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Did i do the right thing NS?

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14.
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So about two weeks ago i made out with this chick who had been flirting with me for a loong ass time, it was fun but that's all we did.

The twist being that i have a girlfriend that ive been dating for two years, and her birthday was the 18th of october, now im the type of guy who respects women and is man enough to admit if ive done something wrong, so yesterday i told her, (didnt wanna ruin her birthday with the news)
Of course she flipped out started crying and shit, told me to gtfo
and i did I feel better about myself but i still feel shitty that i lost such a big part of me

Was that the right thing to do? What would you have done ?
Do you think she'll come back to me or will she hate me 4evarrrr

Oct 20 2010 11:15AM
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-ROY-
Posts: 3633 - Karma: 1,503
bro man bro. y u tell her bro
Oct 20 2010 11:16AM
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-+Siver+-
Posts: 1902 - Karma: 12
It is a really shitty situation, but In my opinion you did the right thing. I know this is not something you want to here right now, but the only way you will find out if she will take you back or hate you forever is time. The best of luck to ya.
Oct 20 2010 11:20AM
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fillup
Posts: 4904 - Karma: 568
Which girl would you rather be with


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Hey NS, i already made my decision, based off no information, was it the right one? ---doesnt work bro
Oct 20 2010 11:21AM
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14.
Posts: 974 - Karma: 48
i know man i know, i felt like shit for the two weeks i went without telling her you know? like she'd be telling me she loved me n shit and in my head i'd be like, fuck, you dont know shiiiiit

but thanks man, i need posts like this
Oct 20 2010 11:22AM
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skiierman
Posts: 28699 - Karma: -5,563
hahahaha, come on dude. wah my gf broke up with me! my life is almost over, i'll never find another love at the ripe age of 17!

grow a fucking sack. its just a girl that you had repeated sex with for 2 years. stop being a little bitch and move on.
Oct 20 2010 11:23AM
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14.
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i wasnt choosing anything you fucking retard, that other girl is nothing to me anymore, obviously i wanted my girlfriend and what i did was a huge mistake

i was asking NS if by telling her i did the right thing
Oct 20 2010 11:24AM
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Yung_Gnarley
Posts: 9093 - Karma: 3,041
MANLY MAN!

MANLY MAN!

MANLY MAN!

MANLY MAN!

MANLY MAN!

MANLY MAN!

MANLY MAN!
Oct 20 2010 11:25AM
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14.
Posts: 974 - Karma: 48
i never said my life was over,

but i see where your coming from and ive relized this too

theres plenty of other fish in the sea
Oct 20 2010 11:25AM
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skiierman
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yeah so stop missing some bitch who thought that kissing another girl was the worst thing you could do. crazy slut isn't worth your time. go find that cum dumpster you kissed and make her lock lips with your dick.
Oct 20 2010 11:27AM
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14.
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You sir are brutally to the point...


but i love it.
Oct 20 2010 11:29AM
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geteducated
Posts: 6410 - Karma: 86
what you have to do is go to the bar and take down the topless picture of her on the wall in the mens bathroom. then write her a letter telling her to come see your musical. it will work out in the end.
Oct 20 2010 11:32AM
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Oreos
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you valued easing your own guilt over the happiness of your gf.

never tell unless you fucked the random girl, then you have an obligation.
Oct 20 2010 11:39AM
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.AR6rider.
Posts: 15976 - Karma: 8,799
Been watching FX lately?
Oct 20 2010 11:45AM
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RubberSoul
Posts: 11249 - Karma: 14,642
youre a brave man for admitting it. part of me thinks you shouldnt have but hey at least youre honest. that's a good thing
Oct 20 2010 11:46AM
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ECB
Posts: 6991 - Karma: 622
Perfect of why you should keep it in the family
Oct 20 2010 11:55AM
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Charlie_Kelly
Posts: 11955 - Karma: 12,302
yes
Oct 20 2010 11:58AM
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CodyTurner
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hahaha why can't your karma  go any higher than 10
Oct 20 2010 11:58AM
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baethoven
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all you did was make out with this other girl, and you told your gf why?
Oct 20 2010 11:58AM
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rudager
Posts: 11336 - Karma: 4,635
I've been in a situation like this.

But I had sex with the girl instead, various amounts of it.
It was worth it, the girl I was going out with at the time was a controllololololing bitch.



