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Girl Trouble

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SkierPT
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Here we go another "omg help me with my girl problems thread lol" i Hope your all ready because I'm seriously confused right now.

Girl 1:

We met at homecoming in the fall. I knew she was younger than me and I decided to ask her for a dance, knowing it would be pretty easy. We got dirty for a few songs and then the dance was over. Didn't think much of her. Then the girl I was interested in was a no go. i decided to Facebook and text girl 1.

We and up hanging out, then end up dating. Shes a sophomore and I'm a senior. Cute and a really great personality but lately I've been less attracted to her physically. ATM shes 15 and I'm 18...and I always feel guilty about the difference. Now six months later we are still dating. I'm good friends with her family and everything now. We've done "stuff" and I feel shes emotionally attached. She says she loves me but i don't know If I truly do back.

Girl 2:

The girl in my bio class. We've been flirting a little in class and in gym for a while but nothing out of school. I am very attracted to her physically...just think shes really hot. Her personality atm is good but I've heard she can be a bitch. Any who I got her number and we've been texting the last 2 days non stop. Now I know shes flirty so I'm confused. She is adding to my stress on my already stressed relationship with girl 1.

I'd crush girl 1 if i randomly dumped her for girl 2. I'd most likely get caught cheating. It's spring break and girl 1 is sick and we really can't hang out. Shes going away for a week the second week of break also. Girl 2 is sitting at home bored. What to do? Help me NS'ers.

inb4: shag em both.

Sparknotes:

Been dating girl 1 for 6 months. Shes cute good personality. Girl 2 has been flirting and texting. Shes mad hot. Girl 1 is going away for a week during this spring break next week. need advice.

Apr 11 2011 1:08PM
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pimpcat
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Just wait till college. No need to be a douche to girl 1. when you leave, sever your ties with her then start the prowl all over again. It's a game, play it like a gentleman, not a cocksucking asswipe.
Apr 11 2011 1:11PM
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SkierPT
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Trouble is I'm going to my local community college
Apr 11 2011 1:14PM
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snowdon
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Don't string along the first girl if you're not really into her, which you're obviously not if you're considering cheating on her/leaving her for another girl. She's 15, she'll be sad for a week and then find someone else.
Apr 11 2011 1:15PM
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Lolocaust.
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PEE IN HER FUCKING BUTT!
Apr 11 2011 1:16PM
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sneds
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Apr 11 2011 1:18PM
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pimpcat
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Ahh game changer. well, I'd still stick to my previous post haha.
Apr 11 2011 1:19PM
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TheStamos
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Ladies Men Cult...
Apr 11 2011 1:21PM
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Childstar.
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just stick with girl 1, girl 2 sounds like she just wants a hookup and thats it.
Apr 11 2011 1:23PM
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JamesR
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Girl one doesn't love you, she's a 15 year old girl. You don't love her. It sounds like the only thing keeping you together is your psychological attachment. You can either hurt her now or hurt her worse later. You're only feelign stressed regarding girl 2 because it proves to yourself that you're not as interested or "in love" with girl 1 as you're expected to be or expect yourself to be; it's a sign that your current relationship is doomed. At the end of the day, always be true to your feelings and do what makes you most happy.
Apr 11 2011 1:24PM
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SkierPT
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Which I'd be fine with
Apr 11 2011 1:24PM
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xoxoTori
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Don't cheat. Break up with girl 1. Everyone should be single starting college. If you do hookup with girl 2 wait awhile after the breakup and try and keep it on the dl.
Apr 11 2011 1:28PM
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LAME.
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With a name like that.... Please leave now.
Apr 11 2011 1:31PM
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ThaLorax
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sent him an invite
Apr 11 2011 1:32PM
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xoxoTori
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^Lol obviously someone doesn't watch gossip girl
Apr 11 2011 1:32PM
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ThaLorax
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why would anybody want to watch anything with "gossip" in the name?
Apr 11 2011 1:34PM
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TBigCat
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Agreed.
Apr 11 2011 1:34PM
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KravtZ
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DONT go into college with a gf its just a huge negative nancy....definatly break up with girl 1 sehs way to young for you anyways your in college shes gunna be a junior in high school, sketchy for a college kid. Talk to girl 2, fuck her all summer, go to college ready to fuck bitches and get money
Apr 11 2011 1:34PM
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xoxoTori
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It's amazing. Get on my level, doll.
Apr 11 2011 1:35PM
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qbehr
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correct
Apr 11 2011 1:38PM
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ThaLorax
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Doll, you're probably not old enough to handle my leveling stick. It's amazing though.
Apr 11 2011 1:44PM
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snowdon
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I chuckled
Apr 11 2011 1:47PM
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TheGreenBastard
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GHB, no memory no problem
Apr 11 2011 1:50PM
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xoxoTori
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Age wouldn't be your problem, doll, but consent sure would. I'll leave you to handling your own stick ;)
Apr 11 2011 1:56PM
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seanyJ
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you wont
Apr 11 2011 1:56PM
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TBigCat
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same lol
Apr 11 2011 2:00PM
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lineskier10
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this can't be a real person can it? who the fuck calls people doll? have i entered a time warp of some kind?
Apr 11 2011 2:01PM
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xoxoTori
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Haha well apparently I do, as a sarcastic term of endearment.
Apr 11 2011 2:03PM
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akarlsen
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we need pics
Apr 11 2011 2:03PM
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LAME.
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Yes we do.
Apr 11 2011 2:05PM
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SONlC
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Similar situation. Girl 1= my girlfriend, away at college.
Girl 2= Girl at home who is hot/cool and flirty.

