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So, you're dating this girl or guy, whatever floats your boat, for around 3 or 4 years now. Things are going great and you expect to marry them in the near future. All of a sudden, the man or woman of your dreams comes into your life and wants you.
ive had to deal with this dude and i gotta say you need to keep the girl of your dreams on the sidelines and get to know her youll know for sure if its right to drop youre girlfriend of 3 to 4 years dont go making any rash decisions you know but do what feels right and makes you happy
hard decision. the woman of your dreams should already be the one your thinking about marrying. I'd reconsider the one who you've you been dating for 3-4 years and possibly date the woman of your dreams.
Woman your marrying - you care about her but dont love her
Woman of your dreams - perfect for you in every way and you care about her more than girl your marrying.
If you interpret it as above, then its obvious you should go for the girl of your dreams, because you'd just end up hurting the girl youre marrying in the long run.
the girl your with now will probably break up with you out of nowhere, with no sign of notice just because theres some small minor conflict in her head about your relationship even tho youve entirely sincere and meaningful about it and its mostly due to you not being able to be spending enough intimate time together because of work/school/responsibilities/her going off to fashion school for two years.
then shell act like youre nothing to her for the next two months and youll finally get over it and then shell want to get back with you! then youll have to go through the guilt of telling her you dont love her anymore over everything and youll still even feel bad for her hurting even though she dropped you off like nothing..
so your saying if i had a choice between an average hottie or the girl of my dreams (rihanna) i could only choose one? easy, rihanna. becasue she is a super hottie and she has a lot of money
This is how I see it, Why would you consider marrying someone who is not your everything? not the girl of your dreams? You cool with the status quo? Maybe some people are but I feel that I personally wouldn't think about marrying a girl unless she is my dream girl. Why settle for someone just because, when you could have everything you've ever wanted.
ive had to make this kind of decisions before, but def not from a 3-4 year relationship though.
The girl of your dreams may seem great at first, but I would get to know her for at least 3 or 4 months before making a decision.