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Well, there's a couple things here. First off, long distance sucks and I mean SUCKS. I do not advise it at all. I've tried to beat it several times and never succeeded. It just breeds so much distrust and insecurity (or worse, complacency) and little things become big things when you can't talk face to face and say fugghedaboudit and go at it, etc.
Long distance in college is a mindfuck. Did it. Got my head fucked with. Got fucked over. College is just so socially intense there's almost no way to not do something wrong, especially for cute girls who are basically bombarded with penises all day by dudes trying to get them drunk enough to forget about their man long enough to wake up naked. That being said, two weeks isn't a long time. It would be stressful, but not as bad as say, seeing her once a month or once every other month so you've got that going for you.
The trust is up to you guys. If you don't think you can trust her or she's acting like she's single, don't feel like you can't leave it all. You're young and there's a billiondy people out there- break up for a while so you can both enjoy your lives and hook back up later if it's meant to be. I realize there's the panic factor when thinking of doing this but if it's going to be a massive amount of work to stay together, it's realistically not going to work if you're already freaking out about trust. It's going to get ugly in a hurry- you're going to be griling her for social details to obsess about and she's going to resent it. That shit just isn't healthy and if it starts going that way, just break it off, it will only get worse once it starts and the distance jeeps you from fixing it.
Does she get crazy drunk and act wild or are you just being a somewhat insecure and concerned boyfriend? If you've got a good girl you can trust, I'd advise not throwing in the towel. Those are damn near impossible to find these days... But if it starts going down the tubes, just man up and do what's best for both of you and end it before you can't be freinds. That's really the best advice I can give you. Best of luck man, you've got a long bumpy road ahead of you and it's not likely you'll succeed but it's not impossible either- but you've got to be a hell of a couple to make it happen. Circle the wagons now and have a trust talk with her and see how she feels. Communication is going to be key. May the force be with you. Keep us posted.
Did you go to CSU?
