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Runthered
Posts: 208 - Karma: 7
so i am taking a girl on a first date this weekend coming up
what do you guys think is a good spo to take her too
i want to have fun or just chill and maybe say save some money
i was thinking a movie or something but i dont know
ladies what impresses you when a guy takes you out
just let me know

thanks ns...
Apr 14 2009 9:26AM
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InkShrink
Posts: 1079 - Karma: 30

Dinner and a movie is too typical these days, you gotta do something different. Agreed on the fun and chill part. Movies for a first date puts a lot of pressure on both of you....sitting together in a dark room...do you make a move? Does she? Should you share the arm rest? For most guys too many things run through their mind during a movie...

opt for something you can do together. putt putt golf is fun, laser tag, go karts, etc....girls like it when they can interact with you instead of just sitting there.

Apr 14 2009 9:32AM
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Barefootin_Fiend
Posts: 7618 - Karma: 4,727
this is about 123489735 x a better idea than going to a movie for a first date...remember to let her win.
Apr 14 2009 9:54AM
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steezeaholic.
Posts: 894 - Karma: 39

yess do one of these!

Apr 14 2009 9:58AM
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Runthered
Posts: 208 - Karma: 7
kk well i think i will then what do you think of bowling
Apr 14 2009 10:01AM
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InkShrink
Posts: 1079 - Karma: 30

Don't always let her win, not all girls like that. If she always wins its not fun, make it a challenge. Make a bet, say if she scores on you then idk...you'll get her ice cream, and if you score on her, no ice cream. Stuff like that.

Oh, and don't over do the compliments, girls like cheesy stuff but only to a certain extent.

Apr 14 2009 10:03AM
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uni-corn
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But get her ice cream anyway
Apr 14 2009 10:27AM
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Peter.
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definitely not a movie, because you can't talk

go for a walk somewhere
Apr 14 2009 10:35AM
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steviecakes
Posts: 83 - Karma: 10
movie + first date = awkward. do something interactive like everyone else said. then end it with something chill/relaxing. a coffee shop with an open mic night usually does it for me. if whoever is singing is good, you can enjoy the music together. if not, you can make fun of him/her together. or disregard it completely and play board games which (for me at least) usually leads to interesting conversation.
Apr 14 2009 10:45AM
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SKIDUBAIGUY
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MMMMMM delicious
Apr 14 2009 10:48AM
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SKIDUBAIGUY
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Oh yeah, thats out my window btw haha.
Apr 14 2009 10:49AM
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InkShrink
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I actually like board games, stuff like Life, chess, sorry and others are fun because you have to think about it. When I'm focused on winning I'm already having fun because i'm competing. A lil side bet is a sweet incentive too.

Apr 14 2009 10:55AM
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whitewater413
Posts: 528 - Karma: 215
i just get em in my hottub and its a wrap
Apr 14 2009 12:42PM
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nick_GAPER
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take them skiing
Apr 14 2009 12:46PM
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Z_rob
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no kick her ass.

Apr 14 2009 3:24PM
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Captain-T
Posts: 855 - Karma: 47

Ok this one has been fool proof for me. Pull the old switcheroo. Go to the movie first, then the dinner. It gives you at least one thing to talk about with her during the dinner. And try and make it all tied in. If your seeing an italian movie, get italian food afterwards. Shit like that. Works like a charm. Just do whatever your doing before the dinner. Its a fool proof convo starter.

Apr 14 2009 3:39PM
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*LiNeLover*
Posts: 1224 - Karma: 256
deff dont go to a movie.. just like the girl up there said- it puts all this pressure on the both of you that is un needed. dates are the best when they are relaxing and fun!! thats what you want. you want to be able to talk to the girl as well. so go do something fun and in the outdoors or like mini gold something like that where you can be flirty and goof off. if you wanna get food go to a really relaxing enviorment that is fun!
Apr 14 2009 4:31PM
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Captain-T
Posts: 855 - Karma: 47
Yeaaaaaa listen to the women folk. They have a bit more cred and experience on what they like over a male such as myself.
Apr 14 2009 4:36PM
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Mr.Panda
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besides, most movies out right now fucking blow.

for my first one we went to the snake river and got lucky that a mutual friend owned a boat so we went wakeboarding.  there was four of us so it wasnt awkward...  two couples.  afterwards we went to dinner and then just went for a nice long walk.
Apr 14 2009 4:38PM
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Goku
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if u kno anyone that has lake access ur set. we have this 12ft wide tube thing that has chairs in it and holds 8 ppl, its pretty ballin in the summer
Apr 14 2009 4:43PM
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ElbridgeGerry
Posts: 5902 - Karma: -27
Go to some place in the mall

Make that bitch get you a chicken sammich and some waffle fries FOR FREE
Apr 14 2009 4:45PM
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bout_it
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haha
Apr 14 2009 4:50PM
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JQ89
Posts: 432 - Karma: 10
the funny thing is that even when i go to like a mini golf place, i suck and dont even have to let her win, she does anyway haha
Apr 14 2009 5:49PM
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Beer=Yum
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i have sadly lost at mini golf a few times not on purpose. i've also been dating a girl for 3 years so of course she'll never let me live it down.

if anyone has any cool idea for stuff to do thats fun that you think we havent done let me know. i'm always looking for fun stuff we havent done before to spice stuff up. and we've pretty much done everything.

Apr 14 2009 6:22PM
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snowbird4life
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im sure you're much to young for this but go out to a club and chill? treat her as a good friend dont be sweet or whatever..... once the alcohol gets flowin you'll know if she likes you or not pretty quick.

and i dont mean fuckin crunk stickin your hand up her passed out skirt.... just socially buzzin'

Apr 14 2009 6:33PM
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kabozo101
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bowling is tits. it's a ton of fun and it's a place where you can both actually interact. def better than a movie.
Apr 14 2009 7:06PM
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