okay, this is going to be long, but before anyone reads this, you need to know that smart ass comments wong be recognized by me. i really have no idea what im supposed to do, so im begging you, help me.
okay, so march of last year, i had sex with a guy who is over 18. we were extrememly close friends and had known each other for about a year before we made the decision to do that. well, afterward, i told my best friend who happened to be a guy, but unknown to me, he had a crush on me. so he was all sad the night that i told him, and he told his mom. well, she never has liked me, and really has no reason for it, but whatever. she called the cops on my friend.
i didnt speak to him for a year and three months after that. he went to court, (luckily for me, i never had to attend) and was hardly charged because there were no direct charges against him. just civil charges. so he endded up with stupid things, no jail time or anything. but i was issued a restraining order against him by court. neither parties wanted it.
he called me last night. telling me that hes not mad at me, and telling me that he could never be mad at me because he knows i didnt want this to happen. he said he still wants to be my friend, and we talked nonstop for about 4 hours about everything. and he told me that he was in love with me. he kept saying he knows he does because if he didnt, he would have thought about me so much for over a year. he has every right to hate me. we both know that, but he doesnt. but the restraining order is still in effect. so i cant tell anyone.
heres where i need help. i have a boyfriend whom i love more than anything. and my friend is telling me how much he loves me and all that. there is no doubt in my mind about how much i want to stay with my boyfriend, but i also believe honesty is the best policy. so should i tell my boyfriend about my friend calling me? he knows who this guy is from me telling him about him (he asked about him). but he also tends to blow things out of porportion. my friend will back off if i tell him to back off, but daniel doesnt care about that.
what do i do?
thank you
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