Drugs

Damn... The only thing you can probably do is suggest she go to rehab/drug counselling. I had a friend who went through some really bad addiction and sometimes you literally can't help yourself, you need someone outside. You could even try to help her quit, but if she checked into rehab that would probably be best. She could also attempt to wean off this stuff with your help.... But I have a hard enough time doing that with weed lol, I can't imagine hard drugs being any easier.

unfortunately, you can't help someone who doesn't want to help themselves. you can't make her get clean until she is ready to get clean. as hard as it might be, you might just end up having to leave her if she isn't willing to straighten up.

Meth, acid, speed, coke. You name it and she at least does it from time to time. But speed is the worst. I know she struggled with speed addiction b4 we meet and she stopped, now its back. ANd yea i know theres a difference and she for sure addicted.

this.

Unless she wants to change she won't. In time she will realize she doesnt have anything but drugs and hopefully think about the mistakes she has made. my sister was addicted to  hard drugs for almost 4 years. I always gave her postitivity and encouragement though, even when i was the most angry and disappointed in her. things will work out. just keep your head up!

like i kinda know all this just don't want to admitt it. Who wants to wait 4 years for the most loved person in thier life to love you back the way they used to. And its always a maybe? You know. Guess you do what you gotta do. But in your opinion is it better to leave her or stay. Like I will always be here for her.Where in love. And id like to constantly be by her side trying to help, but at the same time i feel like if i left for acouple a months maybe she'd realize what she through away and it would help her n the long run. So, just thoughts. Idk yet?

Are you involved in those types of drugs at all also? even recreationally i mean. if not you gotta find a way to get out man. as hard as it is, that's a very toxic relationship situation

im sorry to hear that man but at least it sounds like youre thinking responsibly.. ive dealt with people who are addicted to hard shit and it blows. youre just gonna have to try to show her how serious the things she's messing around with are.. pick up some new hobbies or activities or something to get a different routine going.. idk man it's hard to give advice without knowing the situation very well

i'm pretty fucked up atm and i would really like to know the outcome of this story, thanks.

call the cops on her.

there's really nothing you can do when shes ready to go to rehab or whatever else she needs to do to quit she will you can never fix a drug addict its something they have to do for themselves or they will just start up right after they get out of rehab it sucks but that is the reality of it

Yes and no.

I've had friends in this situation at college. The best thing for them was a significant life change and for my friends it always showed itself as transferring schools. Maybe she just needs to leave where she is and get to a new place with new friends and less access or availability of drugs. Hope for the best man.

If she is truly addicted then the number one sign to look for is that she will lie to you. My kid sister was addicted to crack, it got so bad i had to quit working at the smoke shop i was at.. it just made me feel guilty. But i know this has already been said and you don't want to hear it, but an addict only cares about one thing. Getting high. And the only way she will change (hopefully) is when she hits rock bottom. Thing is, everybody has a different bottom, for some people it's their loved ones leaving them, for others its jail, and in the absolute worst case, people never really hit a bottom.... they just keep falling deeper and deeper. My advice would be to tell her how you feel, get her family and other loved ones involved, have an intervention and try to get her into rehab.... Just remember this, when people are addicted to a drug they change entirely. They will manipulate and deceive you to get what they want. Like when she told you how much she missed you and all the good times, I know you want to beleive that, but when she says things like that you have to listen with a lot of skeptisism. If you want PM me op... I'll try to help you out.

That was my life for a while, addicted to the hardcore stuff. I'm off it now do you love me?

my ex was like that, i dumped her cause i didnt want to become strung out like her
that was 2 years ago, and today she is still on drugs, mostly cocaine though since side effects are the less worst
but yah dude, sucks to say, but, if she doesnt want to get clean, and you dont want a druggie girl friend, dump her, sucks but thats it

It really comes down to how selfless of a person you are. I know personally that I am selfish and its nothing i am proud of but the first step to not being selfish is realizing I am. If i were in your shoes I would run away from that as fast as I could, You have to decide if you care about her enough to put in the time and endure the hardships for a future that isnt certain. I wish you wisdom in your decision.

I went through a long drug addiction, it was getting real bad, then i ended up going to jail and getting a felony that would only go away if i stayed clean and didn't fuck up on my probation. I look back on that shit and laugh, its just a waste of time, but when your constantly doing drugs you don't see that. Drug addictions are tough to deal with, theres really no way to help someone beside just showing them love.