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Asking her out

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Baloo
Posts: 565 - Karma: 23
Best way to ask a girl out. I have been digin her for a month and I like her alot. I talk to her every day and believe I have givin good hints that i like her. I need some love NS.
Feb 7 2011 11:26PM
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Steve-Brown
Posts: 1894 - Karma: 810
runnin-dry, valentines day's on monday, and prom's comin up in our school haha, so ya bettter get ur stuff together and tell us, we're a(n) extended part of your relationship now, so you know the most important rule in a realationship. HONESTY so ya tell us it all haha
Feb 10 2011 12:15AM
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geteducated
Posts: 6410 - Karma: 86
and shit man, you ask before valentines day, thats one of the worst times because she is expecting you to spend tons of money on her. save some money and ask her out after v-day when she's feeling depressed and lonely.

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Feb 10 2011 12:18AM
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Tha_Wizard
Posts: 836 - Karma: 1,249
brand her with your initials.
Feb 10 2011 12:20AM
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gnarles.
Posts: 2587 - Karma: 130
LM would of been such i better place for this
Feb 10 2011 1:13AM
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big_mac_005
Posts: 78 - Karma: 12
this man speaks the truth. go in there like u already know she's gonna say yes and she will
Feb 10 2011 2:32AM
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Baloo
Posts: 565 - Karma: 23
me hey her (my name)!?
Feb 10 2011 9:08AM
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airjake
Posts: 674 - Karma: 222
just ask her on like monday heyy do u wanna see a movie on friday? or somthing like that then see how that goes then ask her out
Feb 10 2011 10:50AM
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ryantheconnolly
Posts: 2027 - Karma: 108
make sure when you ask her out she can even understand what the fuck youre trying to say
Feb 10 2011 11:33AM
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ShredTheGnarnia
Posts: 2544 - Karma: 79
"Will you be my valentine?" i mean come on dude this is the easiest time of year.

also, try to not say "a GROUP of people are ....." instead say "would you like to ..... with ME"
that makes it a lot more obvious that you're interested in her like that, women suck at taking hints usually.


Feb 10 2011 12:19PM
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bakedpow
Posts: 8770 - Karma: 10,467
Ya women never get it.
Feb 10 2011 12:31PM
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Willard
Posts: 5117 - Karma: 429
Dont ask to go to the movies unless your in middleschool. Step your game up.
Feb 10 2011 12:33PM
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qbehr
Posts: 1044 - Karma: 686
be like
"hey friday i am taking you to dinner"
Feb 10 2011 12:46PM
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qbehr
Posts: 1044 - Karma: 686
wow iam saving this as a word document
Feb 10 2011 12:49PM
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qbehr
Posts: 1044 - Karma: 686
and if she says no be like alright thats chill dont show weakness
Feb 10 2011 12:52PM
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Baloo
Posts: 565 - Karma: 23
one more thing she is a big drinker and partyer and we dont really have the same group of friends.
Feb 10 2011 12:58PM
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qbehr
Posts: 1044 - Karma: 686
yo thats sorta of a good thing because if you chill with her and her friends which is out of the norm for you it makes you look like your making the effort for her plus while at the same time making new friends
Feb 10 2011 1:02PM
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Baloo
Posts: 565 - Karma: 23
yeah abd having some good ole times
Feb 10 2011 4:02PM
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Steezyiott
Posts: 474 - Karma: 440

i think be a bit humorous and corny, give her some lame valentine thing saying like will you be my valentine and if she doesnt ask if youre serious then you say, "hey, by the way, i was serious about you being my valentine you know?" then the conversation will carry on, so instead of you stating the nerve racking conversation of asking her out, its more of a fun side topic that will lead to the question!

Feb 10 2011 5:44PM
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Baloo
Posts: 565 - Karma: 23
i just did it and guess what im still single im going to go up to my hill and blaze shit up till i feel beter
Feb 10 2011 7:42PM
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SMiGGERS
Posts: 500 - Karma: 74
man up. she is the bitch... remember?
Feb 10 2011 7:45PM
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Cufe.
Posts: 1950 - Karma: 262
blaze to feel better? that might not help much. I recommend picking up the guitar, since i broke up i've been playing it a ton, its so nice and its rewarding to see all your work culminate into a song rather then culminate into smelly clothes and an empty wallet.
Feb 10 2011 7:52PM
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Bukkakeskitrip
Posts: 5677 - Karma: 95
cheer up champ, everything will be alright
Feb 10 2011 8:11PM
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alexg1687
Posts: 1505 - Karma: 1,581
it doesnt so much apply to people you already know, but if you think about picking up in a public place, whether it be a bar, club or even just a park, you need to accept a simple fact. 7 out of every 10 women wont give you anything. its really harsh but once you accept that you start to get a lot more positive. instead of thinking "oh fuck another rejection" you start to get into the mindset of "oh well, next please...i can learn from that". if you let yourself get caught up on those rejections though you get yourself into a really bad mood and it shows in girls you're trying to talk to. just think of her as practise. she didn't want you, so she's clearly not worth it (assuming you did everything right). so use her to help with other (better!) girls in the future.
Feb 10 2011 8:57PM
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Baloo
Posts: 565 - Karma: 23
Thanks man +K
Feb 10 2011 9:02PM
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EvanMeyer
Posts: 3822 - Karma: 3,447
i have no faith left in you, youre obviously 10
Feb 11 2011 12:46AM
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