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Does anybody else have issues with people not listening/interrupting you all the time?

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TechnoPotamus
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I don't understand why, and maybe it's just me thinking that this is the case, but I feel like all the fucking time people are interrupting me and not fucking listening to me finish what I'm saying. I would love to understand why this is, or what I do that leads people to believe that what I am saying is unimportant and not worth listening to. Does anybody else experience this? Or does anyone have an explanation for me perhaps? I am not soft spoken, nor am I shy. I am loud, outgoing, and the fault I see in myself is that I'm too nice. I think that when people interrupt me or don't listen to what I'm saying I just let it slide over and over again because I'm too fucking nice. Instead I should either a.) ignore them back or b.) politely or not so politely explain that I wasn't finished talking.

Can anybody relate? I just needed to rant, I apologize.

spark notes: people interrupt me all the mother fucking time, i fucking hate it. Anybody have a similar experience. /rant, fuck people who are rude.

also, sorry for my excessive use of "fuck"
Apr 20 2009 10:51PM
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k-rob
Posts: 14217 - Karma: 2,891
no.


Apr 20 2009 10:53PM
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Bepo
Posts: 8195 - Karma: 17
what?
Apr 20 2009 10:53PM
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neutralzombie
Posts: 8629 - Karma: 606
hahah, i had a friend like that, it really bugged me. but yeah it could be a case of you being a timid person versus talking to a lot of loud mouths. if not then, one day it might just help to be like "hey, can you let someone else talk for once" kind of thing, or let me finish ...it kind of worked but i guess maybe because we were having a serious convo...
Apr 20 2009 10:58PM
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steevner
Posts: 4502 - Karma: 47
Just offer them a gift. "Hey, how 'bout a nice hot cup of SHUT THE FUCK UP!?"
Apr 20 2009 11:00PM
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Mr.Panda
Posts: 17711 - Karma: 564
i had a friend like that, he would annoy everyone...  finally someone popped him one in the jaw when he interrupted someone....  he hasnt done it since.
Apr 20 2009 11:01PM
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ClownPrince
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Yeah, that happens to me sometimes. If it's not important I usually just let it go, but if it's something that matters I try to let people know, by saying "So as I was saying..." or "Anyway..." or something.

Or just yell really loud, that works too.
Apr 20 2009 11:01PM
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mattridesskis
Posts: 635 - Karma: 17
haha, thats a grand idea
Apr 20 2009 11:03PM
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LIL_WAT
Posts: 1900 - Karma: 475
knock that motherfucker out- works every time
Apr 20 2009 11:04PM
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mark.p
Posts: 1422 - Karma: 10
sorry i can't really help you, i couldnt pay attention to the last half of what you were saying
Apr 20 2009 11:05PM
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jayo.
Posts: 5015 - Karma: 34
no. people respect me.
i joke i joke
Apr 20 2009 11:06PM
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neutralzombie
Posts: 8629 - Karma: 606
all of the above made me laugh
Apr 20 2009 11:09PM
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pho[tog]rapher
Posts: 2618 - Karma: 494
Fuck! is the word of the day.

and yes.
Apr 20 2009 11:10PM
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skiminnesota
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my mind started wandering about half way through that. care to repeat it?

i kid i kid,,,


just be assertive, when you speak, people listen. there is however a difference between asserting yourself and being an ass/bitch.

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Apr 20 2009 11:14PM
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summersover
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yeah it happens to me because i talk quietly and mumble a lot
Apr 20 2009 11:14PM
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dylansiggers
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I hate it when you forget what you were trying to say mid sentence
Apr 20 2009 11:45PM
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no_steeze
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haha i know that's
Apr 20 2009 11:46PM
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the.hellion.
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This happens to me all the time. All the fucking time. Makes me feel so unimportant and useless. If it bothers me enough I just stop interacting sometimes I just leave. If I'm with certain buddies, I pout until they get the picture.
Usually though, I just stew and get super pissed off for like 10 minutes and then forget about it.
Apr 20 2009 11:49PM
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Runthered
Posts: 208 - Karma: 7
omg man i totally hear you
i am always getting talked over and that shit pisses me off
its like i just want to be like hey fuck face let me talk for god damn minute haha
but ya i know eactly what your saying
mad vibe
Apr 20 2009 11:50PM
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uni-corn
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lol
Apr 20 2009 11:52PM
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inthewoods
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me too but i still hate those people that move around soo much that are unable to stay still and listen. It doesn't matter how interesting a conversations is, they'll just walk around and yell.
Apr 20 2009 11:53PM
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SethLangbauer
Posts: 1119 - Karma: 74
yes
Apr 20 2009 11:55PM
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Delphi
Posts: 3748 - Karma: 36
maybe you have a push-over personality. Exert your authority in conversations and command the attention of your target with eye contact and emphasize words. Either that, or just say something absolutely ridiculous to get their attention.

