly
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go minigolfing, bitches love minigolf. just make sure not to be worse at it than her
Aug 18 2011 8:08PM
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Anathema
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dinner out on the patio somewhere followed by a walk through town. always a pleasant time, and gives you a chance to just hang out, uninterrupted, and see where it goes. do the fun shit later. let her get to know you first.
Aug 18 2011 8:13PM
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.spaghetticat.
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Dinner,
pee in her but
Aug 18 2011 8:16PM
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ryano
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yea and thats what i want it be. us to be able to talk, laugh, and get to know each other.

but i kinda want to do something a little extra. like kites or minigolf or something interesting. just so its not that cliche date. idk.

Aug 18 2011 8:19PM
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BikeMlatt69
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this works wonders
Aug 18 2011 8:21PM
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B4NE1
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I usually try to do something really exhilarating like zipline or slingshot whenever the Stampede is in Calgary. Bitches love the slingshot! Especially this one.


Aug 18 2011 8:27PM
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chuck_testa
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This is the way to go. Then like a walk in the park then maybe ice cream
Aug 18 2011 8:29PM
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paige.
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I'd be stoked if a guy too me to have picnic in a nice park and we flew kites.
Or be double dorky and try making your own kites like you did in class in kindergarten
Aug 18 2011 8:53PM
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ryano
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you dont think thats a little much?
Aug 18 2011 9:33PM
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SkiThe603
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this but just goof off, don't take it serious
Aug 18 2011 9:37PM
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daskis
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Please don't go minigolfing... I hate minigolfing. That's just me I guess haha.

Kites are cool :)
Aug 18 2011 9:42PM
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ryano
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i'm leaning towards kites, dinner, walk around downtown, then frozen yogurt or ice cream..
Aug 18 2011 9:45PM
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daskis
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Wait a minute.... is this coffee shop girl??
Aug 18 2011 9:50PM
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ryano
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noo.. she ended up having a boyfriend..
Aug 18 2011 9:51PM
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ryano
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i've decided on a date. it will hopefully go as follows.

go to her place. see the new place cuz she just moved in.

drive to pre planned park.

put together/fly kites.. she doesnt know about yet. i texted her, "power rangers or T rex" she picked power rangers. so she will get the kite with power rangers on it.

i will also have drinks there(non alcoholic). most likely arizona ice teas. cuz they're awesome.

then, we will go out to eat. i told her she has to decide where we're eating.

then a walk down town, along the strip or out door mall touristy are. maybe beach area.

and maybe making these at her place in the evening.

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i feel like its a pretty solid idea..
Aug 24 2011 3:07PM
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BIGben*
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+ food at night= good time.
Aug 24 2011 3:17PM
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Kajex
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yeah you sir have a winning gameplan right there.
Aug 24 2011 4:55PM
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emilyiscool
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not gonna lie taht sounds really fun
Aug 24 2011 4:58PM
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Mike-O
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I have a fun option for you: ask her to meet you at a very specific, but completely weird place, e.g. 4.56PM behind the bus stop of Line 76. Then if the weather is good, plan for you to take the bus for like a few stops to get to the actual place, like a park picnic,nice cafe w/e. Always make sure that there's a nice pub/lounge nearby so you can continue it along with drinks if it goes well. Then play it smooth and you'll be massaging her breasts no later than 2AM.
Aug 24 2011 5:02PM
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Elmo.
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this... worked so well for me when i started to casually date one of my good friends... best of all. i made sure we tied in the end. cuz i just good at mini golf like that/ claim
Aug 24 2011 5:02PM
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Broseph_Stalin
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the guys face on the orgasm video was priceless. pretty much how i was laughing watching it.
Aug 24 2011 5:10PM
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Jaimee.
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That sounds like one of the coolest dates ever!
Aug 24 2011 5:15PM
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SkiThe603
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Get it in
Aug 24 2011 5:38PM
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Candy
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I approve of your idea. But a lot of times girls don't like making ANY decisions on a date, so if you really wanna have her pick dinner, it'd be safe to have a back up option that you've thought of.
Aug 24 2011 5:53PM
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SgtSteamy
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Depends on how well you know this girl. I like to keep things as stress free and low key as possible. I know guys that like to go all out and plan extravagant stuff but honestly I think they will appreciate something that allows them to feel more comfortable.

