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.kieffer.
Posts: 133 - Karma: 10
Yesterday morning my ex girlfriends brother was shot and killed in a drive by and they were. Extremely close. I don't know why she told me but now I feel like I need to help her through this mess. Any suggestions on what I should do?
Jun 16 2011 1:02PM
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BikeMlatt69
Posts: 1947 - Karma: 60
ladies men would be better than nsg for this matter
Jun 16 2011 1:06PM
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soulskier
Posts: 17806 - Karma: 3,841
just lend an ear i guess, theres no magic way to accelerate the grieving process. the whole ex thing shouldnt be an issue, just one human being reaching out to help another.
Jun 16 2011 1:10PM
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RubberSoul
Posts: 11249 - Karma: 14,642
not much to say i guess, just be there for her..
Jun 16 2011 1:19PM
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Get.Kronk
Posts: 2543 - Karma: 226
Treat it as you would if the same happened to a good friend, be helpful, be there when she needs.
Jun 16 2011 1:20PM
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Shredability
Posts: 2756 - Karma: 501
yep
Jun 16 2011 1:20PM
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nasSKIIER
Posts: 748 - Karma: 15
take her somewere you know she likes to go and try to take her mind off of it
Jun 16 2011 1:24PM
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erica
Posts: 3450 - Karma: 24,088
it can be really hard for her to talk about it, but if she wants to talk, listen. If she doesn't want to talk just be there for her and comfort her through things.
Jun 16 2011 1:27PM
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yupp
Posts: 82 - Karma: 46
tell her you will be there if she needs anything wether you're together or not, it'll mean a lot
Jun 16 2011 3:07PM
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.spaghetticat.
Posts: 4283 - Karma: 889
this
Jun 16 2011 3:09PM
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Blindsurfer
Posts: 2252 - Karma: 2,792
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Jun 24 2011 12:13PM
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SARTRON
Posts: 2969 - Karma: 87
so your current girlfriend, 15years old, is 3 months preggo and your ex girlfriends brother was just shot and killed. you are either on a really awful bad streak or TROLLOLOLOLOL
Jun 24 2011 1:58PM
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corona
Posts: 12805 - Karma: 32,827
and he's going to go summer skiing in sweden to cheat on his preggers girlfriend
Jun 24 2011 2:06PM
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Radio
Posts: 946 - Karma: 12
oh wow. i just realized that. this dude has a rough life. he better not be trolling
Jun 24 2011 2:14PM
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the_moderaper
Posts: 2465 - Karma: 218
If this is real, just be close with her and don't let the ex thing get in between it. Make it out of genuine feeling for another person that you want to be there for her.

Because if your past threads I'm going to say your life either sucks or why would you ever joke about these things. Thats not even something to troll about. After someone I know having their dad shoot their mom and shoot himself I have no patience for this shit. Its not funny.
Jun 24 2011 2:14PM
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