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Anyone feel like giving me some girl advice?
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So I met this girl at the beach this past summer. I really like her but she lives like 200 some miles away in Philly. We text and talk fairly often but i haven't seen her since summer. Any thoughts? (ya, I know its pretty lame but I can't get her out of my head and don't know what to do)
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when i was about 16 the same thing happened to me (only i met a guy). i talked for a year straight before i got to see him again. (fucking weird, right?) well whatever anyway, he told me he fucking loved me 8 months into this whole talking thing, and the only time i ever saw him was one week at the beach. sooo he ended up coming down to "visit colleges" and we ended up hanging out for the weekend, totally "in love" and what not. we became exclusive. i'd see him once or twice every two months. slowly, things ended up getting shitty, i was losing trust in him, he was getting bored, it was just too much i guess. he ended up cheating on me and knocking the girl up, the summer before my senior year. i broke it off but eventually i let him talk his way back to me, like the idiot i was. we were still are both single, and he FOLLOWED me to college (he wanted to go to somewhere else) mind you its been all of senior year now and i havnt seen him. so college starts. i see him and realize i dont love him anymore. he gets angry. we end up in a huge fight and literally 3 weeks into school i never talk to him again.
do i regret it? no. but just saying, long distance relationships are a mess, especially that young. you'll rarely get to see each other and the trust issues that come out of the whole thing are unnecessary.. i havnt had another serious relationship since. and im 21 now.
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oh ps he was philly i was pittsburgh.. so about 400 miles.
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