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My ex and my friend

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NPCPLUS
Posts: 162 - Karma: -155
alright so my ex and a friend of mine have been hooking up lately. They hooked up before when she and I first broke up and I found out and they both knew it pissed me off. Well that was a long time ago and now I find out that they have been at it again a few times (I hadn't spoken to her in two months). He and I are really good friends and he lied about it. He also lied about how often they would hang out. I knew they were still friends but he made it seem like they hadnt been seeing each other that often. She told me a couple of days ago and I was livid. I haven't spoken to my friend since, and I didn't think he knew that I knew. Well he texted me saying we need to talk and shit. Who do I be mad at here? I can't figure out if I should still talk to either of them. Advice?
Jan 5 2011 8:25PM
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SkiThe603
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Pee in her Butt ???
Jan 5 2011 8:26PM
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Blake.P
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you will probably get a better response in Ladies Men and not NSG
Jan 5 2011 8:26PM
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henrytargett
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sometimes its all you can do.
Jan 5 2011 8:27PM
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Scott0_robot0
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shit happens, yea kinda fucked up they hooked up after you broke up. but if he is a real homie than whatever let it go.
Jan 5 2011 8:28PM
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GayWolf420
Posts: 37380 - Karma: 120,007
Ask a mod to move this to ladies men cult. Its your only hope for valid responses and not retarded troll comments.


And its good you guys broke up. Lying in a relationship is fucked up. I would not allow it at all.
Jan 5 2011 8:29PM
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pennstater
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honestly bro the best way to handle this is to fuck with the girls car or something or start shit wit her dont talk to ur friend about it jus let her get angry at u and him be the mediator then they will break up or what not good luck
Jan 5 2011 8:31PM
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GayWolf420
Posts: 37380 - Karma: 120,007
Thats the worst advice I have ever fucking scene. Why on earth would you do such a fucked up childish thing?? What are you? A middleschooler?
Jan 5 2011 8:32PM
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Shlogan
Posts: 4942 - Karma: 430
word, this. also it would help to know who broke up with who. you have more of a right to be mad if she broke up with you in the first place. sorry if you've already answered this.
Jan 5 2011 8:33PM
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H8CH
Posts: 2709 - Karma: 218
Bro's before Ho's
Mates before Muff

Your friend is a dick..... some shit you just dont do - get rid of both from your life man.
Jan 5 2011 8:33PM
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Anathema
Posts: 21048 - Karma: 5,061

the ladies men cult is a group of very serious individuals who have a lot of experience in the matter. perhaps you should consult them.

LOL

Jan 5 2011 8:34PM
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k-rob
Posts: 14217 - Karma: 2,891
stop caring? she's your ex and he's your friend, i don't see why they can't hook up without you getting all bent out of shape.
Jan 5 2011 8:34PM
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jason...
Posts: 9006 - Karma: 780
stop acting so high and mighty, this is nsg and im willing to bet you are within 1-2 years of his age.


one more point...


SEEN.
Jan 5 2011 8:34PM
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pennstater
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actually im a ninth grader but what is he supposed to tell his friend hes fine with it no hes supposed to grow a sack and do something look its just my opinion
Jan 5 2011 8:34PM
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GayWolf420
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You really think I give a shit about what you think? Nope. Its terrible and a very immature way to go about things like this. I wouldn't trash someones car if they lied to me. I would just forget it and move on and not give a shit.
Jan 5 2011 8:37PM
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NPCPLUS
Posts: 162 - Karma: -155
Well I still have feelings for the girl. And he knows that. That's why it's messed up and why I'm bent out of shape.
Jan 5 2011 8:38PM
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Anathema
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children, please..

Jan 5 2011 8:39PM
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H8CH
Posts: 2709 - Karma: 218
your friend is a dick if he'd put some chick before your friendship
Jan 5 2011 8:39PM
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NPCPLUS
Posts: 162 - Karma: -155
That's what I'm thinkin, and like I said, this is the second time this has happened.
Jan 5 2011 8:40PM
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pennstater
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smoke some weed
Jan 5 2011 8:41PM
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artfullydodged
Posts: 8358 - Karma: 1,674
Im going to reiterate the fact that youre a dumbass.

Just get over it man, unless you still have super strong feeling for this chick theres no reason to stress out your friend who is just trying to get his nut.
Jan 5 2011 8:42PM
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charmander
Posts: 10636 - Karma: 370
dude, youre not dating her anymore, she can do whatever she wants.

dont get pissed about it, fuck one of her frirnds or something.

