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okay... So I used to be best friends with this girl. People were always really shocked we hung out because she looked like she was 12 had really bad skin and was under 85 pounds (she's 5"2)
One day she just turned really psycho and started hating me for no reason. I was really hurt because I always was really nice to her and was shocked when she just turned on me. Now she's stalking my life and texting my friends and trying to turn them against me. I've already spoken to her.... But now what do I do she won't stop and she's trying to ruin my fucking life!
The best advice I can give to you is don't let emotions get the best of you. If she wants to be your enemy its all her. Think about the karmic events that could turn out if you let your emotions tie into this situation. If people believe her then you know who your real friends are. Keep in mind nothing is permanent. The best lessons we can learn from our enemies. Be the bigger person and not do anything. Remember karma works in mysterious ways. Also you cant exactly judge a person by their actions, Perhaps there is other things going on in this girls life and has just tried to take out all of her anger and frustrations out on you. Getting angry over another persons actions is overrated and getting angry never solves any problems. Look back in history, has anger ever solved any problem? No, anger only creates more problems. Nothing last's forever, this is something you should just take as a lesson in life that people will do what they want and you can't stop it. Anger is infectious and spreads fast taking over your good decision making process. People who get angry over stuff never make the right decision. It may be right in your own mind in the heat of the moment but, after you are no longer angry regret sets in usually. If it doesn't make it any more right. Not saying you wouldn't make a decent decision. It does seems like you legitimately want to make the right decision. True happiness doesn't come from decisions made out of anger. I hope all goes well in your situation I do give respect to you for actually asking help to properly handle a situation I'm sure this thread was made as kind of a place to vent as well as find an answer you are looking for. I hope I have provided information you can use to make an informed decision :)
Seriously seriously seriously, bake her cookies. Give here these cookies. Her heart will turn into such a cookie (metaphorically) and be sweet and soft and warm. Obviously you are being sincere, she realizes that you aren't that bad after all, and hopefully she will be cool again.
Honestly, the only way to deal with a crazy bitch is to ignore them. If you show you are annoyed in any way they'll keep on getting more and more crazy towards you. Don't worry about her trying to turn your friends, because if your thinking she's crazy, odds are they are too. Don't talk to her, don't show any emotion whatsoever to her actions, and just let the crazy bitch burn herself out until she goes somewhere else.
Tell her many things that people think are vegan but are not.
Irn bru, not vegan
Carlsbery, not vegan
Shit loads of diff beers, not vegan
Coca-Cola, not vegan