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I need a bunch of random people on the internet to give me advice

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mattridesskis
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okay ill try to keep this short.

my best friend was dating this chick who is also one of my friends. they broke up and then after they broke up she confessed that she had sex with two other guys the week before she dumped him. now my best friend hates her, but im still friends with her. this seems to bother him.

today i told him that i was gunna be hanging out with her and other people on monday. and he actually didnt say anything, he was stunned. so now i feel like shit because im caught between two friends... and i realize that this girl is a slut, but i always knew that (lol) and i dont really care, cuz shes chill. but it seems to really bother my best friend...

(sorry for the lack of structure in my paragrahs.....)
Aug 20 2009 2:36AM
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mattridesskis
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i forgot to say: what should i do?
Aug 20 2009 2:38AM
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fsscott
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that's your four hundred twentieth post

go smoke ganja
Aug 20 2009 2:39AM
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mattridesskis
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shit i didnt even think of posting this in ladies men
Aug 20 2009 2:43AM
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jibbinc.
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cool
Aug 20 2009 2:48AM
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mattridesskis
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ahh see! this guy right here is a model of the kind of responses im expecting! 10/10 for you because you clearly helped me with my problem right?
Aug 20 2009 2:55AM
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C-DAWGSTYLEZ
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Dude you should totally hit that with the help of this thread
https://newschoolers.com/web/forums/readthread/thread_id/475129/
Aug 20 2009 3:02AM
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jibbinc.
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story
Aug 20 2009 3:03AM
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jibbinc.
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HANSEL
Aug 20 2009 3:04AM
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mattridesskis
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ouuu ouuu let me guess, let me guess! HANSEL!!!!!!
Aug 20 2009 3:05AM
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mattridesskis
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DAMN i was too late
and sorry for dub post... and pointless post....
Aug 20 2009 3:06AM
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mattridesskis
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/thread

i sent this message to her:
okay so its 3:25 in the morning and ive been up for about 2 hours just thinking about you and nick and our hangout.
so tonight i told nick that i was going to be hanging out with you and others on monday, and he was pretty upset. at the time i didnt phase me, but as i said, ive been thinking about it for 2 hours now.
this really sucks for me because i thought you were a really good girl before i heard about what you did to nick, but i dont think that we can hangout...
the saying bros before hoes comes into play right now because nick is my best friend,actually hes more like a brother to me. and you really hurt him.
i wish it didnt have to be like this, but i dont think we can ever really hangout because just me hanging out with you hurts nick and i cant stand to think about hurting my bros feelings.if im hanging out with you then im not standing by him you know? and to be honest i dont really think of you the same way as i used to... like, what you did was horrible. and i think you already know that, but you just need to know that what you did doesnt only affect nick, it changes me too.
ive never had to straight up tell someone i didnt want to be friends with them, but ive gotta say, i dont think i can continue to be friends with you.
Aug 20 2009 3:38AM
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Jibbidy
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man.  you did the right thing that's pretty cool.  BROS BEFORE HO'S FUCK THAT DUMB SLUT YOU GOT A REAL FRIEND
Aug 20 2009 3:55AM
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paige.
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I think you did the right thing, and that's a pretty well written note. The only thing she can really get upset about/ be offended by is being called a ho but it sounds like she is one.
Aug 20 2009 4:03AM
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BC.
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your guy friend needs to grow the fuck up, thats what needs to happen people break up what is this middle school?
Aug 20 2009 6:01AM
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mike91129
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You should have bolded ho
Aug 20 2009 9:02AM
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thebeesknees
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this was the right thing to do. 
Aug 20 2009 9:46AM
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