/thread
Jan 5 2011 9:16PM
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KatyPerry.
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i'm guessing she broke up with you?
Jan 5 2011 9:17PM
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BEARS.
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dual cockslaps.
Jan 5 2011 9:21PM
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H8CH
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Spit roast...
Jan 5 2011 9:22PM
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snowdon
Posts: 2480 - Karma: 391
This is great advice. You should absolutely do this. I mean, you DO like restraining orders, right?
Jan 5 2011 9:25PM
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.frenchy
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Hahaha

i lol'd

Jan 5 2011 9:26PM
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Nobody.
Posts: 1193 - Karma: 471
Kill both of them, and then hide. Find a yellow Camaro. Turn it into a transformer. And destroy the rest of the world's population except the members of NS.
Jan 5 2011 9:27PM
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[creative]
Posts: 539 - Karma: 128
attack her mind....
Jan 5 2011 9:28PM
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B-runge
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dude your like 15 and have no friends, stop calling other people out on their ages when you are just as old
Jan 5 2011 9:54PM
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NPCPLUS
Posts: 162 - Karma: -155
Nah, we dated for about a year. We were pretty serious and shit, she didnt break up with me, it was the other way around.
Jan 6 2011 12:59AM
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soulskier
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jake?
Jan 6 2011 1:01AM
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.AR6rider.
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Wait, so you dumped her even though you still have feelings for her?
Jan 6 2011 1:04AM
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BenWhit
Posts: 4654 - Karma: 3,256
growing a sack would be trying to actually communicate with the two of them, not acting like the FRESHMAN you want him to act like. in good time you will realize your ways are silly, so i'll excuse it.
Jan 6 2011 1:14AM
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Whifazoo
Posts: 737 - Karma: 132

can you even imagine , that would be cool for like two days and then you would realize the world would be a huge sausege fest of internet thugs .

it would be funny tho .

and more pow for us. hmmm overall win

Jan 6 2011 1:16AM
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KA-47
Posts: 76 - Karma: 626
this is a tough situation. I know guys are supposed to just look out for themselves and as someone said before "get their nut" but both of  them betrayed you. I usually dont blame the guy if a girl is cheating but if he is your good friend abd he lied about it, that deserves a good punch in the face.

For the girl dont go out of your way to talk to her. If she wants to fuck or give you a blow job, take it. Dont give her any other attention. Best advise I ever got after a break up was from my basketball coach in high school. He just told me to fuck her best friend, seems like fitting advise for your situation.

good luck
Jan 6 2011 1:37AM
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.AR6rider.
Posts: 15976 - Karma: 8,799
I don't think there was any cheating going on in this situation. It sounded like after they broke up, his buddy just decided to hop on the opportunity to fuck her. Kind of a dick move, but hey, shit happens.
Jan 6 2011 1:41AM
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Mr_Orange
Posts: 1024 - Karma: 154
yo guys be like yo man... my dick has already been all over that... how does it taste? and honestly what you're like 16? who really gives a sheitt you werent gonna marry the bitch
Jan 6 2011 1:52AM
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alexg1687
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its a shit situation, but ive been through a lot of shit situations so i might be able to help.

first thing's first, look back to our good friend oscar wilde. "friendship is far more tragic than love...it lasts longer". you're gonna need to let the girl go and hold onto the guy as a friend (i assume you're good mates). to get over her you need to hate her in some way. trying to get her out of your mind while you still like her is mental suicide and you'll mess yourself up trying. you need to hate her first. so think of something she used to do/still does (apart from your friend) that pissed you off. that will make you realise you really don't want to be with her and over time you wont even think about her.

the fact that she's with your friend makes it a tough situation but there's no reason the usual rules dont apply. above all else, and if you really want to get back at her, the best thing you can do is go and enjoy yourself. go and fuck whoever you want and go and enjoy yourself with your friends so that she can see you're just living your life. the only thing that pisses a girl off more than a guy thinking about her is a guy forgetting about her.

long story short, hate the bitch, be friends with the dude.
Jan 6 2011 6:26AM
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theWIZARD
Posts: 935 - Karma: 76
have sex with one of her friends...
Jan 6 2011 9:03AM
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alexg1687
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no dont do this. that's a stupid idea.

have sex with LOTS of her friends
Jan 6 2011 9:12AM
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NPCPLUS
Posts: 162 - Karma: -155
Thanks for all the advice bros..but I think I'm just gonna get a yellow camaro..seems like the best advice.
Jan 6 2011 5:20PM
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Jamerson
Posts: 346 - Karma: 10
does she have a sister? if so fuck her
same goes for your friend


and oh ya.... pee in her butt
Jan 6 2011 5:24PM
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the.cheat
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i loled. but that seems like sound advice
Jan 6 2011 5:29PM
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SCOO-WOOP
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Theron, you're the man.



To OP,

I would say "Cool Story Bro" but I've been in your situation and it feels shitty. Best thing you can do is to probably just not talk to the girl and try and salvage whatever is left of the friendship you had with the guy hooking up with her. Never burn your bridges.
Jan 6 2011 5:37PM
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Deezy
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ahha dont do that.

have sex with ALL her friends.
Jan 6 2011 5:39PM
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maximiliaan
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and her mom
Jan 6 2011 5:40PM
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PaleCelery
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this.

Grow the fuck up OP. Quit trying to run other people's lives and worry about your own. Its just some chick you obviously weren't meant to be with, so who really cares?

My suggestion, turn gay and tell her its her fault. And then come out of the closet to your parents, hopefully they will kill you.
Jan 6 2011 5:46PM
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alexg1687
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no dont do that. she might have fat friends.
Jan 6 2011 11:28PM
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TROLLED.HARD
Posts: 1032 - Karma: -11
i was in this situation before.
My friend was a dick who wouldnt stop...so after they ended i hooked up with his chick he liked after.
Jan 6 2011 11:34PM
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