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Bro's before hoe's?

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fezz
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So this thread is a little pointless but i just wanted to see what you would do in my situation.

My buddy starts dating this girl, a month later he dumps her after cheating on her. A week later they get back together within a month he cheats on her again and dumps her again. A couple weeks later i find myself talking to the girl, she asks if i want to hang out sometime im down for it, shes cool and i dont think my buddy would mind because he dumped her twice. Me and the girl hang out for about 2 weeks with out my buddy knowing. Then he finds out and flips shit saying that i need to chose him or her and that i am being a terrible friend? overall im just pissed that i cant hang out with the girl with out potentially loosing a friend.

so NS what would you do?


Nov 18 2009 4:29PM
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t-roy
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tell him to stop being retarded. but also do you really want to get with a girl your friend dated..?
Nov 18 2009 4:30PM
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.frenchy
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sorry, always bros first
Nov 18 2009 4:31PM
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MN_Nice
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I would just avoid her so you don't have to deal with drama. Unless she's completely worth it.
Nov 18 2009 4:32PM
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mak
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understand that dating a friend's ex is a no no, but this guy cheated on her twice and dumped her both times? sounds like he's bit of a douchebag sometimes
Nov 18 2009 4:39PM
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T-Holt
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Yea, but if he's not putting the hoe before his bro then wouldn't the bro be overreacting about his former hoe?
I mean, I also don't really see how he has a leg to stand on if he cheated on her twice.
Nov 18 2009 4:39PM
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T-Holt
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And doesn't man law have some rule about that?
Like if a girl dumps a guy you have to wait like 3 months or something, and if a guy dumps a girl you have to wait like 3 weeks?
Idk, tell him to grow up, and that he dumped her...twice after cheating on her...twice.
IMO she's fair game and your friend is just being a douche.
Nov 18 2009 4:41PM
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MN_Nice
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You sir have changed my mind.
Nov 18 2009 4:42PM
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lilwhiz165
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agreed. if shes hot then its hard to say, you know what i mean
Nov 18 2009 4:42PM
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.frenchy
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true true
Nov 18 2009 4:43PM
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ski_ENDUB
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Yep, all disputes will be settled according to man law. And your friend is a big douche for cheating on this girl twice and dumping her.
Nov 18 2009 4:45PM
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spliff.Life
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hahah sloppy seconds
Nov 18 2009 4:46PM
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fezz
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haha shes pretty sexy im not gonna lie..but i was just seeing if it was just me thinking that he is being a douche about it
Nov 18 2009 4:49PM
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MN_Nice
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Pics? NS will judge if she's worth it. And don't post one with the "Myspace Angles." Just a nice face shot
Nov 18 2009 4:50PM
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Dr.Scholl
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he is overreacting, but if you value his friendship more there will be other girls. (this advice is based on that she is average looking, pics might change my mind)
Nov 18 2009 4:55PM
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[~_~]
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I don't understand this concept. I'd much rather tap a hoe than a bro.
Nov 18 2009 4:57PM
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PAuL_Hellar
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so correct me if im wrong but you hung out with this girl for 2 weeks, thats a long time to be with someone
Nov 18 2009 5:26PM
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neutralzombie
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if she wasn't your friend first, she's none of your business. isn't there like a guy code, if she's an ex, stay away?
Nov 18 2009 5:28PM
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JaphyRyder
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i almost always say bros before hos, but honestly your friend sounds like a dbag
Nov 18 2009 5:50PM
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frontline31
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I never understood the whole negative connotations of dating a friend's ex.

If nobody ever dated their friends' exes, it would be REALLY slim pickings in small towns like mine. Just because you date a girl doesn't mean you fucking own her from then on. It should matter if a girl is single or not, not if she's dated anyone you're friends with.

There ARE however, important things to consider, like giving your friend some time to recover first, and wether or not there is a major chance of them reconciling.