I'm basically a douche bag when it comes to managing women. I don't like it, but I still do it.

It blows up in my face from time to time, I'll manage it one day.
Oct 20 2010 11:59AM
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soulskier
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right, but you're nowhere near the sea. you're in the desert, alone.
Oct 20 2010 12:36PM
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Sheets-mmm
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some things will never change
Oct 20 2010 12:38PM
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freestyler540
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the simple answer is no. Even if you realise it was a mistake, the best thing is to keep quiet and act like nothing happened. What you dont know doesnt hurt you. Now, your ex will tell everyone she knows that you cant be trusted. Girls talk a lot.

I hope you still have contact with the other chick, otherwise your down 2 for 2 man.
Oct 20 2010 12:38PM
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PaleCelery
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exactly my thoughts.... I wouldn't have said shit. Why would she need to know. In what way would she benefit by knowing you made out with some chick. If it meant nothing then let that be it, just forget about it.

It's one thing if you've been cheating on her, but kissing some other girl isnt a big deal.

You done fucked up.
Oct 20 2010 12:42PM
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Kapital
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Im gonna need pictures of both women to make an accurate decision. Preferably with no clothing...

but as it stands, I think you did the right thing.
Oct 20 2010 12:44PM
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PaleCelery
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this haha
Oct 20 2010 12:45PM
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klayer_9
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wow you fucked up.
Oct 20 2010 1:09PM
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steezeaholic.
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i was in pretty much the same situation a little while ago. i have a boyfriend from home and we decided to stay together when we went to college this year. at college, i made out with a couple of kids when i was out at parties. i felt terrible so i told my boyfriend and we broke up. i told him that i was really sorry and after a week he forgave me and wanted to get back together. i think if you give her a little bit of time and tell her that you are really sorry and regret it then in time she will forgive you. if she doesn't, maybe it wasn't meant to be. i hope it works out for you though
Oct 20 2010 1:32PM
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theblackrod
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you did the right thing by telling her, but don't expect her to take you back. its a dangerous game you just started playing...
Oct 20 2010 1:43PM
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soulskier
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yea
it was good of you to fess up to it, but super shitty of you to cheat in the firstplace
sure you already knew that just my $.02
Oct 20 2010 1:46PM
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katalina
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telling her doesn't make it better... and not telling her, yeah she would never know but that's just shitty.


by YOU being the one to tell her, it shows you actually regret what you did and she deserves to know, instead of you hiding it and her finding out from someone else. if you want her back then i would give her time. don't smother her, but also don't try for other girls. but if it's not worth it to you, then call the bitch you macked on and go getcha dick wet!
Oct 20 2010 1:50PM
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General_Ripper
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Cheater
Oct 20 2010 1:51PM
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ECB
Posts: 6991 - Karma: 622
There you have it kiddies, don't cheat or it blows up in your face

You might be asking what blows up, well, lets just say that if you play with your penis long enough, white stuff comes out. And if you do it to another guy, guess what comes out, all over your face?
Oct 20 2010 3:08PM
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whegrodamus.
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we need pics of both,

which one do you want to be with?

why did you tell her?, only logical reason is to break up with her and make it painful?

She probably will hate you forever, that was not the right move...

GL man
Oct 20 2010 3:10PM
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I.Love.Beezy
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you will die sad and alone
Oct 20 2010 3:14PM
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gyarados
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pics?
Oct 20 2010 4:01PM
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Abc567def
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I only agree with about 50% of your posts but this is one that i strongly agree with. If you don't respect the person that you are with in a relationship then why be on in the first place, you may as well be single and slaying left right and center without having to worry about a ball and chain. Some ppl I just don't get.
Oct 20 2010 4:10PM
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A.Eberhard
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Yeah we need pics of both girls in order to come to a decision.
Oct 20 2010 4:13PM
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pmsnow
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fucking win hahahaha
Oct 20 2010 4:14PM
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thisandthatfilms
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basically this
Oct 20 2010 4:21PM
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smooticus
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Heres how i see. Obviously what you should have done is not make out with another girl in the first place. But everyone makes mistakes so ur fucked. But u accepted your fate and took the consequence, so learn and move on.
Oct 20 2010 4:23PM
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rickroller
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NO always tell girls what they want to hear or they will flip shit.
Oct 20 2010 6:22PM
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