I hung out with Girl 2 a couple times, did random shit, played Sonic, ya know. I had her alone in my room a couple times and nothing happened. Time passed and now I realize that she is just an attractive friend. I still think she is mad hot and I still hang out with her every once in a while but any feelings beyond those have diminished.

Hang out with Girl 2, wait a couple weeks before you do anything drastic, maybe it will all just blow over.
Apr 11 2011 2:16PM
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spidermanatadesk
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I feel bad for you son...
Apr 11 2011 2:37PM
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RoofDaRoofieDogg
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.
Apr 11 2011 2:39PM
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snowdon
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Meh, I do sometimes. I'll own up.
Apr 11 2011 2:41PM
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TheGreenBastard
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you should probly dump them both and find a girl who likes pee in her butt
Apr 11 2011 2:50PM
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RoofDaRoofieDogg
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bitches+love+x.jpg

Apr 19 2011 2:59PM
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HomieJon
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STAY WITH GIRL ONE, DONT MESS UP!
Apr 19 2011 3:05PM
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BlakeLively
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BLAKE FUCKING LIVELY of course. where have you been my good man?
Apr 19 2011 3:34PM
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GSPhotography
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Well yea. Your 15... Go play seriously, are you planning on getting engaged with that chick. Check whats out there before you hit 23 and get into the serious stuff
Apr 19 2011 3:47PM
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pomme-de-terre
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SMACK A BITCH WITH YOUR DICK

STEP FUCKING ONE- GRASP YO DICK FIRMLY.
STEP FUCKING TWO- COCK THAT COCK BACK.
STEP FUCKING THREE- WING THAT DING IN THE OPPOSITE DIRECTION IT WAS COCKED WITH A TRAJECTORY TOWARD A BITCH'S FACE, AIMING TO MAKE CONTACT DIRECTLY ON THE SIDE OF THE CHEEK.
STEP FUCKING FOUR- REVEL IN GLORY.
Apr 19 2011 3:50PM
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masterhatin
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dude wut? hahaha
Apr 19 2011 4:26PM
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T-Holt
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If you're havin girl problems I feel bad for you son,
I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one.


But for realz, lm.
Apr 19 2011 4:28PM
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HomieJon
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.

:)

Apr 19 2011 4:33PM
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Davy.Crockett
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yjod
Apr 19 2011 4:36PM
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315jibber94
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this, dont be a douche bag, just tell her, you cant see yourelf together in the future anymore, but dont go straight to girl 2 because then shell know and then boom, shit happens, so keep it low key for abit with girl 2, then whatever, but youll find out that girl will be either a hit or a miss, but right now, your being a douche bag texting another girl non stop with your girl sick, id be at my girls house right now wraped up in a blanket on the couch watching a movie, do what ya gotta do, i doubt your situation is what its like with my girl, but dont be that guy. be nice about it, last thing you want is a suicide cause you cheated, cause those 15 year old girls are all over the place emotionally hahaha

Apr 19 2011 4:42PM
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TPalms
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This man speaks the truth
Apr 19 2011 4:45PM
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caliskigirl
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If you aren't into Girl 1, then let her go, like was said before don't lead her on. It's not fair to her, and you also should go for someone that you are attracted to i.e. girl 2. She'll be sad for a week or two, but she'll move one and you both have an opportunity to find people that are better for both of you.
Apr 19 2011 4:47PM
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Flying~Squirrel
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tell your girlfriend that you think youre gay, and she'll understand. wait like 2 weeks, then get on girl 2. if people ask about you being gay, say it was just a phase.
Apr 19 2011 5:43PM
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dereklongenbach
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well said. this kids got his shit together.
Apr 19 2011 5:50PM
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pink_squid
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tell girl # 1 that u have aids. simple as that. the fuck the living shit outta girl # 2, dump her and the apolgise to girl # 1 for lieing, enjoy. ur welcom
Apr 19 2011 5:50PM
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-ROY-
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eh get rid of girl 1. fuck girl 2. and then party
Apr 19 2011 5:53PM
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