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basa
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Ok, so I have come over to Canada for my summer holidays as I live in Australia. I have met this girl and she is like amazing, so different compared to Australian girls and we've become really attached to each other and we both admit we could spend much of our lives with each other. However I am leaving home to finish my last 9 months of school in a little over 2 weeks. I'm already arranging to come back to Canada anyways in 9 months because i love it so much here.The hardest thing about it is that I'm going to have to say good bye to her for at least 9 months. Please Newschoolers, is there anyway that I can ease the pain. Has anyone been in a similar situation? How has it worked? Helpppp meeee
Jan 24 2010 7:42PM
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masta_LE3B
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beat the shit out of her. thats a surefire way to get over her.
Jan 24 2010 7:44PM
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rigzz
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Pee in her butt. She'll remember you until you come back!

Jan 24 2010 7:44PM
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.frenchy
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hoes?
Jan 24 2010 7:45PM
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the_moderaper
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Basically
Jan 24 2010 7:46PM
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yojimbo
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1. Long distance relationships are dumb. whats the point of being with someone if you never see them, so unless your going to move to canada and be with her you should just forget about her.

2. if you really want to be stupid and try to date this girl over the phone and see her every 9 months, then you should start stocking up on alcohol/drugs now to help deal with what a controlling bitch your cell phone is going to become. also, you should probably get some free international calls deal worked out with your phone company or your bills gonna put you in debt.

3. love isn't real. Life is about being cold and heartless, prepared to kill whenever necessary and looking out for yourself. survival of the fittest.
Jan 24 2010 7:47PM
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*steeze_is_good
Posts: 2886 - Karma: 721
Skype?
Jan 24 2010 7:48PM
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philcote4
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holy shit, thats depressing lol
Jan 24 2010 7:49PM
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Dainsey
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hahahahaha
+k for making me laugh
Jan 24 2010 7:50PM
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RevealingSkirt
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Haha this is a new life philosophy I will be living by.
Jan 24 2010 7:52PM
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Barefootin_Fiend
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pull yourself together man. 9 months really isn't that long in the grand scheme of things. if you both are as invested in this as you claim, it'll be over before ya know it.

Jan 24 2010 8:01PM
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207
Posts: 8969 - Karma: 3,846
disregard females, acquire currency?
Jan 24 2010 8:04PM
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stanners101
Posts: 138 - Karma: 16
this is so right, i just split up with my gf in england. ive been in canada for 4 months now and longdistance relationships suck old flappy meat curtains just forget about her and rut the poon in aus like a filthy little japsparrow
Jan 24 2010 8:05PM
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*TURBONERD*
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or poop on her
Jan 24 2010 8:12PM
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DutchhGutss
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why not both?
Jan 24 2010 8:13PM
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yojimbo
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yeah, well if you were living in some places in this world this would be your reality already.
Jan 24 2010 8:14PM
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Big_Spence
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drown your sorrows in a toxic mix of hard drugs and alcohol.
Jan 24 2010 8:15PM
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lawlz.
Posts: 42 - Karma: 10
this is the absolute truth
been there..done that...not worth it at all.
my advice? slowly break it off...if it were "meant to be" you guys will re-unite in the future, it will be cheezy as hell, and oh so hollywood.
Jan 24 2010 8:20PM
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yojimbo
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oh, I forgot number 4. fuck bitches, git money!
Jan 24 2010 8:53PM
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Noss.
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amen
Jan 24 2010 8:56PM
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Blurst
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no no no that has already been stated with the statement "disregard females, acquire currency".
Jan 24 2010 8:58PM
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thebeesknees
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you cant come on NS asking for answers and expect anything other then this, right here.
Jan 24 2010 8:59PM
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a_pla5tic_bag
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Rule to live by.

