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Thought you found the right girl/guy...........
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Just curious if anyone here has ever been in my situation, and if they have I feel your pain. I just found the perfect girl for me, I need her all semester but just started really talking to her a little more than 1 week ago before my college let out like right now! Basically, we decided since we are both transfering that it just wasnt gonna work no matter-im transfering to umass and shes goin down to delware. Im so pissed it had to end up this way Ive never felt more like complete shit in my entire life.......I mean she had it all and we really liked each other BUT WHY does TIMING HAVE TO FUCK EVERYTHING UP! JESUS CHRIST......if anyone has experienced something similar to this please share it......man I feel like shit.
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i disagree. there is only so much a person can change to accomodate someone else. sure, you can always change yourself enough to make things ''work out,'' but then you're sacrificing your self-identity, and that's not worth it. and i wouldn't feel right if someone changed to accomodate me. and i'm not talking about little things like bad habits and leaving the toilet seat up, i'm talking about how someone feels and acts.
some people just can't be together, no matter how hard they both try to think otherwise - something i'm way too familiar with
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you could change to make things work, but isn't the point of the whole 'LOVE' thing that you are made for eachother?
-Lauren
Lauren and Ella: together changing teenaged boys lives since 2001.
THE FIST OF FURY
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Skiing's not a sport, it's a lifestyle.
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^Well that would be boring... and it would mean the saying 'Bickering like an old married couple' wouldn't make a lot of sense. It isn't a very healthy relationship if you're completely compatible with each other and never have anything to disagree over. Also, I don't think that has ever happened to any couple.
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I agree, by made for eachother I mean the perfect balance, where you disagree and it's constructive but you aren't always fighting about pointless stuff. and I always bring it to skiing, because that's what matters most to me. I would like to be with a guy who I can ski with and we can help eachother getting stuff down, but there is still a little competition.
-Lauren
Lauren and Ella: together changing teenaged boys lives since 2001.
THE FIST OF FURY
Fistin' Mad Bitches!
Skiing's not a sport, it's a lifestyle.
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Oh, ok, I totally misunderstood you. Yeah, you're dead on. But i'm not into the ski girl thing as much... I mean it'd be nice as a thing to talk about, but I have trouble skiing with my friends who ski. In fact, I only usually ski with snowboarders, and that's only in the park for filming and hanging out (which I don't consider skiing, really, since I look on park skiing and downhill skiing as two totally different sports). Aside from that, i'd rather be alone with the hill. Guess I'm a bit of a loner on the mountain. But the competition thing comes into play in other arenas... so I'm with you there ;)
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In a haze
A stormy haze
I’ll be around
I’ll be loving you
Always
Always
Here I am
And I’ll take my time
Here I am
And I’ll wait in line
Always
Always...
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yeah it's hard, I ski so much it's hard to date people who don't ski or snowboard with me, but I like to have my own time to ski alone, and with my friends. and I like to leave the romance at home, touchy-feeliness doesn't belong on the hill and i haven't met a dudewho can appreciate all that stuff I just ranted about. haha.
-Lauren
Lauren and Ella: together changing teenaged boys lives since 2001.
THE FIST OF FURY
Fistin' Mad Bitches!
Skiing's not a sport, it's a lifestyle.
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True enough, it's hard to fit everything into a day. I have so much schoolwork that when I'm not in class I've gotta be reading, thus the summer courses. School and skiing are pretty much my whole life, and now I've gotta fit hockey and work in there too... I can't believe some people do all this and work 2 jobs.
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In a haze
A stormy haze
I’ll be around
I’ll be loving you
Always
Always
Here I am
And I’ll take my time
Here I am
And I’ll wait in line
Always
Always...
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it's really all or nothing for me with the ski girl thing. living quite far from the mountains, it's not a big deal if a girl doesn't ski/snowboard, as long as she doesn't mind if i do. but if she does, she has to be a pretty experienced skier, because my last girlfriend snowboarded (like pretty much all my friends) but she wasn't very good, and she always complained about the cold or the snow or something, and i could never do anything challenging runs with her, and she didn't like the park, but she'd get all butthurt if i mentioned going for a couple runs without her. maybe one day, god willing, i'll hook up with a chick who can actually SKI with me.
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Abba Zabba, you my only friend
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my gf is the best girl skier ive ever skied with on a regular basis but shes still completely new to park. but she can rip all the other trails. its sick i love it
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All save one. There, waiting silent and still in the space before the gate, sat Gandalf upon Shadowfax : Shadowfax, who alone among the free horses of the earth endured the terror, unmoving, steadfast as a graven image in Rath Dinen.'
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'sacrificing your self identity' ha, bullshit, your not your job or where you go to school or your car or your friends or your clothes or your family or anything but you, in this case, if it really were gonna work out, you could easily still be together and not even long distance
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but you are only ''you'' as you said, and fuck sacrificing yourself to the point of submission. i'm not talking about long distance i'm talking about two people who just can't be together because they aren't compatible, and making each other compatible would mean too much sacrifice. it's a cheesy line from some song, but ''if i was the man you wanted, i wouldn't be the man that i am.'' that's what i'm trying to say.
-Strode
Abba Zabba, you my only friend
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