are you serious? so your only ok with gay people who dont express that they are gay? thats fucked up. do you know how many times a day i hear "oh dude i totally fucked that girl," "i hooked up with so many chicks in the past few weeks," "ya man, i had her naked on my bed! it was great!"
how often do you hear gay people say things like that? think about it from a gay persons perspective- he/she has to put up with all of those types of comments every day. you may not realize it, but what you said is hypocritical (assuming you have ever talked about something you have done with a girl... to anybody in a public place) because you dont like something that some, more flamerish, gay people do, while you (again this is an assumption, however, if it isnt true for you, it is for about 90% of straight people) say stuff like that without even giving it a second thought. The instant a gay person says something like that, people flip a shit! its outrageous.
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