Forget the girl, you're going to miss candian skiing aren't you?
Jan 24 2010 9:03PM
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yojimbo
Posts: 3631 - Karma: 27
not the same meaning at all. the first statement simply states "disregard females". this can be taken in a general sense to mean that all females should be disregarded. sexually or emotionally. "fuck bitches, git money" means you still have to give them your regards, just in the form of a nice genuine cock slap.
Jan 24 2010 9:05PM
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Dr.NS
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you need a girlfriend
Jan 24 2010 9:24PM
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An10a_Eng
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oh my god you are so fucking funny! isnt it past your bed time?...now on a serious note, sexting usually does the trick
Jan 24 2010 9:29PM
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tommyp1ckles
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Jan 24 2010 9:33PM
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jeremy.g
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just do your thing, meet some new ladies when you move
Jan 24 2010 9:35PM
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andersteeze
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time flies when you are high on marijuana.
Jan 24 2010 9:36PM
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skiierman
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9 months is perfect. you can fuck some other bitch and dip right before the baby comes. you'll be one of those cool fathers that abandon their children like ODB or superman.
Jan 24 2010 9:36PM
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AMG.
Posts: 867 - Karma: 21
Think it through. i dont know how old you are but the chances of you marrying this chick are probably pretty slim. So, in my opinion you should make the best of the time you guys have together, dont dwell on the fact you're leaving, just have fun with this girl. Then go home, accept that it was a vacation romance type of thing, and go on with your life. Or else you may chatch one-itus and focus solely on this unattainable girl, which will screw over your chances with girls that are where you are. it sucks, but its just how it goes. live in the moment, not in the past, so right now just have a good time until you leave.
Jan 24 2010 9:39PM
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D-Ross
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Haha, I was thinking you could fuck HER and then come back to see your new family!
Jan 24 2010 9:49PM
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a_pla5tic_bag
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Yeah, have one hell of a time, then just disappear and don't communicate with her until you get home, or maybe not at all, but then she might find someone else. 
Jan 24 2010 9:57PM
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Shredneck
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sig'ed
Jan 24 2010 10:05PM
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basa
Posts: 85 - Karma: 10
I know my chances are slim, but like every single other girl ive been with has never made me feel same way when im with them. In fact, when I split up with most girls i honestly dont feel any after pain or love loss. But she is different and like i believe that if she is willing to reunite in 9 months then i can make it all work. Time fly's and I believe if I just keep in touch with her a lot, and remain really close friends with her that the 9 months will have felt like a week and we will be back together again and can take together into the future. I will still live in the moment while I'm back home but i know she is the person that i have to be with. I originally wanted to stay in Canada to ski and now i couldn't care less about the skiing : |
Jan 25 2010 12:21PM
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Abc567def
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many ppl confuse love and infatuation
Jan 25 2010 12:25PM
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zachimo
Posts: 159 - Karma: 10
Maybe I can shed some light into this situation
I'm currently running a long term relationship with my gf of 3 years, but it's totally worth it
Yeah i'll admit that it's very tough, but if you realize how good you have it with her, then it's all worth it man
keeping in touch with her is key and make sure you make an effort to talk to her
maybe you can even take some trips in between semesters to cut that 9 months in half
good luck
Jan 25 2010 12:30PM
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ElbridgeGerry
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She's probably a closet lumberdyke.
Jan 25 2010 12:31PM
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basa
Posts: 85 - Karma: 10
If we both feel infatuation how is that different to love?
And i know its love, and alot of the time love is foolish and thats what makes it so unique and special. If we always went for the most logical thing and not the thing that our gut instinct tells us to do, life would be so bland and boring.
Jan 25 2010 12:34PM
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neutralzombie
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my friend's fiancee went to afghanistan for 9 months, and they're getting married in march....so that being said, unless you're 16, this shouldn't be a problem, so long as she's not a slut, and neither are you.
Jan 25 2010 12:34PM
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PASKIINGSUCKS
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I'm gonna go ahead and guess your friend's fiancee was a little more occupied during his stay in afghanistan than this man will be back in australia.
Jan 25 2010 12:38PM
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basa
Posts: 85 - Karma: 10
Cheers man, it seems so worth it.
Im definitely keeping in touch with her via fb and skype. I only have 9 months of highschool and then if she is still interested in me then I will instantly be back here. I wanted to do university over here anyways but if she was with me at the same time like life couldn't get any better. How long have you been away from her?
Jan 25 2010 12:39PM
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neutralzombie
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lol.
not like people aren't having sex while on tour, buddy.
Jan 25 2010 12:39PM
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neutralzombie
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besides, if he really digs her, then what does it matter who else he can fuck in the world? that's the soul question of relationships, this pussy, or that one? either you want one, or you don't.
Jan 25 2010 12:42PM
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zachimo
Posts: 159 - Karma: 10
It's been almost 6 months now
she's going to University in the east and i'm in the west
if you were thinking about doing post secondary in Canada I would highly look at coming to the west (quite a few Aussies here and up in whis)
where were you planning on going / where does she live?
Jan 25 2010 12:43PM
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PASKIINGSUCKS
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Very true, I have never been in the military or been on a tour like that so I have no idea. I'm just guessing there is a little more promiscuity and partying going on at a college than tent city in afghanistan.
Jan 25 2010 12:44PM
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hartig
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perfect advice

i lol'd at #3
Jan 25 2010 12:45PM
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basa
Posts: 85 - Karma: 10
Ok, so after 6 months is everything going fine? Have you grown closer from going through this hard time or is it coming at a cost?
Yeah i want to go to UBC either in Vancouver or Kelowna. Im in Vernon now and she is unsure where she wants to go, either UBC or uni of Victoria. Definitely coming to the west.
Jan 25 2010 12:49PM
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neutralzombie
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yeah but general self control isn't difficult. then again i've never been a man...
Jan 25 2010 12:55PM
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basa
Posts: 85 - Karma: 10
Ok, i know that the relationship will very rarely last 9 months, so if i just kept it at good friends for the 9 months and then reunite with her when I come back. This year is going to fly for both myself and her also as it is our last year or school. To any girls that could give me some help, if a you met a guy that swept you off your feet and made such an impact on your life just being with you, would u consider reuniting with him in 9 months??? I have also become really close to her family, does that benefit myself in any way?
Jan 25 2010 1:02PM
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