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Apology to parents

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jamers
Posts: 1311 - Karma: 164
alright nsg dont give me shit, ive just fucked around with my relationship with my parents and would like some advice quick. First off i know with my last decision i completely missapropriated the value of my relationship with my padres. So first off ive been smokin lots o nugs recently n they dont like it one bit. Ive also gotten kicked outta some shit too, but for bullshit reasons, basically theyve been hurt before. So heres the deal Ive got my summer nicely pulled together, girl, longboard, and lots n lots o free time, and i got caught with some nugs unfortunatley. Being a TARD, moms flipped a shit on me, drove me in front of the popo station n was oh so heated, thought that crazy fuck would send me in there. But anyways ive gotta write her some apology shit, my idea, and just wondered if yall had any advice. I know i fucked up big, but id like some legit responses from ya, i shouldnt post this in nsg...
+K for legit responses.
thanks
jamers
Jun 5 2009 1:35PM
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Alex=God
Posts: 2422 - Karma: 139
wait.










what?
Jun 5 2009 1:38PM
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Aaaron.
Posts: 11817 - Karma: 903
cool story bro...
honestly.

just tell her what she wants to hear.  like how irresponsible you were, and how there is no one to blame but yourself, and that you love her, and don't know what you would do with out her support.

Jun 5 2009 1:45PM
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Alex=God
Posts: 2422 - Karma: 139
wait.








what?
Jun 5 2009 1:47PM
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messplay
Posts: 4483 - Karma: 1,066
mom,
     I know what I've done and was consciensous of my decisions at the time but now looking back on it all and the worthless time and money ive spent oer that last ______ of my life I've realized whats important and worthwhile.  I know how much i have disappointed you and what i have done is not relative to the way you raised me.  Please give me this summer/time to show you what I mean and I promise no more shenanigans. I love you, thanks for everything youve always done and for looking out for what sin my best interest.

Love,
your name
Jun 5 2009 1:53PM
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Benedetto.
Posts: 2526 - Karma: 64
don't write the letter if your not going to follow through with it
Jun 5 2009 1:55PM
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I_Am_Mod
Posts: 13214 - Karma: 3,753
Just be super honest, tell your parents you made a mistake and tell them that youre gonna stop with it (or are you claiming drugs above parents?) and just go talk with them, chances are they wont let you in immediately , but its a start.................

parents can take quite the shit, so just be open about it, en be honest about how you feel, they like that :D
Jun 5 2009 2:02PM
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Billek
Posts: 5665 - Karma: 98
Wow, weed is pretty hardcore, you are such a badass. 

How in the fuck could you let weed affect your life like that.  Do you realize that your parents are the only people who will love you as long as they are alive?  Letting some petty juvenile bullshit get mixed up between you and your parents is the weakest story I have heard of.  Grow the fuck up, take responsibility for what your dumb ass did, and make your mom happy.
Jun 5 2009 2:09PM
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Totes_Magotes
Posts: 2259 - Karma: 870
show her this thread... and that your legit about everything and not gonna BS an apology..
Jun 5 2009 2:12PM
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fappy
Posts: 2960 - Karma: 15
good lord that was hard to read
Jun 5 2009 3:11PM
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PaleCelery
Posts: 7228 - Karma: 609
Tell her you've been having emotional troubles lately because you finally came out of the closet. She'll understand, its a hard thing to do.
Jun 5 2009 3:22PM
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ski-plastic
Posts: 311 - Karma: 64
Not the least bit helpful but still a legendary NSG contribute!!
Jun 5 2009 3:34PM
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PaleCelery
Posts: 7228 - Karma: 609
that sums up pretty much every post I've ever made
Jun 5 2009 3:37PM
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soulskier
Posts: 17806 - Karma: 3,841
i would help, but i have to say you owe to her to write it yourself
write it from the heart, i once had to write a deep apology letter, and once you get started it seems the words just keep coming
Jun 5 2009 4:26PM
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Kmania
Posts: 756 - Karma: 79
Listen to this guy!!!!! For the love of God!!!
Jun 5 2009 5:43PM
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the-big-lepowski
Posts: 1212 - Karma: 541
Jamie, sounds like you fucked up.  Guess I have easier because I don't have a problem staying away from advisors when high at school, but at home it might be a bit different.  Seriously though, some pot isn't worth the long term relationship with your parents.  You don't need to go on NS to solve your personal problems.  Write what you mean, not what a bunch of skiers online recommend.   Good luck man.  how was the caribean btw?
Jun 5 2009 6:46PM
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*steeze_is_good
Posts: 2886 - Karma: 721
Are you willing to give it up?
Jun 5 2009 7:09PM
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freestyler540
Posts: 13083 - Karma: 18,725
Parents, mostly mom, love you no matter what. So here is the deal, fuck the letter, thats what corporate does so that they dont have to feel regret. So this is what you should do, get busy with your days, dont stay at home. After a while they will get over it and youll be happy ever after.

And if your going to toke, dont do it around home you idiot. Go as far as you can and get high there. Hide your stuff in a box with clothing and shit and hide that box. Ive never been caught or my huge bong hasnt been found yet.

Here is the extreme solution, quit reefing and prove it to your parents. done
Jun 5 2009 7:38PM
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ski-plastic
Posts: 311 - Karma: 64
Probably why your karma reads 10/10
Jun 5 2009 7:54PM
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jibbinc
Posts: 804 - Karma: 33
be honest
Jun 5 2009 7:57PM
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Thenowhereman42
Posts: 5682 - Karma: 65

Tell her you smoke weed everyday, that doesn't make you a bad person, you love her, and she just has to accept it.

Jun 5 2009 8:02PM
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rj.
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Jun 5 2009 8:15PM
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TotallyTrevor
Posts: 4379 - Karma: 26,364
one of the most important things is to MAKE NO EXCUSES. somewhere in there you can say like "there's no excuses for what i did, it was dumb and that's that"

it'll be more sincere that way
Jun 5 2009 11:02PM
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.jesus.
Posts: 2288 - Karma: 22
apologize to your moms and dad and tell them that it'll never happen again and then this is the importiant part keep your stuff at a friends house or bury it for when you need it
Jun 6 2009 10:21PM
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