if that fails, you probably just have lettuce in your teeth, are annoying, or just have terrible breath (halitosis)
Apr 21 2009 12:00AM
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TechnoPotamus
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funny responses haha made me not so annoyed by it anymore.
Apr 21 2009 12:10AM
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Delphi
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don't worry bro, people like the ones you are talking about are bitches.
Apr 21 2009 12:12AM
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Enjoi.
Posts: 297 - Karma: 9
Everytime I go jack off my parent tell me to do some chore. It pisses me off so much because I have to wait like 5 min to get my boner down and they start getting pissed and shit.
Apr 21 2009 12:16AM
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TechnoPotamus
Posts: 11626 - Karma: 3,522
they are. it's just frustrating when it happens often in one day. It just makes me want to punch people in the face so they'll stop doing it
Apr 21 2009 12:20AM
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wolf.
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dude holy shit that happens to me all the time. i hate it. maybe cause i always get into telling these stories and then people wont listen to the ending and it makes me so mad! i dont think it has anything to do with you, its the people that are stupid and think they are most important and trust me i feel ya, it makes you feel like shit because its like no one cares what you have to say
Apr 21 2009 12:39AM
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*LiNeLover*
Posts: 1224 - Karma: 256
omg THIS happens To ME all THe Time. i FeeL also AS though Im WaY too nice and If Im TRying tO teLL sOMEONE something really ImportANT theY Just Interupt and I FEel LikE thEY dONT carE and thEn i neVER geT to Finish what i was saying so Then SHIt JusT bUIlds UP. Its sooo fucking FrusturatinG whEN pEOPLe  cant just listin and not inTerupt... THIS made my day A wHOLE loT better heariNG thAT thIS hAPPens to somONE ELse oTheR Then just mE uggh. i feel for you..  and I DeFF thiNK itS  a ResULT of Being tOO nIce cAUSe iM waY too NIce Too i THINK...
Apr 21 2009 1:03AM
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pho[tog]rapher
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^ that had better be an "L O L - J K!"
Apr 21 2009 1:10AM
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VT_scratch
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IM EXACTLY THE SAME.
Apr 21 2009 1:24AM
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*LiNeLover*
Posts: 1224 - Karma: 256
wow... same here haha
Apr 21 2009 1:35AM
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JordanClarke
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ya dude i relate to you.. its annoying
Apr 21 2009 1:48AM
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KEVTRON
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i believe its just some people that you talk to are like that cause not everyone i know does it only a select few and it pisses me off too
Apr 21 2009 8:34AM
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Mr.O
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I can relate to this very much. I have a cousin that will not even show you attention til you scream his name in his face, and then he gets angry and says "What do you want?" or "I heard you but I was doing something."

As for being interrupting me, people do this to me a lot too. I just stop talking when that happens.
Apr 21 2009 8:39AM
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urbanjib
Posts: 1801 - Karma: 255
my dad... he screams and shiit, and wont let you talk, even if hes being an idiot, and obviously worng... Like tha fact that im ruining the family because i argued with him once... Huh?
Apr 21 2009 8:44AM
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nick_GAPER
Posts: 1033 - Karma: 7,747
i hate it when you are trying to talk on the phone with someone and there is a ton of other shit going on in hte backround and its annoying
Apr 21 2009 8:49AM
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Barefootin_Fiend
Posts: 7618 - Karma: 4,727
this.

become an 'alpha male' and you won't have that problem. you're really the only one who can change it.
Apr 21 2009 9:50AM
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VT_FLO
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you could just be hanging out with a bunch of immature douche bags. I never get interrupted except by this one retarded kid who thinks he's the shit, doesn't get girls, is bad at skiing, a borderline alcoholic and is still a virgin
Apr 21 2009 10:12AM
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Casey
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Maybe what you are saying is just not that interesting
Apr 21 2009 10:44AM
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Oli_jgb
Posts: 985 - Karma: 95
Just say:

"Sorry...err I'm pretty sure I hadn't finished speaking"

"Did you parents not tell you that it's rude to interrupt?"

or wait until they have finished and completely ignore what they have said and start with
"AS I was saying...[continue speaking]"

Usually jokes on the person who interrupted you. Especially if you can make a joke out of someone who always interrupts.

I kinda used to have this problem, but I ended up turning it on the person who was being rude. Problem solved, jokes on them, they stopped doing it.
Apr 21 2009 10:55AM
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Aaaron.
Posts: 11817 - Karma: 903
whenever i am in a rap battle, i spit out a banger first line, and everyone interrupts and congratulates me before i can finish my flow.
makes me want to cut a fool.
Apr 21 2009 10:56AM
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OhMyBosh
Posts: 5056 - Karma: 171
And then i went to this place and it was really sick... oh, what? were you saying something?
Apr 21 2009 10:58AM
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johnnypsunami
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chances are you are a good listener who thinks too much before they go into a conversation. stop waiting for gaps to speak your piece and start what you are trying to say before the other person even stops. Its not a matter of cutting people off, but just knowing when to jump into the conversation.

Apr 21 2009 12:51PM
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TechnoPotamus
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that's such a girl thing to do, i hate it too. it's like...don't pick up if you can't talk or if its loud, easy decision.
Apr 21 2009 2:52PM
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