If I am meeting a chewy whom I've only met online, IE facebook, dating website, I like to take them for a beer/coffee. If it's someone I know a little better I'll use stuff that we've talked about in the past to come up with an idea.

But who knows. I'm no woman guru.
Aug 24 2011 5:57PM
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CMYK
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Hike. Preferably at sunset so you can watch the sun go down then lead her down the mountain hand in hand like a real man when it's dark.
Aug 24 2011 6:27PM
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Orrin
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Your plan sounds excellent, I think she'll dig the effort you've made to make it awesome.

Have fun!
Aug 24 2011 6:44PM
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Chuffin
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Nobody mentioned the ZOO?!?! It is hands down the best place ever to take a girl.... Not only do you look like you've listened to her, because most girls like animals, but it provides the perfect cover in case you run out of chat: "Ohhhh, Flamingo's are pretty!" etc.

FOOL PROOF!

DO IT!

works.
Aug 24 2011 7:21PM
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paige.
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Wanna take me on a date next?
Aug 24 2011 7:22PM
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PON3
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threads for muh girls.
Aug 24 2011 7:36PM
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ironic
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Do something active together so that you don't get the awkward moments when no one talks. Go hiking, disc golfing, go to the creek, or climbing. Get something to eat along the way. Should be easy.

Hope this helps :)

Aug 24 2011 7:39PM
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LeadThug420
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Let her sit next to you while you do your fantasy football draft.
Aug 24 2011 8:22PM
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cbeebzthasteeze
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Threads for the future.
Aug 24 2011 9:22PM
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-GL-
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such a good plan, if i were a girl id let you hit that after that date goodluck man
Aug 24 2011 9:28PM
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technique.
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i really hate to be that guy, but you know this thread is useless without pics.
Aug 24 2011 9:31PM
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RubberSoul
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hmm. does she like halo?
Aug 24 2011 9:35PM
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Davy.Crockett
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this is a really good idea. even if she doesn't like baseball, she probably like drinking, and if she doesn't like that, she still likes you. its an enjoyable experience, and more memorable then say a movie or something generic.
Aug 24 2011 9:39PM
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Parks.
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this!
Aug 24 2011 9:42PM
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Parks.
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actually...listen to these souless harpies


Aug 24 2011 9:46PM
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notadoctor
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Pack sick lunch
go kayaking
eat lunch at beach you kayak to
kayak more
bike ride
stop at restaurant and eat
watch office space
walk her home

I did this last weekend and I think it went well, she is really fair skinned and got sunburnt though. She agreed to another date anyways.
Aug 24 2011 10:01PM
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LeadThug420
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How 'bout you take her into your room and browse Newschoolers with her?
Aug 24 2011 10:10PM
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Blindsurfer
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dude fuck this bitch, i just went gay for you lets chill
Aug 24 2011 10:10PM
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Evan.Frazee
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take her to the bar get her so drunk she can barely walk take her home (Well most likely carry her) have sex with her (she most likely wont remember or even notice) and shell love you or hate you. Seems to work for most the Frat boys at FSU so it should work for you.
Aug 24 2011 10:17PM
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B.Aussie
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That sounds like an amazing date. Props to you for planning it out not going for the generic coffee/ beer or movies.
Aug 24 2011 10:23PM
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ski-or-die
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put it in her butt at the park... its the only way to make sure she'll be surprised
Aug 24 2011 10:49PM
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ryano
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thats not a bad plan at all.

mental note for next time... bring sun screen. ha.


i thought about the zoo. but the zoo's out here are a little spendy. so i figured doing something cheaper would be a better option for the first date.
Aug 24 2011 10:59PM
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