Holy shit I feel your pain dude. Ive had glasses since the beginning of time. Now I have contacts so its not an issue. As for goggles Bolle makes a few OTG(over the glasses) models as well as Oakley. The problem is most of them have persimmon lenses but what I did was find the regular version of the OTG model and cut out the padding on the sides to fit over my specs. For example they make an OTG version of the Bolle X9 so I just bought the X9s that had a much nicer lens and cut the padding on the sides and it worked great. Theyre really sick goggles too. But I beleive some of the larger Oakley gogs would be good candidates, you just need to go to a shop and try em on and figure out whether theyd fit well with your glasses if you modded them a bit. Also beware that you need to plug up the bottom vent holes of whatever gogs you end up getting(i just used small strips of black duct tape, you cant even tell its there) otherwise your breathing will fog up your glasses like a bastard. Hope that helped and heres a link to the Bolle X9's with multiple lens and frame options:
http://www.opticsplanet.net/bolle-x9-ski-goggles.html 