Nov 18 2009 5:54PM
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PeeDuBzz
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agreed on the fact that your buddy is being a douch.... but what to do well need pics
Nov 18 2009 5:55PM
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abc8tr8we98g
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Nov 18 2009 5:57PM
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ct_steeze
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exactly
Nov 18 2009 6:00PM
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Scott29~
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Well shes a slut so you dont want to date her. Just fuck her behind your buddy's back, nothing will go wrong~
Nov 18 2009 6:03PM
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frontline31
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THANKYOU someone that doesnt have really fucked up views on this
Nov 18 2009 6:09PM
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LMPJibbin
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the girl seems kinda like a slut but your friend is acting straight retarded
Nov 18 2009 6:11PM
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spruitm
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pics?
Nov 18 2009 6:13PM
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theblackrod
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let us see her face
Nov 18 2009 6:15PM
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mak
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yeah I agree with this
Nov 18 2009 6:17PM
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snwbrdmilf
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I think your friend is definitely over reacting. He doesn't own her, and he disrespected her. He has no rights to her. She isn't an object, she is a person. And if you two click and are having a good time, then your friend would be happy for you. Get with reality people and fuck all these stupid "laws". If its legit, then do the damn thing. You only live once.
Nov 18 2009 6:21PM
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Cheezcake.
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Well no matter what it feels weird dating a girl your friends been with.
but it sounds like your friend is mental. I've used to have one like that, where they needed every person around them to worship them or else they're flipping out.
if she was dumb enough to get humped and dumped by your friend, i say bro first.
if she's not a slut like that, then I say go for it and work it out with your friend somehow. I fucking hate sluts.
Nov 18 2009 6:24PM
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doublexl
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if  he dumped her twice, he obvs doesnt care about her. go for it, hell prolly get over it.
Nov 18 2009 6:32PM
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kpow
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yeah but this is different cuz ur bro was being a douche. cheatin always has its consequences. tell him that you dont want a friend whos a baby and doesnt want his friends datin his ex's
Nov 18 2009 6:35PM
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no_steeze
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if he's feminine enough to call you a 'bad friend' then he probably means you literally have to choose between hooking up with the girl or him...so the case is changed to bro or ho?
Nov 18 2009 6:37PM
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fezz
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on the leff
Nov 18 2009 7:05PM
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snwbrdmilf
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It doesn't matter what she looks like. I'm sure she's stoked to be posted on a public forum.
Nov 18 2009 7:07PM
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Username_42069
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fuck that, get yo dick wet
Nov 18 2009 7:14PM
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Username_42069
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on a more serious note, he should not be angry. i semi, agree the previous post about small town slim pickings, but you can start getting in her when the time is right. you can just immediatly start getting cuddly with her after your friend breaks up with her. you gotta let there be some time before you throw your game on her. idk just my two cents.
Nov 18 2009 7:19PM
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AB.Zee
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hahaha

Nov 18 2009 7:20PM
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fezz
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yeah i agree but its been almost 2 months since he dumped her the second
Nov 18 2009 7:24PM
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LjayCinema
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very well put.
Nov 18 2009 7:32PM
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Username_42069
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alright, then you should be good to go. i was gonna say two months too, as gauge for time haha
good luck
Nov 18 2009 7:48PM
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Totes_Magotes
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i looked first at the one on the right... i was almost disappointed

Nov 18 2009 7:51PM
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BEARS.
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bro is before hoe is?
Nov 18 2009 7:51PM
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SpaceTiger
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Well this broad is scrobviously into your friend and probably into you to. One solution, eiffel tower.
Nov 18 2009 8:41PM
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scratchproteen
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how ever it works for you just roll with it.

with me and my buds we have always gone with the rule, that you never date a friends ex, because it just causes awkward shit all the time.
Nov 18 2009 8:47PM
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Cheezcake.
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/thread
Nov 18 2009 8:49PM
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White-Goblin
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bahahahaha funny
Nov 19 2009 4:49PM
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g.off
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based on pics.

hoes before bros. your friend sounds like a dick.
Nov 19 2009 4:51PM
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