The idle air control motor is hard to test without having a tester that can run it through its steps. Most IVAC have 10 different levels in their stepper motor, so I would not rule out a problem with the motor.
the testing in the FSM consisted of checking power to iacv, continuity from IACV to ECM, resistance across the 4 pin combinations at the wiring harness to see if it shorted, and then to see if it makes noise when the ignition turns on- so i could see how there could potentially be other issues.
When you disconnect a MAF and run the engine and it seems to sort itself out a bit, that normally indicates a faulty MAF. I use that trick to verify faulty MAF's quite often, so I would replace the MAF right off the bat because cleaning them is not actually something i would suggest, they are an ultra sensitive thermistor normally and if you use anything other than a q tip and water.. it leaves a film on it that fucks with all future readings.
good to know, i read MAF cleaner was the best for that so that's what i used, but i understand cleaner wont help if it's on its way out.
I would start with the MAF replacement, and see how the car reacts. I have a feeling that the stepper motor in your IVAC is toast as well, but try the MAF first and see where it takes you.
The power steering valve will not stall your car.
i thought as much about the power steering valve but glad you could confirm.
my suspicion is the MAF also bc the stalling issues were happening without triggering the SES or any codes- it was trying to fix the problem with the accelerator that brought it up.
i already ordered all 3 parts, the car is pretty old so if any of the parts don't actually NEED to be replaced i'm going to go ahead and call it preventative maintenance and do it anyways. sucks to just throw money at parts for a beater but if it saves me from breaking down or getting towed it'll be worth it.
i'd like to say i'll replace them 1 by 1 and see if i can actually solve what the true problem is but once i start taking out the airbox i might just continue to the iacv to get it all in 1 shot. was thinking this order- 1. MAF (b/c car worked after old one disconnected), 2. PS valve (no vacuum felt-but may do last if that's not the source of the stall), 3. IACV
if its still not solved i may look into one of those vacuum things for further checks or reach out to a friend of a friend mechanic. thanks for your help/insight, very much appreciated