boy meets girl, girl has boyfriend. boy says hey i like this girl but she has boyfriend, so i'ma sit back and just be her friend. girl starts talking to boy about what an asshole boyfriend is and how unhappy she is. boy gives advice to girl about life and being young (20 years) and how one can't tie themselves down at such a ripe age. girl breaks up with boyfriend. boy says well shit, starts workin' on girl with more devious intentions than friendship. boyfriend saw messages containing said advice between boy and girl, flips out and thinks boy broke him and his girl up. did boy do something wrong here?