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Do whatever you feel is best. Talk to her about the breakup and flesh out your feelings and she'll respond. The best way to get those feelings out of the way is to address them head on and maturely.
i broke up with my boyfriend but we got back together. and it's really hard. you really have to set ground rules about your relationship as per what went wrong and what you can do to improve it. but who knows, it depends on why she broke up with you. maybe she was scared, or insecure, or just it didn't feel right. either way. if she says she wants to be with you now, she should mean it, and saying she does, you have to trust her. it's tough. but relationships aren't just a walk in the park, they're more like climbing k2, and if you learn how to do it as a team, the hike becomes really fun. all of the fear comes with dating, but just because something makes you nervous doesn't necessarily mean you should give up. i say keep at it, and you'll know when it's not right. things will either smooth over, or you'll just know you guys weren't meant to be together. breakups can be sad, but there's always someone out there.