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guys... what's the deal

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skibunnie
Posts: 1756 - Karma: 14
Ok so here's the issue: my roomate met this guy like a month ago, has gone out with him a 4 times. Last night he took her out to a super fancy dinner. they've made out a little but that's it. they've never talked about whether they're 'together' or not. so are they going out or what? and is he ever gonna bring it up or is it up to her? why are guys so complicated?
oh ya and she's 18 hes 21 if it makes any difference.
thanks!
Apr 25 2004 12:43PM
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Swirly999
Posts: 2833 - Karma: 10
first of all it sound slike your talking about urself and too embarrased to say it, secondly if its not you why dont you just ask your roomate im sure she has a better idea than anyone on thsi site.
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Apr 25 2004 12:44PM
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skibunnie
Posts: 1756 - Karma: 14
no I really am talking about my roomate, we thought it would be a good idea to post on this site seeing as there are so many guys here.
Apr 25 2004 12:46PM
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J.D.
Posts: 21362 - Karma: 5,144
Yes, fancy dinners suggest that they are. Why is this so hard to figure out? I'm thinking there's something you're not telling us, and you probably don't want to post it on the internet. You probably won't get a much better idea on here no matter what everyone says, especially considering the type of people who make up the majority of this site.


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''mad trix is a gay name. go with the k2's.'' -Linepunk

''Dude, Americans or Canadians didn't invent english, the British dudes did.'' -Chauncy

''Gay people are fags'' -Atlantaski

''dude i am literat i just cant spell worth shit u got prob with it bitch'' -Bridgerbowlskier

''Gay marriages are gay.'' -SUpilot

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Apr 25 2004 12:52PM
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ReggaeConcept1
Posts: 2987 - Karma: -22
I'm going to let you in on a little secrety, seeing as how you are new here: All the guys on this site are homosexual.


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Apr 25 2004 12:52PM
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*ELLA*
Posts: 1628 - Karma: 11
Yea non of us can really give you a conclusion on your friends relationship... it differs in every person how they feel about a relationship.... my friend went out on dates with the same guy for a year before he actually asked her out. it'd probably be better to let the relationship play out before you get all worried about titles and shit
~Ella

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Apr 25 2004 12:57PM
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jibtastic
Posts: 4391 - Karma: 67
^ He pretty much nailed it. The Homosexual Cult on NS has a good 25,000+ members nowadays.
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Apr 25 2004 12:58PM
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bigsky_gurl
Posts: 1455 - Karma: 40
I consider that 'dating', but until they verbally commit to being exclusive, then they are not going out.



Dont forget your snorkle ~ Bridger Bowl
Apr 25 2004 1:02PM
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Rossi00
Posts: 405 - Karma: 10
Basically if either one isnt hooking up with anyone else, they talk more than 3 times daily, and they hang out with each other all the time I would consider that being together. When you get older you dont have to verbally tell someone you are together its just more implied by their actions. If the girl doesnt think they are dating then odds are things between them must not seem like they are at a relationship level yet. Thats just my opinion though.


'And shepherds we shall be, for thee my lord for thee, power hath descended forth from thy hand. That our feet may swiftly carry out thy command. So we shall flow a river forth to thee, and teeming with souls shall it ever be. In nomine patrie, Et fili spiritu sancti'-Boondock Saints
Apr 25 2004 2:31PM
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GeneralButtNaked
Posts: 7854 - Karma: 89
if it were me, no, they would just be 'together' but my relationships never work out too well





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Apr 25 2004 2:43PM
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powstash1
Posts: 236 - Karma: 10
why are guys so complicated...what??...girls are the most complicated.....if your roomie wants to know what the deal is or what this guy is thinking of things the she needs to be upfront and ask him...a lot of times guys don't ask cuz they're hoping that the girl will, it's easier that way...and if he hasn't asked then maybe he hasn't asked for a reason...there are too many factors and possibilities to consider...just be straight and upfront with it all...nice dinners and hanging out definitely reflect some level of interest so go from there...
Apr 25 2004 2:47PM
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Jib_This
Posts: 8272 - Karma: 9
Here's what you tell your roommate to do: 'Roommate, you should ask that guy what's up in a non-threatening manner, so that he'll feel comfortable telling you exactly how he feels, and you can both go from there, instead of playing these bullshit games'.

Problem solved. End of thread.



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Apr 25 2004 2:48PM
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Lateralis
Posts: 1228 - Karma: 332
all he wants to do is get some pussy


'Did you know that average penis size is 6.4inches and that the average vaginal canal is 7.9inches? Therefore.... in this country alone, there is over 17,000 miles of unused virgin pussy' - Poolhall Junkies
Apr 25 2004 2:56PM
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powstash1
Posts: 236 - Karma: 10
Jib really hit the mark...word man
Apr 25 2004 2:59PM
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t-roy
Posts: 4041 - Karma: 52
fancy dining obviously means more than just a friend. it doesn't matter if you are actually 'dating' or not. it is just kinda implied and that is cool.




Apr 25 2004 6:16PM
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Ski_Instructor_Mike
Posts: 6146 - Karma: 73
if he's taking her to dinners and they're not doing it and it doesn't look like they will be anytime real soon, yeah he's probably looking for a girlfriend, just get her to ask him if he's seeing anyone else, he'll say no and she says so then are we exclusive? and he'll probably say ya.
-Mike

'ya but he doesnt have a hot tub, thats pretty ghetto' - cj
Apr 25 2004 11:10PM
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petek
Posts: 8762 - Karma: 12
You dont have to go stampeding towards the clitoris!



Mind can make a heaven from hell, and a hell from heaven
Apr 25 2004 11:11PM
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J.D.
Posts: 21362 - Karma: 5,144
^''Why can't you just kiss her, boy?!?''

Classic Monty Python.


J.D.'s Hall of Fame for Stupid Posts:

''mad trix is a gay name. go with the k2's.'' -Linepunk

''Dude, Americans or Canadians didn't invent english, the British dudes did.'' -Chauncy

''Gay people are fags'' -Atlantaski

''dude i am literat i just cant spell worth shit u got prob with it bitch'' -Bridgerbowlskier

''Gay marriages are gay.'' -SUpilot

'if it werent for women, i wouldnt have to wear condoms' -Hucksterjibber

''This board seems to have gone downhill since i joined'' -ADjunkie
Apr 25 2004 11:14PM
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petek
Posts: 8762 - Karma: 12
its fiscally part of my religion, that all monty pythin antics are classics.



Mind can make a heaven from hell, and a hell from heaven
Apr 25 2004 11:18PM
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