i'm not quite sure what it is. i think it's more of an attention disorder but he has something and it leads to him being a little bit awkward in social situations. because of it people think he's annoying and that he cuts into other peoples business but in reality he always has good intentions whether its trying to make someones day better or trying to fill someone in on something that he thinks is really cool.
thats where it also shows, because he has a set of interests thats very uncommon... so when he thinks something is cool and when he tries to show other people they just shrug it off with the preconceived notion that it won't be interesting, and then they use that to support their reasoning for why he's "annoying"
and yeah IndianTears, chances are if the girl is causing you this much stress you'll be better off without her. don't know if we talked about it but i broke up with that girl i'd been dating for 2 and a half years recently. can't say it made me feel happy, but it made me realize that if you're constantly worried about losing them then they're not the right one for you. one day you'll find someone who's fun to be around and chill and a complete stress-reliever, and you won't have to worry about if you're making them happy or if you're good enough for them or anything. that's what it's all about.